{"id":9385,"date":"2024-01-27T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-27T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=9385"},"modified":"2024-01-27T11:48:22","modified_gmt":"2024-01-27T11:48:22","slug":"pro-inspiraci-astroporadna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2024\/01\/27\/pro-inspiraci-astroporadna\/","title":{"rendered":"Pro inspiraci: p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy z rubriky Astroporadna"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V medu\u0148kov\u00e9 rubrice <strong><em>Astroporadna<\/em><\/strong> zodpov\u011bd\u011bla astropsycholo\u017eka a terapeutka <em><strong>PhDr. Marie Plochov\u00e1 Hl\u00e1vkov\u00e1<\/strong><\/em> b\u011bhem let \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm u\u017e velmi mnoho r\u016fznorod\u00fdch dotaz\u016f. <strong>N\u011bkter\u00e9 dorazy i odpov\u011bdi jist\u011b stoj\u00ed za p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed i s odstupem \u010dasu, proto\u017ee mohou b\u00fdt inspirac\u00ed pro ty, kdo n\u011bco podobn\u00e9ho pro\u017eili nebo pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dotaz \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky Ladislavy:<\/strong><br>M\u00e1m posledn\u00ed roky \u0161\u00edlenou hr\u016fzu z toho, \u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b z\u016fstanu \u00fapln\u011b sama, bez prost\u0159edk\u016f, bez p\u0159\u00e1tel, n\u011bkde na ulici nebo budu sb\u00edrat odpadky a p\u0159e\u017e\u00edvat jako bezdomovec. Tento strach m\u011b pron\u00e1sleduje s obrovskou intenzitou. Dote\u010f se pokou\u0161\u00edm dostudovat d\u00e1lkov\u011b st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kolu. Beru l\u00e9ky na psychiku, se kter\u00fdmi se mi \u0161patn\u011b u\u010d\u00ed do \u0161koly. Zkou\u0161ela jsem je i vysadit. Bohu\u017eel t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 okam\u017eit\u011b mi za\u010daly siln\u00e9 deprese, \u00fazkosti a no\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fry o m\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m profesorovi housl\u00ed, d\u00edky kter\u00e9mu jsem nedokon\u010dila konzervato\u0159 pr\u00e1v\u011b kv\u016fli bloku, kter\u00fd se mi u n\u011bho stal. Byl tam ur\u010dit\u00fd sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed podtext s t\u00edm, \u017ee pokud n\u011bkomu n\u011bco \u0159eknu, budu karmicky potrest\u00e1na. Sed\u011bla jsem mu na kl\u00edn\u011b a vn\u00edmala \u010distou hr\u016fzu a pocit, \u017ee se &#8222;nem\u016f\u017eu&#8220; a nesm\u00edm br\u00e1nit, jinak se mi n\u011bco stane. Nepovedlo se mu m\u00edt se mnou sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed styk, ale nem\u011bla jsem od t\u00e9 doby \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd vztah s mu\u017eem. Je to 9 let zp\u011bt. M\u00e1m strach ze star\u0161\u00edch mu\u017e\u016f. Ale jakoby se mi postupn\u011b p\u0159est\u00e1valo v \u017eivot\u011b da\u0159it u\u017e od m\u00fdch osmi let. Nyn\u00ed se mi neda\u0159\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed oblasti. V\u0161ude m\u00e1m klacky pod nohama. A do toho m\u016fj strach. Z \u010deho pramen\u00ed m\u016fj strach, hr\u016fza, ten pocit, \u017ee je v\u0161echno zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 &#8211; \u017ee skon\u010d\u00edm v \u017eivot\u011b \u0161patn\u011b i p\u0159esto, \u017ee se budu jakkoliv sna\u017eit?<br>\u010cten\u00e1\u0159ka Ladislava se narodila 23.7.1993, 8:40 ve Zl\u00edn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Odpov\u011b\u010f astropsycholo\u017eky:<\/strong><br>Pan\u00ed Ladislavo, dovedu si p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee bojujete ve v\u0161ech sm\u011brech s tmou a strachem. Vych\u00e1z\u00edm v\u0161ak v\u017edy z toho, \u017ee s klacky pod nohami, s \u00fazkostmi, no\u010dn\u00edmi m\u016frami a strachem z mu\u017e\u016f se \u010dlov\u011bk nerod\u00ed. Tyto t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 stavy dle m\u00e9ho nikdy nevzniknou samy od sebe, proto\u017ee pokud bychom \u017eili v souladu s p\u0159irozen\u00fdm plynut\u00edm a sv\u00fdmi instinkty, nic takov\u00e9ho bychom neza\u017e\u00edvali. Jsou to tedy indik\u00e1tory odch\u00fdlen\u00ed sama od sebe, v\u00fdsledek nezpracovan\u00fdch psychick\u00fdch zran\u011bn\u00ed, stres\u016f a traumat. Proto je vynikaj\u00edc\u00ed, \u017ee se sv\u00fdmi pot\u00ed\u017eemi chcete n\u011bco d\u011blat i jinou ne\u017e \u201epilulkovou\u201c cestou.<br>Pohled do va\u0161eho horoskopu je velmi zaj\u00edmav\u00fd, proto\u017ee dle va\u0161eho popisu bych v n\u011bm o\u010dek\u00e1vala klasick\u00e9 t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 konstelace, osobn\u00ed planety v nap\u011b\u0165ov\u00e9m postaven\u00ed s Plutem, Saturnem nebo Lilith. Ov\u0161em \u017e\u00e1dnou z t\u011bchto n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch konstelac\u00ed nem\u00e1te! Pluto, Saturn i Lilith jsou postaven\u00e9 relativn\u011b neutr\u00e1ln\u011b, respektive nepo\u0161kozuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dnou osobn\u00ed planetu nebo d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd bod. To je velmi povzbuzuj\u00edc\u00ed informace, proto\u017ee to dle m\u00e9ho znamen\u00e1, \u017ee va\u0161e pot\u00ed\u017ee pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b nemaj\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9 hlubok\u00e9 genera\u010dn\u00ed destruktivn\u00ed ko\u0159eny a mohly by b\u00fdt \u201epouze\u201c reakc\u00ed na zahlcen\u00ed v podob\u011b vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho traumatu z d\u011btstv\u00ed nebo dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Tuto hypot\u00e9zu potvrzuje i v\u00e1\u0161 popis sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho traumatu s u\u010ditelem. V prvn\u00edm dom\u011b horoskopu m\u00e1te konstelaci Luna\/Mars v konjunkci, kter\u00e1 je z\u00e1rove\u0148 v kvadratu\u0159e na Venu\u0161i. Konstelaci Luna\/Mars je mo\u017en\u00e9 vylo\u017eit jako mu\u017eskou agresi a \u00fatok (Mars) na va\u0161i niternou individualitu, na va\u0161e emoce a vnit\u0159n\u00ed citov\u00fd \u017eivot (Luna). Je to konfrontace tvrd\u00e9 mu\u017esk\u00e9 energie s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm citliv\u00fdm a m\u011bkk\u00fdm, \u017eensk\u00fdm. Mars je z\u00e1rove\u0148 i v kvadratu\u0159e na Venu\u0161i, tud\u00ed\u017e \u00fato\u010d\u00ed i na druhou velkou \u017eenskou planetu. Dle t\u011bchto konstelac\u00ed si tedy trouf\u00e1m tvrdit, \u017ee jste musela ji\u017e jako mal\u00e1 za\u017e\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9 ohro\u017een\u00ed v podob\u011b invaze do va\u0161eho teritoria, nerespekt k va\u0161im pocit\u016fm a \u017eenskosti a tvrdou nemilosrdnou energii, kter\u00e1 p\u0159ekra\u010dovala va\u0161e hranice.<br>Domn\u00edv\u00e1m se, \u017ee mocensk\u00e9 a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed trauma s va\u0161\u00edm u\u010ditelem na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole bylo vrcholkem ledovce je\u0161t\u011b star\u0161\u00edch ohro\u017een\u00ed z d\u011btstv\u00ed. Pochopiteln\u011b v\u00e1s toto trauma ze st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161koly muselo siln\u011b po\u0161kodit a je velmi smutn\u00e9, \u017ee k tomu doch\u00e1zelo. S n\u00e1sledky tohoto zneu\u017eit\u00ed nepochybn\u011b bojujete dodnes v podob\u011b va\u0161ich t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch stav\u016f a strachu z mu\u017e\u016f. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b trouf\u00e1m si tvrdit, \u017ee k n\u011bjak\u00e9mu podobn\u00e9mu zahlcen\u00ed a p\u0159ekro\u010den\u00ed va\u0161ich hranic muselo z\u0159ejm\u011b doj\u00edt jednor\u00e1zov\u011b nebo v\u00edcekr\u00e1t u\u017e i v ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed, jinak by se v\u00e1m to dle m\u00e9ho na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole takto nep\u0159ehr\u00e1lo. Nemuselo se jednat p\u0159\u00edmo o trauma sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho r\u00e1zu, ale ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b to byl asi v ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek zahlcen\u00ed, strachu, nemo\u017enosti za sebe bojovat nebo z t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 situace ut\u00e9ct. Vzhledem k tomu, \u017ee m\u00e1me co do \u010din\u011bn\u00ed s nap\u011b\u0165ovou Martovskou konstelac\u00ed, asi jste mohla onen z\u00e1\u017eitek vn\u00edmat jako n\u00e1sil\u00ed a ohro\u017een\u00ed, a to i p\u0159esto, \u017ee na vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho pozorovatele to nemuselo p\u016fsobit p\u0159\u00edmo n\u00e1siln\u011b. Ale n\u00e1sil\u00ed m\u00e1 mnoho podob a nejv\u00edce nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 je n\u00e1sil\u00ed psychick\u00e9, pasivn\u011b agresivn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 p\u016fsob\u00ed \u010dasto \u00fapln\u011b nen\u00e1padn\u00e9.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br><strong>Pan\u00ed Ladislavo, doporu\u010duji v\u00e1m tedy zap\u00e1trat ve sv\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed a zavzpom\u00ednat, jak\u00e9 v\u0161echny stresov\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky si v sob\u011b nesete. <\/strong>Jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee jsou to pr\u00e1v\u011b star\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 paral\u00fdzy a pocity ohro\u017een\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m moment\u00e1ln\u011b blokuj\u00ed mo\u017enost norm\u00e1ln\u011b \u017e\u00edt. V\u00e1\u0161 strach, \u017ee z\u016fstanete \u00fapln\u011b sama, bez pen\u011bz a jako bezdomovec, ukazuje na ned\u016fv\u011bru ve va\u0161e m\u00edsto na sv\u011bt\u011b. N\u011bkdo nebo n\u011bco ve v\u00e1s vzbudilo pocit, \u017ee nem\u00e1te n\u00e1rok na v\u00e1\u0161 prostor, \u017ee nem\u00e1te hodnotu, \u017ee va\u0161e pocity a pot\u0159eby nejsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u00e1m doporu\u010duji si v n\u011bjak\u00e9 terapii zpracov\u00e1vat trauma ze sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho zneu\u017eit\u00ed sv\u00fdm u\u010ditelem ze st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161koly. Jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee kdy\u017e tato traumata pomalu vypust\u00edte z t\u011bla, vypl\u00e1\u010dete je nebo vyvztek\u00e1te, ulev\u00ed se v\u00e1m a v\u011b\u0159\u00edm tomu, \u017ee se va\u0161e stavy zlep\u0161\u00ed. Je to ov\u0161em b\u011bh na dlouhou tra\u0165. Dr\u017e\u00edm v\u00e1m palce!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                                                                                        Mgr. Marie Plochov\u00e1 Hl\u00e1vkov\u00e1, Ph.D.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V medu\u0148kov\u00e9 rubrice Astroporadna zodpov\u011bd\u011bla astropsycholo\u017eka a terapeutka PhDr. Marie Plochov\u00e1 Hl\u00e1vkov\u00e1 b\u011bhem let \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm u\u017e velmi mnoho r\u016fznorod\u00fdch dotaz\u016f. N\u011bkter\u00e9 dorazy i odpov\u011bdi jist\u011b stoj\u00ed za p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed i s odstupem \u010dasu, proto\u017ee mohou b\u00fdt inspirac\u00ed pro ty, kdo n\u011bco podobn\u00e9ho pro\u017eili nebo pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed&#8230; Dotaz \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky Ladislavy:M\u00e1m posledn\u00ed roky \u0161\u00edlenou hr\u016fzu z toho, \u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b z\u016fstanu \u00fapln\u011b sama, bez prost\u0159edk\u016f, bez p\u0159\u00e1tel, n\u011bkde na ulici nebo budu sb\u00edrat odpadky a p\u0159e\u017e\u00edvat jako bezdomovec. Tento strach m\u011b pron\u00e1sleduje s obrovskou intenzitou. Dote\u010f se pokou\u0161\u00edm dostudovat d\u00e1lkov\u011b st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kolu. Beru l\u00e9ky na psychiku, se kter\u00fdmi se mi \u0161patn\u011b u\u010d\u00ed do \u0161koly. Zkou\u0161ela jsem je i vysadit. Bohu\u017eel t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 okam\u017eit\u011b mi za\u010daly siln\u00e9 deprese, \u00fazkosti a no\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fry o m\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m profesorovi housl\u00ed, d\u00edky kter\u00e9mu jsem nedokon\u010dila konzervato\u0159 pr\u00e1v\u011b kv\u016fli bloku, kter\u00fd se mi u n\u011bho stal. Byl tam ur\u010dit\u00fd sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed podtext s t\u00edm, \u017ee pokud n\u011bkomu n\u011bco \u0159eknu, budu karmicky potrest\u00e1na. Sed\u011bla jsem mu na kl\u00edn\u011b a vn\u00edmala \u010distou hr\u016fzu a pocit, \u017ee se &#8222;nem\u016f\u017eu&#8220; a nesm\u00edm br\u00e1nit, jinak se mi n\u011bco stane. Nepovedlo se mu m\u00edt se mnou sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed styk, ale nem\u011bla jsem od t\u00e9 doby \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd vztah s mu\u017eem. Je to 9 let zp\u011bt. M\u00e1m strach ze star\u0161\u00edch mu\u017e\u016f. Ale jakoby se mi postupn\u011b p\u0159est\u00e1valo v \u017eivot\u011b da\u0159it u\u017e od m\u00fdch osmi let. Nyn\u00ed se mi neda\u0159\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed oblasti. V\u0161ude m\u00e1m klacky pod nohama. A do toho m\u016fj strach. Z \u010deho pramen\u00ed m\u016fj strach, hr\u016fza, ten pocit, \u017ee je v\u0161echno zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 &#8211; \u017ee skon\u010d\u00edm v \u017eivot\u011b \u0161patn\u011b i p\u0159esto, \u017ee se budu jakkoliv sna\u017eit?\u010cten\u00e1\u0159ka Ladislava se narodila 23.7.1993, 8:40 ve Zl\u00edn\u011b. Odpov\u011b\u010f astropsycholo\u017eky:Pan\u00ed Ladislavo, dovedu si p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee bojujete ve v\u0161ech sm\u011brech s tmou a strachem. Vych\u00e1z\u00edm v\u0161ak v\u017edy z toho, \u017ee s klacky pod nohami, s \u00fazkostmi, no\u010dn\u00edmi m\u016frami a strachem z mu\u017e\u016f se \u010dlov\u011bk nerod\u00ed. Tyto t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 stavy dle m\u00e9ho nikdy nevzniknou samy od sebe, proto\u017ee pokud bychom \u017eili v souladu s p\u0159irozen\u00fdm plynut\u00edm a sv\u00fdmi instinkty, nic takov\u00e9ho bychom neza\u017e\u00edvali. Jsou to tedy indik\u00e1tory odch\u00fdlen\u00ed sama od sebe, v\u00fdsledek nezpracovan\u00fdch psychick\u00fdch zran\u011bn\u00ed, stres\u016f a traumat. Proto je vynikaj\u00edc\u00ed, \u017ee se sv\u00fdmi pot\u00ed\u017eemi chcete n\u011bco d\u011blat i jinou ne\u017e \u201epilulkovou\u201c cestou.Pohled do va\u0161eho horoskopu je velmi zaj\u00edmav\u00fd, proto\u017ee dle va\u0161eho popisu bych v n\u011bm o\u010dek\u00e1vala klasick\u00e9 t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 konstelace, osobn\u00ed planety v nap\u011b\u0165ov\u00e9m postaven\u00ed s Plutem, Saturnem nebo Lilith. Ov\u0161em \u017e\u00e1dnou z t\u011bchto n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch konstelac\u00ed nem\u00e1te! Pluto, Saturn i Lilith jsou postaven\u00e9 relativn\u011b neutr\u00e1ln\u011b, respektive nepo\u0161kozuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dnou osobn\u00ed planetu nebo d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd bod. To je velmi povzbuzuj\u00edc\u00ed informace, proto\u017ee to dle m\u00e9ho znamen\u00e1, \u017ee va\u0161e pot\u00ed\u017ee pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b nemaj\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9 hlubok\u00e9 genera\u010dn\u00ed destruktivn\u00ed ko\u0159eny a mohly by b\u00fdt \u201epouze\u201c reakc\u00ed na zahlcen\u00ed v podob\u011b vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho traumatu z d\u011btstv\u00ed nebo dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Tuto hypot\u00e9zu potvrzuje i v\u00e1\u0161 popis sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho traumatu s u\u010ditelem. V prvn\u00edm dom\u011b horoskopu m\u00e1te konstelaci Luna\/Mars v konjunkci, kter\u00e1 je z\u00e1rove\u0148 v kvadratu\u0159e na Venu\u0161i. Konstelaci Luna\/Mars je mo\u017en\u00e9 vylo\u017eit jako mu\u017eskou agresi a \u00fatok (Mars) na va\u0161i niternou individualitu, na va\u0161e emoce a vnit\u0159n\u00ed citov\u00fd \u017eivot (Luna). Je to konfrontace tvrd\u00e9 mu\u017esk\u00e9 energie s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm citliv\u00fdm a m\u011bkk\u00fdm, \u017eensk\u00fdm. Mars je z\u00e1rove\u0148 i v kvadratu\u0159e na Venu\u0161i, tud\u00ed\u017e \u00fato\u010d\u00ed i na druhou velkou \u017eenskou planetu. Dle t\u011bchto konstelac\u00ed si tedy trouf\u00e1m tvrdit, \u017ee jste musela ji\u017e jako mal\u00e1 za\u017e\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9 ohro\u017een\u00ed v podob\u011b invaze do va\u0161eho teritoria, nerespekt k va\u0161im pocit\u016fm a \u017eenskosti a tvrdou nemilosrdnou energii, kter\u00e1 p\u0159ekra\u010dovala va\u0161e hranice.Domn\u00edv\u00e1m se, \u017ee mocensk\u00e9 a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed trauma s va\u0161\u00edm u\u010ditelem na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole bylo vrcholkem ledovce je\u0161t\u011b star\u0161\u00edch ohro\u017een\u00ed z d\u011btstv\u00ed. Pochopiteln\u011b v\u00e1s toto trauma ze st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161koly muselo siln\u011b po\u0161kodit a je velmi smutn\u00e9, \u017ee k tomu doch\u00e1zelo. S n\u00e1sledky tohoto zneu\u017eit\u00ed nepochybn\u011b bojujete dodnes v podob\u011b va\u0161ich t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch stav\u016f a strachu z mu\u017e\u016f. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b trouf\u00e1m si tvrdit, \u017ee k n\u011bjak\u00e9mu podobn\u00e9mu zahlcen\u00ed a p\u0159ekro\u010den\u00ed va\u0161ich hranic muselo z\u0159ejm\u011b doj\u00edt jednor\u00e1zov\u011b nebo v\u00edcekr\u00e1t u\u017e i v ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed, jinak by se v\u00e1m to dle m\u00e9ho na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole takto nep\u0159ehr\u00e1lo. Nemuselo se jednat p\u0159\u00edmo o trauma sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho r\u00e1zu, ale ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b to byl asi v ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek zahlcen\u00ed, strachu, nemo\u017enosti za sebe bojovat nebo z t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 situace ut\u00e9ct. Vzhledem k tomu, \u017ee m\u00e1me co do \u010din\u011bn\u00ed s nap\u011b\u0165ovou Martovskou konstelac\u00ed, asi jste mohla onen z\u00e1\u017eitek vn\u00edmat jako n\u00e1sil\u00ed a ohro\u017een\u00ed, a to i p\u0159esto, \u017ee na vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho pozorovatele to nemuselo p\u016fsobit p\u0159\u00edmo n\u00e1siln\u011b. Ale n\u00e1sil\u00ed m\u00e1 mnoho podob a nejv\u00edce nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 je n\u00e1sil\u00ed psychick\u00e9, pasivn\u011b agresivn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 p\u016fsob\u00ed \u010dasto \u00fapln\u011b nen\u00e1padn\u00e9.&nbsp;&nbsp;Pan\u00ed Ladislavo, doporu\u010duji v\u00e1m tedy zap\u00e1trat ve sv\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed a zavzpom\u00ednat, jak\u00e9 v\u0161echny stresov\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky si v sob\u011b nesete. Jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee jsou to pr\u00e1v\u011b star\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 paral\u00fdzy a pocity ohro\u017een\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m moment\u00e1ln\u011b blokuj\u00ed mo\u017enost norm\u00e1ln\u011b \u017e\u00edt. V\u00e1\u0161 strach, \u017ee z\u016fstanete \u00fapln\u011b sama, bez pen\u011bz a jako bezdomovec, ukazuje na ned\u016fv\u011bru ve va\u0161e m\u00edsto na sv\u011bt\u011b. N\u011bkdo nebo n\u011bco ve v\u00e1s vzbudilo pocit, \u017ee nem\u00e1te n\u00e1rok na v\u00e1\u0161 prostor, \u017ee nem\u00e1te hodnotu, \u017ee va\u0161e pocity a pot\u0159eby nejsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u00e1m doporu\u010duji si v n\u011bjak\u00e9 terapii zpracov\u00e1vat trauma ze sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho zneu\u017eit\u00ed sv\u00fdm u\u010ditelem ze st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161koly. Jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee kdy\u017e tato traumata pomalu vypust\u00edte z t\u011bla, vypl\u00e1\u010dete je nebo vyvztek\u00e1te, ulev\u00ed se v\u00e1m a v\u011b\u0159\u00edm tomu, \u017ee se va\u0161e stavy zlep\u0161\u00ed. Je to ov\u0161em b\u011bh na dlouhou tra\u0165. Dr\u017e\u00edm v\u00e1m palce! Mgr. Marie Plochov\u00e1 Hl\u00e1vkov\u00e1, Ph.D.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9388,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,31,20,33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-medunka","category-pro-inspiraci","category-psychologie","category-rady-a-tipy"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9385"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9385\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9387,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9385\/revisions\/9387"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9388"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}