{"id":605,"date":"2019-02-25T06:00:14","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T06:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=605"},"modified":"2019-02-22T09:08:32","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T09:08:32","slug":"jakou-zenou-chcete-byt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2019\/02\/25\/jakou-zenou-chcete-byt\/","title":{"rendered":"Jakou \u017eenou chcete b\u00fdt?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-428 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/knihy_komin-1200x900.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kniha Pozitivn\u00ed \u017eensk\u00e9 archetypy, L\u00e9\u010div\u00e1 s\u00edla p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f od Judity Peschlov\u00e9 (vy\u0161la v medu\u0148kov\u00e9 edici) je pomocnic\u00ed a pr\u016fvodkyn\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 se rozhodla pro pozitivn\u00ed zm\u011bny ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b a pro prom\u011bnu sv\u00e9ho archetypu.<br \/>\nJak na to? Odpov\u011bdi najdete v knize, kterou m\u016f\u017eete z\u00edskat p\u0159es n\u00e1\u0161 e-shop.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.obchodmedunka.cz\/\">www.obchodmedunka.cz<\/a><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kr\u00e1sa, hloupost, moudrost<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>\u201eKr\u00e1sa je \u017eivot sn\u00edmaj\u00edc\u00ed z\u00e1voj ze\u00a0sv\u00e9 tv\u00e1\u0159e.\u201c\u00a0D\u00e9mokritos <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Jedn\u00edm z\u00a0nejzn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00edch, nejsmutn\u011bji proslaven\u00fdch, a \u017eel velice za\u017eit\u00fdch archetyp\u016f je \u201ekr\u00e1sn\u00e1, le\u010d hloup\u00e1 \u017eena\u201c. Tento kdysi prad\u00e1vno vytvo\u0159en\u00fd archetyp byl po stalet\u00ed udr\u017eovan\u00fd a upev\u0148ovan\u00fd ve v\u011bdom\u00ed jedinc\u016f natolik, \u017ee se nakonec stal regul\u00e9rn\u00ed sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed kolektivn\u00edho nev\u011bdom\u00ed lidstva, oko\u0159en\u011bn\u00fd\u00a0obl\u00edben\u00fdm heslem \u201edlouh\u00e9 vlasy, kr\u00e1tk\u00fd rozum\u201c. Ti z\u00a0v\u00e1s, kte\u0159\u00ed pat\u0159\u00edte k trochu star\u0161\u00ed generaci, ruku na srdce, kolik kr\u00e1t za \u017eivot jste sly\u0161eli, nebo dokonce sami vyslovili toto nespravedliv\u00e9 a nepodlo\u017een\u00e9 prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed?<br \/>\nM\u00e1lo osobnost\u00ed se vyjad\u0159ovalo o kr\u00e1se \u017een tak pozitivn\u011b, jako v\u00fd\u0161e citovan\u00fd \u201esm\u011bj\u00edc\u00ed se \u0159eck\u00fd filosof\u201c D\u00e9mokritos, a\u010dkoli se jim p\u016fvabn\u00e9 d\u00e1my ur\u010dit\u011b l\u00edbily v\u00edc, ne\u017e ty, kter\u00e9 natolik p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9 nebyly. N\u011bmeck\u00fd spisovatel Jean Paul nap\u0159\u00edklad prohl\u00e1sil, \u017ee \u201ekr\u00e1sa nen\u00ed znakem dobroty, leda ve\u00a0st\u00e1\u0159\u00ed\u201c. \u010cesk\u00fd spisovatel Ladislav Mu\u0161ka za\u0161el snad a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 daleko, kdy\u017e si troufl tvrdit, \u017ee \u201en\u00e1padn\u011b hezk\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m mnohdy chyb\u00ed schopnost k\u00a0l\u00e1sce.\u201c!\u00a0Napoleon proslul\u00fd svou slabost\u00ed pro \u201en\u00e1padn\u011b hezk\u00e9 \u017eeny\u201c nebyl pr\u00e1v\u011b k\u00a0objekt\u016fm sv\u00e9 v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b shov\u00edvav\u00fd sv\u00fdm tvrzen\u00edm \u201eKr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena se l\u00edb\u00ed oku, dobr\u00e1 srdci.\u201c Autorem cit\u00e1tu, kter\u00fd nejv\u00edce p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 na\u0161e \u201edlouh\u00e9 vlasy, kr\u00e1tk\u00fd rozum\u201c, je Baltazar Graci\u00e1n y Morales, \u0161pan\u011blsk\u00fd jezuita, spisovatel a filosof 17. stolet\u00ed. Ten vypustil nikoli z\u00a0\u00fast, n\u00fdbr\u017e ze sv\u00e9ho hus\u00edho brka v\u011btu \u201eKr\u00e1sa je zpravidla tr\u016fnem nev\u011bdomosti\u201c. Domn\u00edv\u00e1te-li se, \u017ee dnes ji\u017e takov\u00e9to postoje ke kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m nejsou v\u00a0kurzu, zept\u00e1m se v\u00e1s: pro\u010d jsou tedy tak popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vtipy o blond\u00fdn\u00e1ch? Ty p\u0159ece zastupuj\u00ed soudob\u00fd ide\u00e1l kr\u00e1sy. Existuj\u00ed nebo existovaly p\u0159irozen\u011b mnoh\u00e9 v\u00fdjimky, ne ka\u017ed\u00fd vzd\u011blan\u00fd a uzn\u00e1van\u00fd mu\u017e se k\u00a0\u017een\u00e1m stav\u011bl v\u00fd\u0161e popsan\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. \u017del, p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o \u201ehlouposti\u201c se nevztahuje pouze na \u201en\u00e1padn\u011b hezk\u00e9 \u017eeny\u201c, n\u00fdbr\u017e na v\u0161echny p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161nice \u201eslab\u0161\u00edho\u201c pohlav\u00ed.<br \/>\nSpojen\u00ed \u017een s bystr\u00fdm umem a dovednostmi pova\u017eovan\u00fdmi za v\u00fdsostn\u011b mu\u017eskou dom\u00e9nu bylo kdysi docela nesl\u00fdchanou z\u00e1le\u017eitost\u00ed. Mnoho moudr\u00fdch a schopn\u00fdch \u017een se muselo skr\u00fdvat za sv\u00fdmi man\u017eely, kte\u0159\u00ed se nez\u0159\u00eddka py\u0161nili jejich my\u0161lenkami a \u017eel tak\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky jejich pr\u00e1ce. Do jak\u00e9 a\u017e m\u00edry, dnes v\u00a0mnoha p\u0159\u00edpadech ji\u017e t\u011b\u017ece odhadneme.<br \/>\nJe\u0161t\u011b i dnes je po\u010det \u017een v\u00a0pom\u011bru k\u00a0po\u010dtu mu\u017e\u016f t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 zanedbateln\u00fd kup\u0159\u00edkladu v\u00a0technick\u00fdch oborech. Nejenom kv\u016fli v\u017eit\u00fdm genderov\u00fdm n\u00e1zor\u016fm, n\u00fdbr\u017e tak\u00e9 pro \u010dastou nevra\u017eivost a exkomunikuj\u00edc\u00ed nep\u0159ej\u00edcnost mu\u017e\u016f. \u017de p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u00edm? Nikoli, pod\u00edvejte se t\u0159eba na internetu na statistiky, kter\u00fdmi v\u00e1s v\u00a0t\u00e9to kn\u00ed\u017ece nechci zat\u011b\u017eovat.<\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh ze \u017eivota<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>&#8222;Je tolik archetyp\u016f, kolik je typick\u00fdch situac\u00ed v lidsk\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b.&#8220; Carl Gustav Jung.<br \/>\n<\/em>Tereza vystudovala ryze technick\u00fd obor v\u00a0dob\u011b, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e to a\u017e tak obvykl\u00e9 nebylo. Na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole byla mezi spolu\u017e\u00e1ky jedinou d\u00edvkou, na vysok\u00e9 jednou ze t\u0159\u00ed. Tento fakt by se v\u00e1m mohl zd\u00e1t vlastn\u011b v\u00fdte\u010dn\u00fd, m\u011bla t\u0159eba n\u00e1padn\u00edk\u016f doslova na ka\u017ed\u00fd prst deset, zejm\u00e9na pro sv\u016fj l\u00edbezn\u00fd a p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fd vzhled. Nebylo to v\u0161ak a\u017e tak r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9, jak by se v\u00e1m mohlo jevit. Tereza n\u011bkdy a\u017e dot\u011brnou pozornost sv\u00e9ho mu\u017esk\u00e9ho okol\u00ed vn\u00edmala jako docela obt\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed. Nav\u00edc, pr\u00e1v\u011b pro jej\u00ed sli\u010dnost byla zcela nepr\u00e1vem podce\u0148ov\u00e1na jak spolu\u017e\u00e1ky, tak profesory. Pozd\u011bji tak\u00e9 kolegy a nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdmi. Co jim nebr\u00e1nilo odcizovat Tereze jej\u00ed skv\u011bl\u00e9 a neot\u0159el\u00e9 n\u00e1pady s\u00a0v\u00fdmluvou, \u017ee je lep\u0161\u00ed, pokud je bude prezentovat zn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00ed osoba s\u00a0vy\u0161\u0161\u00edm postaven\u00edm.<br \/>\nTereza nemohla prosadit na pracovi\u0161ti n\u011bkter\u00e9 sv\u00e9 vyn\u00e1lezy, kter\u00e9 j\u00ed u\u017e nikdo nemohl \u201euloupit\u201c, nebo\u0165 si je na z\u00e1klad\u011b p\u0159edchoz\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed dala p\u0159ed jejich zve\u0159ejn\u011bn\u00edm patentovat. Pracovala na nich v\u00a0mimopracovn\u00ed dob\u011b po cel\u00e9 dlouh\u00e9 noci, av\u0161ak kv\u016fli komplikovan\u00fdm procesn\u00edm a administrativn\u00edm postup\u016fm pot\u0159ebovala k\u00a0jejich realizaci podporu veden\u00ed firmy, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e byla zam\u011bstnan\u00e1. T\u00e9 se v\u0161ak nedo\u010dkala, naopak, byla r\u016fzn\u00fdmi zp\u016fsoby p\u0159emlouv\u00e1na a\u017e donucov\u00e1na, aby k\u00a0z\u00edskan\u00fdm autorsk\u00fdm pr\u00e1v\u016fm p\u0159ipsala sv\u00e9ho nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00edho \u0161\u00e9fa.<br \/>\nKrom\u011b technick\u00e9ho talentu, analytick\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed, vysok\u00e9 inteligence, bravurn\u00edho zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed teorie i praxe ve sv\u00e9m oboru a kr\u00e1sn\u00e9ho vzhledu m\u011bla Tereza je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho: v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148 pro \u010dten\u00ed kn\u00ed\u017eek. Pro\u010detla jich ve sv\u00e9m voln\u00e9m \u010dase stovky. Velice \u010dasto sahala po rom\u00e1nech nebo faktografick\u00fdch titulech zab\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edch se pr\u00e1v\u011b osudem nadan\u00fdch \u017een, a to ji\u017e od sv\u00e9ho \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku. Hltala je stejn\u011b \u017e\u00e1dostiv\u011b, jako jin\u00e9 d\u011bti poh\u00e1dky. Podporovala ji v\u00a0tom jej\u00ed stejn\u011b p\u016fvabn\u00e1, moudr\u00e1, vzd\u011blan\u00e1 a technicky zdatn\u00e1 matka, kter\u00e1 v\u0161ak boj s\u00a0v\u011btrn\u00fdmi ml\u00fdny sv\u00e9 profese vzdala. Rad\u011bji se vdala, aby se vyhnula dal\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edko\u0159\u00edm, se kter\u00fdmi se od po\u010d\u00e1tku sv\u00e9 kari\u00e9ry utk\u00e1vala obdobn\u011b jako Tereza.<br \/>\nP\u0159irozen\u011b, mnoho z\u00a0p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f o umn\u00fdch a \u010dasto p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fdch \u017een\u00e1ch, kter\u00e9 Tereza \u010detla, bylo smutn\u00fdch anebo popisovali obt\u00ed\u017enou cestu k\u00a0jejich kone\u010dn\u00e9mu prorazen\u00ed. Nez\u0159\u00eddka p\u0159ipom\u00ednali osud Tereziny matky, t\u0159eba\u017ee na rozd\u00edl od n\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161ina nakonec dos\u00e1hla sv\u00e9ho snu. Tereza jednodu\u0161e \u017eila \u017eivot \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b podle archetyp\u00e1ln\u00edho rodinn\u00e9ho vzoru sv\u00e9 m\u00e1my a \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b dle archetyp\u016f sv\u00fdch rom\u00e1nov\u00fdch \u010di \u201edokument\u00e1rn\u00edch\u201c hrdinek.<br \/>\nPo nahrazen\u00ed nefunk\u010dn\u00edch \u017eivotn\u00edch archetyp\u016f pozitivn\u00edm vzorem, \u010dekal na ni proces osobn\u00edch prom\u011bn. Nakonec pro\u0161la Tereza d\u00edky nov\u00e9mu \u017eivotn\u00edmu archetypu zcela velkou transformac\u00ed. Podala v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f v\u00a0zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, a t\u00e9\u017e st\u00ed\u017enost na postup sv\u00fdch nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdch. Zalo\u017eila malou firmu, kter\u00e1 se \u010dasem dosti rozrostla. Bez jak\u00e9hokoli p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bn\u00ed ud\u011blala p\u0159\u00edslove\u010dnou \u201ed\u00edru do sv\u011bta\u201c sv\u00fdmi drobn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi i v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmi vyn\u00e1lezy. Vymanila se ze sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch stereotyp\u016f a prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm nov\u00fdch archetyp\u016f \u201eimplantovan\u00fdch\u201c do sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota dos\u00e1hla toho, po \u010dem u\u017e od ml\u00e1d\u00ed tou\u017eila.<br \/>\nTereze bylo v\u00a0r\u00e1mci archetyp\u00e1ln\u00ed terapie navr\u017eeno n\u011bkolik pozitivn\u00edch archetyp\u016f, a to skute\u010dn\u00fdch osob.<br \/>\n<strong>Josephine Cochranov\u00e1<\/strong>, za mlada velice p\u016fvabn\u00e1 a tak\u00e9 bohat\u00e1 d\u00e1ma, sestrojila a dala si patentovat my\u010dku n\u00e1dob\u00ed. Pozd\u011bji na jej\u00ed v\u00fdrobu zalo\u017eila tov\u00e1rnu Garis-Cochran Company, kter\u00e1 pak byla v\u010dlen\u011bna do firmy Whirlpool. Josephinin\u00fdm d\u016fvodem pro sestrojen\u00ed my\u010dky bylo sn\u00ed\u017een\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed rozbit\u00e9ho n\u00e1dob\u00ed po velk\u00fdch ve\u010d\u00edrc\u00edch konan\u00fdch v\u00a0dom\u011b, kter\u00fd sd\u00edlela se svou rodinou a man\u017eelem. Vedla harmonick\u00fd \u017eivot, kter\u00fd nebyl naru\u0161ovan\u00fd ni\u010d\u00edm dramatick\u00fdm \u010di problematick\u00fdm. Josephininy my\u010dky n\u00e1dob\u00ed vyu\u017e\u00edvaly zejm\u00e9na restaurace, hotely a arm\u00e1da. Pot\u00e9, co se jejich v\u00fdroba s\u00a0velk\u00fdm zdarem rozb\u011bhla, Josephine svou tov\u00e1rnu v\u00fdhodn\u011b prodala.<br \/>\nMlad\u00e1, hezk\u00e1 a sv\u00e9r\u00e1zn\u00e1 tkadlena z Massachusetts s velk\u00fdma o\u010dima, <strong>Tabitha Babbittov\u00e1<\/strong>, vynalezla koncem osmn\u00e1ct\u00e9ho stolet\u00ed cirkul\u00e1rku, aby uleh\u010dila pr\u00e1ci sv\u00fdm bratr\u016fm. Zapomn\u011bla v\u0161ak d\u00e1t sv\u016fj velice u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd vyn\u00e1lez patentovat, co\u017e zneu\u017eila dvojice nijak zaj\u00edmav\u00fdch \u010di schopn\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f. O Tabithyn\u011bm pokrokov\u00e9m objevu se dozv\u011bd\u011bli z\u00a0novin. Okam\u017eit\u011b si dali patentovat jej\u00ed objev na sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed jm\u00e9no. Tato skute\u010dnost nen\u00ed velice vzd\u00e1len\u00e1 od toho, \u010d\u00edm proch\u00e1zela sama Tereza ve sv\u00e9m zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed.<br \/>\nP\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e1 a kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 <strong>hrab\u011bnka z\u00a0Lovelace, Ada Kingov\u00e1<\/strong>, dcera lorda Georga Gordona Byrona, v\u0161estrann\u011b vzd\u011blan\u00e1 d\u00e1ma, matemati\u010dka a prvn\u00ed program\u00e1torka na sv\u011bt\u011b, p\u0159i\u0161la s prvn\u00edm algoritmem, kter\u00fd byl zpracovateln\u00fd po\u010d\u00edta\u010dem. Ada m\u011bla neblahou z\u00e1sluhou sv\u00e9ho slavn\u00e9ho otce a vlastn\u00edho k\u0159ehk\u00e9ho zdrav\u00ed dosti pohnut\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed. N\u00e1sledoval docela aktivn\u00ed a vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed \u017eivot mlad\u00e9 d\u00e1my. Krom sv\u00fdch zn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00edch vyn\u00e1lez\u016f pracovala t\u0159eba na v\u00fdvoji k\u0159\u00eddel a na parn\u00edm pohonu letadel. Adou objeven\u00fd algoritmus dovedl krom jin\u00e9ho p\u0159edv\u00eddat v\u00fdsledky v\u00a0s\u00e1zk\u00e1ch. Kv\u016fli v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017ek\u00e1m krimin\u00e1ln\u00edch \u017eivl\u016f, kter\u00e9 tento fakt p\u0159irozen\u011b velice zaujal, musela p\u0159epsat sv\u00e9 autorstv\u00ed na sv\u00e9ho man\u017eela. D\u016fvod sice z\u00e1va\u017en\u00fd, ale Tereze stejn\u011b p\u0159ipom\u00ednal n\u00e1tlak ze strany jejich nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdch. V\u00a0tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pochop\u00edme p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu, kter\u00e1 ji vedla k\u00a0vylou\u010den\u00ed hrab\u011bnky z v\u00fdb\u011bru nov\u00e9ho pozitivn\u00edho archetypu&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>V\u00edce se dozv\u00edte\u00a0 v knize J. Peschlov\u00e9&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kniha Pozitivn\u00ed \u017eensk\u00e9 archetypy, L\u00e9\u010div\u00e1 s\u00edla p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f od Judity Peschlov\u00e9 (vy\u0161la v medu\u0148kov\u00e9 edici) je pomocnic\u00ed a pr\u016fvodkyn\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 se rozhodla pro pozitivn\u00ed zm\u011bny ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b a pro prom\u011bnu sv\u00e9ho archetypu. Jak na to? Odpov\u011bdi najdete v knize, kterou m\u016f\u017eete z\u00edskat p\u0159es n\u00e1\u0161 e-shop. www.obchodmedunka.cz Kr\u00e1sa, hloupost, moudrost \u201eKr\u00e1sa je \u017eivot sn\u00edmaj\u00edc\u00ed z\u00e1voj ze\u00a0sv\u00e9 tv\u00e1\u0159e.\u201c\u00a0D\u00e9mokritos Jedn\u00edm z\u00a0nejzn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00edch, nejsmutn\u011bji proslaven\u00fdch, a \u017eel velice za\u017eit\u00fdch archetyp\u016f je \u201ekr\u00e1sn\u00e1, le\u010d hloup\u00e1 \u017eena\u201c. Tento kdysi prad\u00e1vno vytvo\u0159en\u00fd archetyp byl po stalet\u00ed udr\u017eovan\u00fd a upev\u0148ovan\u00fd ve v\u011bdom\u00ed jedinc\u016f natolik, \u017ee se nakonec stal regul\u00e9rn\u00ed sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed kolektivn\u00edho nev\u011bdom\u00ed lidstva, oko\u0159en\u011bn\u00fd\u00a0obl\u00edben\u00fdm heslem \u201edlouh\u00e9 vlasy, kr\u00e1tk\u00fd rozum\u201c. Ti z\u00a0v\u00e1s, kte\u0159\u00ed pat\u0159\u00edte k trochu star\u0161\u00ed generaci, ruku na srdce, kolik kr\u00e1t za \u017eivot jste sly\u0161eli, nebo dokonce sami vyslovili toto nespravedliv\u00e9 a nepodlo\u017een\u00e9 prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed? M\u00e1lo osobnost\u00ed se vyjad\u0159ovalo o kr\u00e1se \u017een tak pozitivn\u011b, jako v\u00fd\u0161e citovan\u00fd \u201esm\u011bj\u00edc\u00ed se \u0159eck\u00fd filosof\u201c D\u00e9mokritos, a\u010dkoli se jim p\u016fvabn\u00e9 d\u00e1my ur\u010dit\u011b l\u00edbily v\u00edc, ne\u017e ty, kter\u00e9 natolik p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9 nebyly. N\u011bmeck\u00fd spisovatel Jean Paul nap\u0159\u00edklad prohl\u00e1sil, \u017ee \u201ekr\u00e1sa nen\u00ed znakem dobroty, leda ve\u00a0st\u00e1\u0159\u00ed\u201c. \u010cesk\u00fd spisovatel Ladislav Mu\u0161ka za\u0161el snad a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 daleko, kdy\u017e si troufl tvrdit, \u017ee \u201en\u00e1padn\u011b hezk\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m mnohdy chyb\u00ed schopnost k\u00a0l\u00e1sce.\u201c!\u00a0Napoleon proslul\u00fd svou slabost\u00ed pro \u201en\u00e1padn\u011b hezk\u00e9 \u017eeny\u201c nebyl pr\u00e1v\u011b k\u00a0objekt\u016fm sv\u00e9 v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b shov\u00edvav\u00fd sv\u00fdm tvrzen\u00edm \u201eKr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena se l\u00edb\u00ed oku, dobr\u00e1 srdci.\u201c Autorem cit\u00e1tu, kter\u00fd nejv\u00edce p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 na\u0161e \u201edlouh\u00e9 vlasy, kr\u00e1tk\u00fd rozum\u201c, je Baltazar Graci\u00e1n y Morales, \u0161pan\u011blsk\u00fd jezuita, spisovatel a filosof 17. stolet\u00ed. Ten vypustil nikoli z\u00a0\u00fast, n\u00fdbr\u017e ze sv\u00e9ho hus\u00edho brka v\u011btu \u201eKr\u00e1sa je zpravidla tr\u016fnem nev\u011bdomosti\u201c. Domn\u00edv\u00e1te-li se, \u017ee dnes ji\u017e takov\u00e9to postoje ke kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m nejsou v\u00a0kurzu, zept\u00e1m se v\u00e1s: pro\u010d jsou tedy tak popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vtipy o blond\u00fdn\u00e1ch? Ty p\u0159ece zastupuj\u00ed soudob\u00fd ide\u00e1l kr\u00e1sy. Existuj\u00ed nebo existovaly p\u0159irozen\u011b mnoh\u00e9 v\u00fdjimky, ne ka\u017ed\u00fd vzd\u011blan\u00fd a uzn\u00e1van\u00fd mu\u017e se k\u00a0\u017een\u00e1m stav\u011bl v\u00fd\u0161e popsan\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. \u017del, p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o \u201ehlouposti\u201c se nevztahuje pouze na \u201en\u00e1padn\u011b hezk\u00e9 \u017eeny\u201c, n\u00fdbr\u017e na v\u0161echny p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161nice \u201eslab\u0161\u00edho\u201c pohlav\u00ed. Spojen\u00ed \u017een s bystr\u00fdm umem a dovednostmi pova\u017eovan\u00fdmi za v\u00fdsostn\u011b mu\u017eskou dom\u00e9nu bylo kdysi docela nesl\u00fdchanou z\u00e1le\u017eitost\u00ed. Mnoho moudr\u00fdch a schopn\u00fdch \u017een se muselo skr\u00fdvat za sv\u00fdmi man\u017eely, kte\u0159\u00ed se nez\u0159\u00eddka py\u0161nili jejich my\u0161lenkami a \u017eel tak\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky jejich pr\u00e1ce. Do jak\u00e9 a\u017e m\u00edry, dnes v\u00a0mnoha p\u0159\u00edpadech ji\u017e t\u011b\u017ece odhadneme. Je\u0161t\u011b i dnes je po\u010det \u017een v\u00a0pom\u011bru k\u00a0po\u010dtu mu\u017e\u016f t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 zanedbateln\u00fd kup\u0159\u00edkladu v\u00a0technick\u00fdch oborech. Nejenom kv\u016fli v\u017eit\u00fdm genderov\u00fdm n\u00e1zor\u016fm, n\u00fdbr\u017e tak\u00e9 pro \u010dastou nevra\u017eivost a exkomunikuj\u00edc\u00ed nep\u0159ej\u00edcnost mu\u017e\u016f. \u017de p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u00edm? Nikoli, pod\u00edvejte se t\u0159eba na internetu na statistiky, kter\u00fdmi v\u00e1s v\u00a0t\u00e9to kn\u00ed\u017ece nechci zat\u011b\u017eovat. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh ze \u017eivota &#8222;Je tolik archetyp\u016f, kolik je typick\u00fdch situac\u00ed v lidsk\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b.&#8220; Carl Gustav Jung. Tereza vystudovala ryze technick\u00fd obor v\u00a0dob\u011b, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e to a\u017e tak obvykl\u00e9 nebylo. Na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole byla mezi spolu\u017e\u00e1ky jedinou d\u00edvkou, na vysok\u00e9 jednou ze t\u0159\u00ed. Tento fakt by se v\u00e1m mohl zd\u00e1t vlastn\u011b v\u00fdte\u010dn\u00fd, m\u011bla t\u0159eba n\u00e1padn\u00edk\u016f doslova na ka\u017ed\u00fd prst deset, zejm\u00e9na pro sv\u016fj l\u00edbezn\u00fd a p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fd vzhled. Nebylo to v\u0161ak a\u017e tak r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9, jak by se v\u00e1m mohlo jevit. Tereza n\u011bkdy a\u017e dot\u011brnou pozornost sv\u00e9ho mu\u017esk\u00e9ho okol\u00ed vn\u00edmala jako docela obt\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed. Nav\u00edc, pr\u00e1v\u011b pro jej\u00ed sli\u010dnost byla zcela nepr\u00e1vem podce\u0148ov\u00e1na jak spolu\u017e\u00e1ky, tak profesory. Pozd\u011bji tak\u00e9 kolegy a nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdmi. Co jim nebr\u00e1nilo odcizovat Tereze jej\u00ed skv\u011bl\u00e9 a neot\u0159el\u00e9 n\u00e1pady s\u00a0v\u00fdmluvou, \u017ee je lep\u0161\u00ed, pokud je bude prezentovat zn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00ed osoba s\u00a0vy\u0161\u0161\u00edm postaven\u00edm. Tereza nemohla prosadit na pracovi\u0161ti n\u011bkter\u00e9 sv\u00e9 vyn\u00e1lezy, kter\u00e9 j\u00ed u\u017e nikdo nemohl \u201euloupit\u201c, nebo\u0165 si je na z\u00e1klad\u011b p\u0159edchoz\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed dala p\u0159ed jejich zve\u0159ejn\u011bn\u00edm patentovat. Pracovala na nich v\u00a0mimopracovn\u00ed dob\u011b po cel\u00e9 dlouh\u00e9 noci, av\u0161ak kv\u016fli komplikovan\u00fdm procesn\u00edm a administrativn\u00edm postup\u016fm pot\u0159ebovala k\u00a0jejich realizaci podporu veden\u00ed firmy, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e byla zam\u011bstnan\u00e1. T\u00e9 se v\u0161ak nedo\u010dkala, naopak, byla r\u016fzn\u00fdmi zp\u016fsoby p\u0159emlouv\u00e1na a\u017e donucov\u00e1na, aby k\u00a0z\u00edskan\u00fdm autorsk\u00fdm pr\u00e1v\u016fm p\u0159ipsala sv\u00e9ho nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00edho \u0161\u00e9fa. Krom\u011b technick\u00e9ho talentu, analytick\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed, vysok\u00e9 inteligence, bravurn\u00edho zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed teorie i praxe ve sv\u00e9m oboru a kr\u00e1sn\u00e9ho vzhledu m\u011bla Tereza je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho: v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148 pro \u010dten\u00ed kn\u00ed\u017eek. Pro\u010detla jich ve sv\u00e9m voln\u00e9m \u010dase stovky. Velice \u010dasto sahala po rom\u00e1nech nebo faktografick\u00fdch titulech zab\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edch se pr\u00e1v\u011b osudem nadan\u00fdch \u017een, a to ji\u017e od sv\u00e9ho \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku. Hltala je stejn\u011b \u017e\u00e1dostiv\u011b, jako jin\u00e9 d\u011bti poh\u00e1dky. Podporovala ji v\u00a0tom jej\u00ed stejn\u011b p\u016fvabn\u00e1, moudr\u00e1, vzd\u011blan\u00e1 a technicky zdatn\u00e1 matka, kter\u00e1 v\u0161ak boj s\u00a0v\u011btrn\u00fdmi ml\u00fdny sv\u00e9 profese vzdala. Rad\u011bji se vdala, aby se vyhnula dal\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edko\u0159\u00edm, se kter\u00fdmi se od po\u010d\u00e1tku sv\u00e9 kari\u00e9ry utk\u00e1vala obdobn\u011b jako Tereza. P\u0159irozen\u011b, mnoho z\u00a0p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f o umn\u00fdch a \u010dasto p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fdch \u017een\u00e1ch, kter\u00e9 Tereza \u010detla, bylo smutn\u00fdch anebo popisovali obt\u00ed\u017enou cestu k\u00a0jejich kone\u010dn\u00e9mu prorazen\u00ed. Nez\u0159\u00eddka p\u0159ipom\u00ednali osud Tereziny matky, t\u0159eba\u017ee na rozd\u00edl od n\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161ina nakonec dos\u00e1hla sv\u00e9ho snu. Tereza jednodu\u0161e \u017eila \u017eivot \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b podle archetyp\u00e1ln\u00edho rodinn\u00e9ho vzoru sv\u00e9 m\u00e1my a \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b dle archetyp\u016f sv\u00fdch rom\u00e1nov\u00fdch \u010di \u201edokument\u00e1rn\u00edch\u201c hrdinek. Po nahrazen\u00ed nefunk\u010dn\u00edch \u017eivotn\u00edch archetyp\u016f pozitivn\u00edm vzorem, \u010dekal na ni proces osobn\u00edch prom\u011bn. Nakonec pro\u0161la Tereza d\u00edky nov\u00e9mu \u017eivotn\u00edmu archetypu zcela velkou transformac\u00ed. Podala v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f v\u00a0zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, a t\u00e9\u017e st\u00ed\u017enost na postup sv\u00fdch nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdch. Zalo\u017eila malou firmu, kter\u00e1 se \u010dasem dosti rozrostla. Bez jak\u00e9hokoli p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bn\u00ed ud\u011blala p\u0159\u00edslove\u010dnou \u201ed\u00edru do sv\u011bta\u201c sv\u00fdmi drobn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi i v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmi vyn\u00e1lezy. Vymanila se ze sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch stereotyp\u016f a prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm nov\u00fdch archetyp\u016f \u201eimplantovan\u00fdch\u201c do sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota dos\u00e1hla toho, po \u010dem u\u017e od ml\u00e1d\u00ed tou\u017eila. Tereze bylo v\u00a0r\u00e1mci archetyp\u00e1ln\u00ed terapie navr\u017eeno n\u011bkolik pozitivn\u00edch archetyp\u016f, a to skute\u010dn\u00fdch osob. Josephine Cochranov\u00e1, za mlada velice p\u016fvabn\u00e1 a tak\u00e9 bohat\u00e1 d\u00e1ma, sestrojila a dala si patentovat my\u010dku n\u00e1dob\u00ed. Pozd\u011bji na jej\u00ed v\u00fdrobu zalo\u017eila tov\u00e1rnu Garis-Cochran Company, kter\u00e1 pak byla v\u010dlen\u011bna do firmy Whirlpool. Josephinin\u00fdm d\u016fvodem pro sestrojen\u00ed my\u010dky bylo sn\u00ed\u017een\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed rozbit\u00e9ho n\u00e1dob\u00ed po velk\u00fdch ve\u010d\u00edrc\u00edch konan\u00fdch v\u00a0dom\u011b, kter\u00fd sd\u00edlela se svou rodinou a man\u017eelem. Vedla harmonick\u00fd \u017eivot, kter\u00fd nebyl naru\u0161ovan\u00fd ni\u010d\u00edm dramatick\u00fdm \u010di problematick\u00fdm. Josephininy my\u010dky n\u00e1dob\u00ed vyu\u017e\u00edvaly zejm\u00e9na restaurace, hotely a arm\u00e1da. Pot\u00e9, co se jejich v\u00fdroba s\u00a0velk\u00fdm zdarem rozb\u011bhla, Josephine svou tov\u00e1rnu v\u00fdhodn\u011b prodala. Mlad\u00e1, hezk\u00e1 a sv\u00e9r\u00e1zn\u00e1 tkadlena z Massachusetts s velk\u00fdma o\u010dima, Tabitha Babbittov\u00e1, vynalezla koncem osmn\u00e1ct\u00e9ho stolet\u00ed cirkul\u00e1rku, aby uleh\u010dila pr\u00e1ci sv\u00fdm bratr\u016fm. Zapomn\u011bla v\u0161ak d\u00e1t sv\u016fj velice u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd vyn\u00e1lez patentovat, co\u017e zneu\u017eila dvojice nijak zaj\u00edmav\u00fdch \u010di schopn\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f. O Tabithyn\u011bm pokrokov\u00e9m objevu se dozv\u011bd\u011bli z\u00a0novin. Okam\u017eit\u011b si dali patentovat jej\u00ed objev na sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed jm\u00e9no. Tato skute\u010dnost nen\u00ed velice vzd\u00e1len\u00e1 od toho, \u010d\u00edm proch\u00e1zela sama Tereza ve sv\u00e9m zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed. P\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e1 a kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 hrab\u011bnka z\u00a0Lovelace, Ada Kingov\u00e1, dcera lorda Georga Gordona Byrona, v\u0161estrann\u011b vzd\u011blan\u00e1 d\u00e1ma, matemati\u010dka a prvn\u00ed program\u00e1torka na sv\u011bt\u011b, p\u0159i\u0161la s prvn\u00edm algoritmem, kter\u00fd byl zpracovateln\u00fd po\u010d\u00edta\u010dem. Ada m\u011bla neblahou z\u00e1sluhou sv\u00e9ho slavn\u00e9ho otce a vlastn\u00edho k\u0159ehk\u00e9ho zdrav\u00ed dosti pohnut\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed. N\u00e1sledoval docela aktivn\u00ed a vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed \u017eivot mlad\u00e9 d\u00e1my. Krom sv\u00fdch zn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00edch vyn\u00e1lez\u016f pracovala t\u0159eba na v\u00fdvoji k\u0159\u00eddel a na parn\u00edm pohonu letadel. Adou objeven\u00fd algoritmus dovedl krom jin\u00e9ho p\u0159edv\u00eddat v\u00fdsledky v\u00a0s\u00e1zk\u00e1ch. Kv\u016fli v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017ek\u00e1m krimin\u00e1ln\u00edch \u017eivl\u016f, kter\u00e9 tento fakt p\u0159irozen\u011b velice zaujal, musela p\u0159epsat sv\u00e9 autorstv\u00ed na sv\u00e9ho man\u017eela. D\u016fvod sice z\u00e1va\u017en\u00fd, ale Tereze stejn\u011b p\u0159ipom\u00ednal n\u00e1tlak ze strany jejich nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdch. V\u00a0tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pochop\u00edme p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu, kter\u00e1 ji vedla k\u00a0vylou\u010den\u00ed hrab\u011bnky z v\u00fdb\u011bru nov\u00e9ho pozitivn\u00edho archetypu&#8230; V\u00edce se dozv\u00edte\u00a0 v knize J. 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