{"id":3309,"date":"2020-08-07T06:00:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T06:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=3309"},"modified":"2020-08-11T18:54:57","modified_gmt":"2020-08-11T18:54:57","slug":"ze-srpnove-medunky-jak-vychovat-z-kluka-muze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2020\/08\/07\/ze-srpnove-medunky-jak-vychovat-z-kluka-muze\/","title":{"rendered":"Ze srpnov\u00e9 Medu\u0148ky: Jak vychovat z kluka Mu\u017ee?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Tuhle ot\u00e1zku si mo\u017en\u00e1 \u010dasto kladou rodi\u010de, prarodi\u010de nebo vychovatel\u00e9:<\/strong> Jak to ud\u011blat, aby z na\u0161eho syna\/vnuka, vyrostl spr\u00e1vn\u00fd chlap, kter\u00fd se v \u017eivot\u011b neztrat\u00ed, a p\u0159itom to nebude sebest\u0159edn\u00fd necitliv\u00fd egoista, ale ani rozklepan\u00fd bolest\u00ednsk\u00fd chlap\u00edk, kter\u00e9ho bude muset jeho \u017eena st\u00e1le ut\u011b\u0161ovat? T\u011b\u017ek\u00fd \u00fakol? Jak se to vezme&#8230;<br \/>\nNad t\u00e9matem se &#8222;zgruntu&#8220; zamyslela \u00a0<strong>pedago\u017eka, lektorka<\/strong>\u00a0 <strong>Milena Kr\u00e1lov\u00e1&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Uk\u00e1zka z \u010dl\u00e1nku (cel\u00fd si ho p\u0159e\u010dtete v srpnov\u00e9 Medu\u0148ce&#8230;a opravdu stoj\u00ed za p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed)<\/strong><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong>V\u00e1\u017een\u00ed \u010dten\u00e1\u0159i, moje p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvky do Medu\u0148ky pat\u0159\u00ed u\u017e tradi\u010dn\u011b v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed. Ten dne\u0161n\u00ed \u2013 d\u011bv\u010d\u00e1tka prominou \u2013 je ale zam\u011b\u0159en zejm\u00e9na na v\u00fdchovu chlapc\u016f, kter\u00e1 se v\u00fdrazn\u011b odli\u0161uje od v\u00fdchovy d\u00edv\u010d\u00ed. Pro dne\u0161n\u00ed kluky je toti\u017e st\u00e1le t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed se b\u011bhem d\u011btstv\u00ed a dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed nau\u010dit, jak \u201eb\u00fdt chlap\u201c. V\u00fdchova d\u011bv\u010dat a chlapc\u016f se dnes t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 neli\u0161\u00ed, a to je chyba.<br \/>\nV\u00fdchov\u011b obecn\u011b se v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b p\u0159ikl\u00e1d\u00e1 velk\u00fd v\u00fdznam a \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edc je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee v\u00fdchova chlapc\u016f je je\u0161t\u011b slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u00fdchova d\u00edvek. Hol\u010di\u010dky se i v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b mohou ztoto\u017e\u0148ovat se svoj\u00ed maminkou a jej\u00edmi \u017eensk\u00fdmi str\u00e1nkami \u2013 maminky st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b va\u0159\u00ed, perou, \u017eehl\u00ed, pe\u010duj\u00ed o dom\u00e1cnost i o sebe, zkr\u00e1\u0161luj\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed, staraj\u00ed se o sv\u016fj vzhled, menstruuj\u00ed a rod\u00ed d\u011bti. Chlapc\u016fm ale chyb\u00ed typick\u00e9 mu\u017esk\u00e9 vzory, proto\u017ee dosp\u011bl\u00ed mu\u017ei d\u0159\u00edve typick\u00e9 mu\u017esk\u00e9 \u010dinnosti a povinnosti ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f opustili, a to zejm\u00e9na tehdy, \u017eij\u00ed-li ve m\u011bstech.<br \/>\nTento \u010dl\u00e1nek nen\u00ed o rovnopr\u00e1vnosti, rozeb\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed genderov\u00fdch rol\u00ed a hled\u00e1n\u00ed viny, pro\u010d se mu\u017esk\u00e1 role n\u011bkam vytr\u00e1c\u00ed, proto\u017ee to ani nen\u00ed nutn\u00e9. Doba je prost\u011b takov\u00e1, jak\u00e1 je, a je t\u0159eba na ni reagovat i ve v\u00fdchov\u011b. Dne\u0161n\u00ed kluci \u2013 obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b ti z\u00a0m\u011bst \u2013 u\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nepob\u00edhaj\u00ed venku s kamar\u00e1dy, nebojuj\u00ed v part\u011b o svoje m\u00edsto, nelezou po stromech, neprozkoum\u00e1vaj\u00ed potok, neplavou v\u00a0rybn\u00edce atd. Jsou pod st\u00e1l\u00fdm dohledem rodi\u010d\u016f, p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017eeni auty z m\u00edsta na m\u00edsto, chod\u00ed do krou\u017ek\u016f vybran\u00fdch rodi\u010di a st\u00e1le jsou kontrolov\u00e1ni mobiln\u00edmi telefony. T\u00fdk\u00e1 se to i hol\u010di\u010dek, tak\u017ee d\u011bti maj\u00ed dnes t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 st\u00e1le n\u011bjakou \u0159\u00edzenou \u010dinnost ve \u0161kolce, ve \u0161kole, na krou\u017ec\u00edch, p\u0159i sportu i doma. \u0158\u00edzen\u00e1 \u010dinnost v\u0161ak nen\u00ed to sam\u00e9, co voln\u00fd \u010das. D\u011bti tak nemaj\u00ed prostor pro svoji vlastn\u00ed fantazii, nemohou d\u011blat to, co by cht\u011bly, a tehdy, kdy by si to samy vybraly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Otce ni\u010d\u00edm nenahrad\u00ed\u0161<br \/>\n<\/strong>Psychologov\u00e9, mnoh\u00e9 v\u00fdzkumy a z nich vypl\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed statistiky dokazuj\u00ed, \u017ee otce d\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed od narozen\u00ed. U\u017e na \u010derstv\u011b narozen\u00e1 miminka reaguj\u00ed t\u00e1tov\u00e9 jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem ne\u017e maminky a pozd\u011bji jsou otcov\u00e9 jako vychovatel\u00e9 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00ed v tom, \u017ee u d\u011bt\u00ed \u2013 zejm\u00e9na u chlapc\u016f \u2013 podporuj\u00ed samostatnost, vytrvalost, odvahu, sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, prakti\u010dnost, logiku i analytick\u00e9 my\u0161len\u00ed, orientaci v prostoru a tzv. tah na branku. Otcov\u00e9 sv\u00e9 d\u011bti m\u00e9n\u011b chr\u00e1n\u00ed, proto\u017ee ze sv\u00e9 podstaty nejsou tak \u00fazkostn\u00ed jako maminky, a tak\u00e9 jim d\u00e1vaj\u00ed jin\u00e9 podm\u011bty. Bez mu\u017esk\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edstupu nen\u00ed v\u00fdchova \u00fapln\u00e1 a matka nikdy nem\u016f\u017ee d\u00edt\u011bti nahradit otcovskou roli, proto\u017ee to zkr\u00e1tka nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9.<br \/>\n\u201ePr\u016fzkum potvrdil to, co se stalo ji\u017e b\u011b\u017enou prax\u00ed, tedy \u017ee t\u00e1tov\u00e9 cht\u011bj\u00ed b\u00fdt bezprost\u0159edn\u011b po porodu se svoji partnerkou a d\u00edt\u011btem doma,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 psycholog a \u0159editel Ligy otev\u0159en\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f Martin J\u00e1ra. \u201eRole otce je v prvn\u00edch dnech a t\u00fddnech \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011bte zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. Tento \u010das je kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fd pro prvotn\u00ed nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu otce s d\u00edt\u011btem a pos\u00edlen\u00ed rodinn\u00fdch vazeb,\u201c vysv\u011btluje.<br \/>\nV\u00ed se, jak je pro matku a jej\u00ed novorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 tzv. f\u00e1ze vtisku, kdy je miminko hned po vyklouznut\u00ed z matky p\u0159ilo\u017eeno na jej\u00ed prsa a vlo\u017eeno do jej\u00ed n\u00e1ru\u010de, tak\u017ee se nekon\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 odn\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed ciz\u00edmi lidmi na myt\u00ed, v\u00e1\u017een\u00ed a obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed, jako tomu b\u00fdvalo p\u0159ed lety. Stejn\u011b tak je ale d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 i p\u0159\u00edtomnost otce a jeho okam\u017eit\u00e9 nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu s novoroze\u0148\u00e1tkem. Setk\u00e1n\u00ed v\u0161ech t\u0159\u00ed \u2013 matky, otce a d\u00edt\u011bte \u2013 ihned po narozen\u00ed velmi prosp\u00edv\u00e1 pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm rodinn\u00fdm vazb\u00e1m a vztah\u016fm. Siln\u00e9 pouto s matkou je pro \u017eivot chlapce (i pro \u017eivot d\u00edvky) \u017eivotn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 v prvn\u00edm roce v\u011bku, kdy vztah s maminkou v\u00fdznamn\u011b ovliv\u0148uje v\u00fdvoj prav\u00e9 mozkov\u00e9 hemisf\u00e9ry.<br \/>\n\u201e\u010casn\u00e9 zapojen\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f do p\u00e9\u010de o d\u011bti zvy\u0161uje \u0161anci, \u017ee se rodi\u010de budou i pozd\u011bji o tuto p\u00e9\u010di d\u011blit a podporuje spravedliv\u00e9 rozlo\u017een\u00ed dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00ed mezi partnery,\u201c m\u00edn\u00ed Martin J\u00e1ra z Ligy otev\u0159en\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f. I tento fakt, stejn\u011b jako rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 dovolen\u00e1 pro otce, je p\u0159edm\u011btem diskuze, jestli je to dob\u0159e \u010di \u0161patn\u011b. Op\u011bt se t\u00edm dost\u00e1v\u00e1me k ot\u00e1zce rovnopr\u00e1vnosti \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f a genderov\u00fdch rol\u00ed. P\u0159ipomenu, \u017ee \u017eena se st\u00e1v\u00e1 matkou biologicky u\u017e b\u011bhem dev\u00edti m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b porodem sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte. Mu\u017e se v\u0161ak otcovstv\u00ed mus\u00ed postupn\u011b nau\u010dit. Vliv matek na syny v\u016fbec nikdo nezpochyb\u0148uje, ale \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edc je z\u0159ejm\u00e9, jak je pro chlapeck\u00fd v\u00fdvoj d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd otec.<br \/>\nNeoddiskutovateln\u00fdm faktem je, \u017ee chlapci a d\u00edvky se mus\u00ed vychov\u00e1vat jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee jejich mozky se vyv\u00edjej\u00ed odli\u0161n\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem a v odli\u0161n\u00e9m \u010dase. L\u00e9ka\u0159i u\u017e popsali v\u00edce ne\u017e sto funk\u010dn\u00edch rozd\u00edl\u016f mezi mu\u017esk\u00fdm a \u017eensk\u00fdm mozkem. D\u011bti se ve stejn\u00e9m v\u011bku nechovaj\u00ed zcela stejn\u011b prost\u011b proto, \u017ee jsou to hol\u010di\u010dky a kluci. Ob\u011b pohlav\u00ed se vrozen\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem chovaj\u00ed jinak a tyto odli\u0161nosti je nutn\u00e9 respektovat a akceptovat. Chlapci jsou obecn\u011b ak\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, impulzivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a maj\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed sklon k riskov\u00e1n\u00ed, k \u010demu\u017e je podn\u011bcuje jejich hormon testosteron. V\u00ed se, \u017ee hladina testosteronu se ve \u010dty\u0159ech letech zvy\u0161uje na dvojn\u00e1sobek a v pubert\u011b na osmin\u00e1sobek batolec\u00ed hodnoty&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tuhle ot\u00e1zku si mo\u017en\u00e1 \u010dasto kladou rodi\u010de, prarodi\u010de nebo vychovatel\u00e9: Jak to ud\u011blat, aby z na\u0161eho syna\/vnuka, vyrostl spr\u00e1vn\u00fd chlap, kter\u00fd se v \u017eivot\u011b neztrat\u00ed, a p\u0159itom to nebude sebest\u0159edn\u00fd necitliv\u00fd egoista, ale ani rozklepan\u00fd bolest\u00ednsk\u00fd chlap\u00edk, kter\u00e9ho bude muset jeho \u017eena st\u00e1le ut\u011b\u0161ovat? T\u011b\u017ek\u00fd \u00fakol? Jak se to vezme&#8230; Nad t\u00e9matem se &#8222;zgruntu&#8220; zamyslela \u00a0pedago\u017eka, lektorka\u00a0 Milena Kr\u00e1lov\u00e1&#8230; Uk\u00e1zka z \u010dl\u00e1nku (cel\u00fd si ho p\u0159e\u010dtete v srpnov\u00e9 Medu\u0148ce&#8230;a opravdu stoj\u00ed za p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed) V\u00e1\u017een\u00ed \u010dten\u00e1\u0159i, moje p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvky do Medu\u0148ky pat\u0159\u00ed u\u017e tradi\u010dn\u011b v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed. Ten dne\u0161n\u00ed \u2013 d\u011bv\u010d\u00e1tka prominou \u2013 je ale zam\u011b\u0159en zejm\u00e9na na v\u00fdchovu chlapc\u016f, kter\u00e1 se v\u00fdrazn\u011b odli\u0161uje od v\u00fdchovy d\u00edv\u010d\u00ed. Pro dne\u0161n\u00ed kluky je toti\u017e st\u00e1le t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed se b\u011bhem d\u011btstv\u00ed a dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed nau\u010dit, jak \u201eb\u00fdt chlap\u201c. V\u00fdchova d\u011bv\u010dat a chlapc\u016f se dnes t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 neli\u0161\u00ed, a to je chyba. V\u00fdchov\u011b obecn\u011b se v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b p\u0159ikl\u00e1d\u00e1 velk\u00fd v\u00fdznam a \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edc je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee v\u00fdchova chlapc\u016f je je\u0161t\u011b slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u00fdchova d\u00edvek. Hol\u010di\u010dky se i v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b mohou ztoto\u017e\u0148ovat se svoj\u00ed maminkou a jej\u00edmi \u017eensk\u00fdmi str\u00e1nkami \u2013 maminky st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b va\u0159\u00ed, perou, \u017eehl\u00ed, pe\u010duj\u00ed o dom\u00e1cnost i o sebe, zkr\u00e1\u0161luj\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed, staraj\u00ed se o sv\u016fj vzhled, menstruuj\u00ed a rod\u00ed d\u011bti. Chlapc\u016fm ale chyb\u00ed typick\u00e9 mu\u017esk\u00e9 vzory, proto\u017ee dosp\u011bl\u00ed mu\u017ei d\u0159\u00edve typick\u00e9 mu\u017esk\u00e9 \u010dinnosti a povinnosti ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f opustili, a to zejm\u00e9na tehdy, \u017eij\u00ed-li ve m\u011bstech. Tento \u010dl\u00e1nek nen\u00ed o rovnopr\u00e1vnosti, rozeb\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed genderov\u00fdch rol\u00ed a hled\u00e1n\u00ed viny, pro\u010d se mu\u017esk\u00e1 role n\u011bkam vytr\u00e1c\u00ed, proto\u017ee to ani nen\u00ed nutn\u00e9. Doba je prost\u011b takov\u00e1, jak\u00e1 je, a je t\u0159eba na ni reagovat i ve v\u00fdchov\u011b. Dne\u0161n\u00ed kluci \u2013 obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b ti z\u00a0m\u011bst \u2013 u\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nepob\u00edhaj\u00ed venku s kamar\u00e1dy, nebojuj\u00ed v part\u011b o svoje m\u00edsto, nelezou po stromech, neprozkoum\u00e1vaj\u00ed potok, neplavou v\u00a0rybn\u00edce atd. Jsou pod st\u00e1l\u00fdm dohledem rodi\u010d\u016f, p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017eeni auty z m\u00edsta na m\u00edsto, chod\u00ed do krou\u017ek\u016f vybran\u00fdch rodi\u010di a st\u00e1le jsou kontrolov\u00e1ni mobiln\u00edmi telefony. T\u00fdk\u00e1 se to i hol\u010di\u010dek, tak\u017ee d\u011bti maj\u00ed dnes t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 st\u00e1le n\u011bjakou \u0159\u00edzenou \u010dinnost ve \u0161kolce, ve \u0161kole, na krou\u017ec\u00edch, p\u0159i sportu i doma. \u0158\u00edzen\u00e1 \u010dinnost v\u0161ak nen\u00ed to sam\u00e9, co voln\u00fd \u010das. D\u011bti tak nemaj\u00ed prostor pro svoji vlastn\u00ed fantazii, nemohou d\u011blat to, co by cht\u011bly, a tehdy, kdy by si to samy vybraly. Otce ni\u010d\u00edm nenahrad\u00ed\u0161 Psychologov\u00e9, mnoh\u00e9 v\u00fdzkumy a z nich vypl\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed statistiky dokazuj\u00ed, \u017ee otce d\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed od narozen\u00ed. U\u017e na \u010derstv\u011b narozen\u00e1 miminka reaguj\u00ed t\u00e1tov\u00e9 jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem ne\u017e maminky a pozd\u011bji jsou otcov\u00e9 jako vychovatel\u00e9 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00ed v tom, \u017ee u d\u011bt\u00ed \u2013 zejm\u00e9na u chlapc\u016f \u2013 podporuj\u00ed samostatnost, vytrvalost, odvahu, sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, prakti\u010dnost, logiku i analytick\u00e9 my\u0161len\u00ed, orientaci v prostoru a tzv. tah na branku. Otcov\u00e9 sv\u00e9 d\u011bti m\u00e9n\u011b chr\u00e1n\u00ed, proto\u017ee ze sv\u00e9 podstaty nejsou tak \u00fazkostn\u00ed jako maminky, a tak\u00e9 jim d\u00e1vaj\u00ed jin\u00e9 podm\u011bty. Bez mu\u017esk\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edstupu nen\u00ed v\u00fdchova \u00fapln\u00e1 a matka nikdy nem\u016f\u017ee d\u00edt\u011bti nahradit otcovskou roli, proto\u017ee to zkr\u00e1tka nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9. \u201ePr\u016fzkum potvrdil to, co se stalo ji\u017e b\u011b\u017enou prax\u00ed, tedy \u017ee t\u00e1tov\u00e9 cht\u011bj\u00ed b\u00fdt bezprost\u0159edn\u011b po porodu se svoji partnerkou a d\u00edt\u011btem doma,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 psycholog a \u0159editel Ligy otev\u0159en\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f Martin J\u00e1ra. \u201eRole otce je v prvn\u00edch dnech a t\u00fddnech \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011bte zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. Tento \u010das je kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fd pro prvotn\u00ed nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu otce s d\u00edt\u011btem a pos\u00edlen\u00ed rodinn\u00fdch vazeb,\u201c vysv\u011btluje. V\u00ed se, jak je pro matku a jej\u00ed novorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 tzv. f\u00e1ze vtisku, kdy je miminko hned po vyklouznut\u00ed z matky p\u0159ilo\u017eeno na jej\u00ed prsa a vlo\u017eeno do jej\u00ed n\u00e1ru\u010de, tak\u017ee se nekon\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 odn\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed ciz\u00edmi lidmi na myt\u00ed, v\u00e1\u017een\u00ed a obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed, jako tomu b\u00fdvalo p\u0159ed lety. Stejn\u011b tak je ale d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 i p\u0159\u00edtomnost otce a jeho okam\u017eit\u00e9 nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu s novoroze\u0148\u00e1tkem. Setk\u00e1n\u00ed v\u0161ech t\u0159\u00ed \u2013 matky, otce a d\u00edt\u011bte \u2013 ihned po narozen\u00ed velmi prosp\u00edv\u00e1 pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm rodinn\u00fdm vazb\u00e1m a vztah\u016fm. Siln\u00e9 pouto s matkou je pro \u017eivot chlapce (i pro \u017eivot d\u00edvky) \u017eivotn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 v prvn\u00edm roce v\u011bku, kdy vztah s maminkou v\u00fdznamn\u011b ovliv\u0148uje v\u00fdvoj prav\u00e9 mozkov\u00e9 hemisf\u00e9ry. \u201e\u010casn\u00e9 zapojen\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f do p\u00e9\u010de o d\u011bti zvy\u0161uje \u0161anci, \u017ee se rodi\u010de budou i pozd\u011bji o tuto p\u00e9\u010di d\u011blit a podporuje spravedliv\u00e9 rozlo\u017een\u00ed dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00ed mezi partnery,\u201c m\u00edn\u00ed Martin J\u00e1ra z Ligy otev\u0159en\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f. I tento fakt, stejn\u011b jako rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 dovolen\u00e1 pro otce, je p\u0159edm\u011btem diskuze, jestli je to dob\u0159e \u010di \u0161patn\u011b. Op\u011bt se t\u00edm dost\u00e1v\u00e1me k ot\u00e1zce rovnopr\u00e1vnosti \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f a genderov\u00fdch rol\u00ed. P\u0159ipomenu, \u017ee \u017eena se st\u00e1v\u00e1 matkou biologicky u\u017e b\u011bhem dev\u00edti m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b porodem sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte. Mu\u017e se v\u0161ak otcovstv\u00ed mus\u00ed postupn\u011b nau\u010dit. Vliv matek na syny v\u016fbec nikdo nezpochyb\u0148uje, ale \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edc je z\u0159ejm\u00e9, jak je pro chlapeck\u00fd v\u00fdvoj d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd otec. Neoddiskutovateln\u00fdm faktem je, \u017ee chlapci a d\u00edvky se mus\u00ed vychov\u00e1vat jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee jejich mozky se vyv\u00edjej\u00ed odli\u0161n\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem a v odli\u0161n\u00e9m \u010dase. L\u00e9ka\u0159i u\u017e popsali v\u00edce ne\u017e sto funk\u010dn\u00edch rozd\u00edl\u016f mezi mu\u017esk\u00fdm a \u017eensk\u00fdm mozkem. D\u011bti se ve stejn\u00e9m v\u011bku nechovaj\u00ed zcela stejn\u011b prost\u011b proto, \u017ee jsou to hol\u010di\u010dky a kluci. Ob\u011b pohlav\u00ed se vrozen\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem chovaj\u00ed jinak a tyto odli\u0161nosti je nutn\u00e9 respektovat a akceptovat. Chlapci jsou obecn\u011b ak\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, impulzivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a maj\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed sklon k riskov\u00e1n\u00ed, k \u010demu\u017e je podn\u011bcuje jejich hormon testosteron. V\u00ed se, \u017ee hladina testosteronu se ve \u010dty\u0159ech letech zvy\u0161uje na dvojn\u00e1sobek a v pubert\u011b na osmin\u00e1sobek batolec\u00ed hodnoty&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3346,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-medunka"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3309"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3309\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3311,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3309\/revisions\/3311"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3346"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}