{"id":2750,"date":"2020-04-17T06:00:13","date_gmt":"2020-04-17T06:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=2750"},"modified":"2020-04-16T18:25:19","modified_gmt":"2020-04-16T18:25:19","slug":"z-dubnove-medunky-afrodita-v-promenach-casu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2020\/04\/17\/z-dubnove-medunky-afrodita-v-promenach-casu\/","title":{"rendered":"Z dubnov\u00e9 Medu\u0148ky: Afrodita v prom\u011bn\u00e1ch \u010dasu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Z aktu\u00e1ln\u00edho dubnov\u00e9ho \u010d\u00edsla Medu\u0148ky vyb\u00edr\u00e1me pro tento t\u00fdden uk\u00e1zku z \u010dl\u00e1nku V\u011bry \u0160imonov\u00e9, kter\u00fd je zaj\u00edmavou a podn\u011btnou inspirac\u00ed (nejen) pro \u017eeny…
\n<\/strong>Cel\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nek i dal\u0161\u00ed skv\u011bl\u00e9 \u010dl\u00e1nky si m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst bu\u010f v „pap\u00edrov\u00e9“ Medu\u0148ce, kter\u00e1 je st\u00e1le ke koupi na st\u00e1nc\u00edch PNS, nebo z pohodl\u00ed domova v jej\u00ed elektronick\u00e9 verzi na emedunka.cz <\/a><\/p>\n

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Motiv \u017eensk\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1rlivosti probleskuje v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edb\u011bz\u00edch snad v\u0161ech kultur<\/strong>. Jeden z\u00a0nich, n\u00e1m d\u016fv\u011brn\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00fd, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zkou: \u201eZrcadlo, zrcadlo, \u0159ekni mi, kdo je v\u00a0zemi zdej\u0161\u00ed nejhez\u010d\u00ed a nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed?\u201c A\u0165 u\u017e ve filmov\u00e9 nebo liter\u00e1rn\u00ed podob\u011b n\u00e1s poh\u00e1dka O Sn\u011bhurce<\/em> prov\u00e1zela na\u0161\u00edm d\u011btstv\u00edm\u2026<\/p>\n

Sn\u011bhurky a ty druh\u00e9\u2026
\n<\/strong>Fandily jsme d\u00edvce s\u00a0plet\u00ed b\u00edlou jako padl\u00fd sn\u00edh a vlasy \u010dern\u00fdmi jako havran\u00ed k\u0159\u00eddla, ob\u00e1valy se krut\u00e9 macechy, a potom na tento p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u2013 jako na mnoho jin\u00fdch \u2013 zapomn\u011bly a zanechaly ho na\u00a0zapr\u00e1\u0161en\u00e9 p\u016fd\u011b d\u011btsk\u00fdch fantazi\u00ed. Domn\u00edvaly jsme se, \u017ee se n\u00e1s u\u017e net\u00fdk\u00e1.
\nAle on po n\u011bjak\u00e9m \u010dase zase o\u017eil. Staly se z\u00a0n\u00e1s Sn\u011bhurky. V\u00a0tom obdob\u00ed zmatk\u016f a bou\u0159\u00ed, jimi\u017e proch\u00e1z\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e1 dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edvka, jsme si mo\u017en\u00e1 ani nev\u0161imly, \u017ee n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo \u010desal otr\u00e1ven\u00fdm h\u0159ebenem a k\u00a0sva\u010din\u011b pod\u00e1val jedovat\u00e1 jablka. Byly jsme d\u016fv\u011b\u0159iv\u00e9 a s chut\u00ed jsme si ukously. A kdy\u017e jsme potom na sebe pohl\u00e9dly kritick\u00fdm okem n\u00e1ctilet\u00fdch do zrcadla, vid\u011bly jsme jen kazy: p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 velk\u00e9 boky, zplihl\u00e9 vlasy, mal\u00e1 \u0148adra, pup\u00ednek na tv\u00e1\u0159i. Ty drobn\u00e9 jedovatosti vykonaly sv\u00e9 a naru\u0161ily k\u0159ehk\u00fd pocit rod\u00edc\u00edho se \u017eensk\u00e9ho sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. C\u00edtili jsme se nehezk\u00e9, nejist\u00e9, divn\u00e9.
\nUplynulo p\u00e1r p\u00e1tk\u016f a \u010das n\u00e1s postr\u010dil o n\u011bkolik let d\u00e1l. D\u00edv\u00e1me se do zrcadla — a zase nejsme spokojen\u00e9. Jak\u00fd div, kdy\u017e jsme obklopeny dokonalou kr\u00e1sou, kter\u00e1 na n\u00e1s denn\u011b shl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed ze str\u00e1nek \u010dasopis\u016f, pl\u00e1ten kin a televizn\u00edch obrazovek a je d\u00edlem viz\u00e1\u017eist\u016f, kade\u0159n\u00edk\u016f, stylist\u016f a po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00fdch grafik\u016f. Sou\u010dasn\u00e1 spole\u010dnost adoruj\u00edc\u00ed ml\u00e1d\u00ed n\u00e1m sugeruje myln\u00e9 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o tom, co je kr\u00e1sa. Podsouv\u00e1 my\u0161lenku, \u017ee s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm rokem ztr\u00e1c\u00edme, \u017ee s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm rokem z\u00a0na\u0161eho pomysln\u00e9ho konta ub\u00fdv\u00e1 \u2013 p\u016fvabu, kr\u00e1sy, energie, s\u00edly. \u017de to, co bylo, je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e to, co bude.
\nSklouznout k\u00a0\u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9mu srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed s\u00a0t\u011bmi mlad\u0161\u00edmi a poc\u00edtit nejistotu a zlobu je pak celkem snadn\u00e9, i kdy\u017e si tuto my\u0161lenku jen z\u0159\u00eddkakdy p\u0159izn\u00e1me. N\u011bkdy, p\u0159i velk\u00e9 d\u00e1vce vnit\u0159n\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmnosti, ji sv\u011b\u0159\u00edme uchu terapeuta. Jedna klientka mi popisovala ned\u011bln\u00ed odpoledne: \u201eVych\u00e1zela jsem z\u00a0domu na zahradu a uvid\u011bla svoj\u00ed jeden\u00e1ctiletou dceru. St\u00e1la pod jablon\u00ed a zapadaj\u00edc\u00ed slunce oz\u00e1\u0159ilo jej\u00ed vlasy, tak\u017ee vypadaly jako zlat\u00fd vodop\u00e1d. Z\u016fstala jsem st\u00e1t ohromen\u00e1 tou kr\u00e1sou. A z\u00e1rove\u0148 m\u011b n\u011bco uvnit\u0159 bodlo. \u201eA co j\u00e1?\u201c ptala jsem se sebe sama a vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed se za tu my\u0161lenku zastyd\u011bla. Ale byla tady. Co s\u00a0n\u00ed po\u010d\u00edt?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Hra archetyp\u016f
\n<\/strong>P\u0159i hled\u00e1n\u00ed odpov\u011bdi na tuto ot\u00e1zku zam\u00ed\u0159\u00edme o n\u011bkolik tis\u00edcilet\u00ed zp\u011bt a vyd\u00e1me se do St\u0159edomo\u0159\u00ed na posv\u00e1tn\u00fd Olymp. Tam pob\u00fdvali bohov\u00e9 a mezi nimi tak\u00e9 Afrodita, Artemis, Ath\u00e9na, H\u00e9ra, Persefona a D\u00e9m\u00e9t\u00e9r. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z\u00a0nich vl\u00e1dla ur\u010dit\u00e9 oblasti \u017eivota, mohla obdarovat i trestat.
\nKde \u0159eck\u00e1 mytologie mluv\u00ed o boz\u00edch a bohyn\u00edch, pracuje hlubinn\u00e1 psychologie s\u00a0archetypy, pravzory lidsk\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti, kter\u00e9 se ukr\u00fdvaj\u00ed v\u00a0kolektivn\u00edm nev\u011bdom\u00ed a projevuj\u00ed se skrze na\u0161e kon\u00e1n\u00ed a chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vzp\u00edraj\u00ed se rozumov\u00e9 anal\u00fdze a snadn\u011bji se k\u00a0nim m\u016f\u017eeme p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eit prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm poh\u00e1dek, m\u00fdt\u016f, sn\u016f a um\u011bleck\u00fdch d\u011bl liter\u00e1rn\u00edch, v\u00fdtvarn\u00fdch \u010di hudebn\u00edch.
\nV\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed etap\u011b se v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed psychice n\u011bkter\u00fd z\u00a0archetyp\u016f aktivuje. Kdy\u017e se na n\u00e1s v\u00a0\u010dase dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed usm\u011bje Afrodita, zatou\u017e\u00edme b\u00fdt kr\u00e1sn\u00e9, p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9, milovan\u00e9 i miluj\u00edc\u00ed.
\nArtemis a Ath\u00e9na n\u00e1m dod\u00e1vaj\u00ed energii j\u00edt za sv\u00fdmi z\u00e1jmy a c\u00edli, vystudovat a dos\u00e1hnout profesn\u00ed \u00fasp\u011b\u0161nosti i finan\u010dn\u00ed nez\u00e1vislosti. P\u0159i H\u00e9\u0159in\u011b n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u011b zakus\u00edme, jak\u00e9 vrcholy a \u00fadol\u00ed obn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed partnerstv\u00ed a man\u017eelstv\u00ed. A kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m narod\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, pochop\u00edme radost, obavy i \u00fazkost mytick\u00e9 D\u00e9m\u00e9t\u00e9r.
\nZ\u00a0\u0159eck\u00fdch m\u00fdt\u016f v\u00edme, \u017ee bohov\u00e9 a bohyn\u011b nebyli svat\u00ed ani svat\u00e9. Vyv\u00e1d\u011bli smrteln\u00edk\u016fm i sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem v\u0161emo\u017en\u00e9 kousky a dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u011bli, jak chutn\u00e1 z\u00e1vist a \u017e\u00e1rlivost. Sta\u010d\u00ed se rozpomenout na ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho Parida a jeho soud. Tyto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee archetypy se mohou manifestovat celou \u0161k\u00e1lou mo\u017enost\u00ed. Energetizuj\u00ed n\u00e1s, obdarov\u00e1vaj\u00ed kreativitou, silou, ale n\u00e1s tak\u00e9 vystavuj\u00ed zkou\u0161k\u00e1m a poku\u0161en\u00edm. M\u016f\u017eeme podlehnout jednomu z\u00a0nich a n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot se stane jednostrann\u00fdm. Zaujme-li celou na\u0161i pozornost Afrodita, vzhl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme se v\u00a0zrcadle, vyhled\u00e1v\u00e1me flirt, pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed a rozko\u0161 a ob\u00e1v\u00e1me se, \u017ee to v\u0161e nen\u00e1vratn\u011b zmiz\u00ed s\u00a0prvn\u00ed vr\u00e1skou \u010di kilem nav\u00edc. Pokud n\u00e1s uchv\u00e1t\u00ed Ath\u00e9na, mo\u017en\u00e1 nevid\u00edme nic jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e v\u00fdstup po kari\u00e9rn\u00edm \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dku \u010di p\u0159id\u00e1n\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edho akademick\u00e9ho titulu ke sv\u00e9 bohat\u00e9 sb\u00edrce. V\u00a0objet\u00ed Artemis si m\u016f\u017eeme u\u017e\u00edvat cestov\u00e1n\u00ed, dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed a single \u017eivota, a\u017e se jednoho dne ocitneme osam\u011bl\u00e9 kdesi vysoko v\u00a0hor\u00e1ch \u010di na\u00a0karibsk\u00e9m pob\u0159e\u017e\u00ed a marn\u011b vyhl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme bl\u00edzkou du\u0161i. A propadneme-li D\u00e9m\u00e9t\u00e9r, bude na\u0161e okol\u00ed poslouchat nekone\u010dn\u00e9 chvalozp\u011bvy na genialitu na\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed nebo \u010delit na\u0161im pokus\u016fm vid\u011bt v ka\u017ed\u00e9m jedinci nedosp\u011bl\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ur\u010den\u00e9 k\u00a0v\u00fdchov\u011b.
\n\u0158ekov\u00e9 nepochybovali o s\u00edle i \u017e\u00e1rlivosti boh\u016f a nab\u00e1dali k\u00a0opatrnosti a respektu. Stav\u011bli jim chr\u00e1my a dbali, aby olt\u00e1\u0159e \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9ho z\u00a0nich nez\u016fstaly bez ob\u011btin. P\u0159elo\u017eeno do sou\u010dasn\u00e9ho jazyka to znamen\u00e1 pokusit se rozprost\u0159\u00edt pozornost v\u00edce sm\u011bry \u2013 vedle profesn\u00edho \u00fasil\u00ed nezapom\u00ednat na chvilky oddechu a pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed, p\u011bstovat p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, kultivovat partnersk\u00e9 vztahy a pe\u010dovat o druh\u00e9 a sv\u011bt kolem n\u00e1s. Ostatn\u011b n\u00e1pis v\u00a0Delf\u00e1ch \u201eM\u00e9den ag\u00e1n\u201c, tedy „Ni\u010deho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161“ mluv\u00ed o tomt\u00e9\u017e. M\u016f\u017eeme to p\u0159irovnat k\u00a0\u017eonglov\u00e1n\u00ed s\u00a0m\u00ed\u010dky. Pohazujeme-li si s\u00a0jedn\u00edm, je to jednoduch\u00e9. P\u0159id\u00e1me-li dva, t\u0159i \u010di dokonce \u010dty\u0159i, situace se komplikuje. Trv\u00e1 dlouho, ne\u017e je alespo\u0148 chv\u00edli um\u00edme udr\u017eet ve vzduchu a \u010dasto n\u011bjak\u00fd z\u00a0nich spadne na zem. I \u017eivotn\u00ed \u017eonglov\u00e1n\u00ed s\u00a0n\u011bkolika rolemi \u2013 partnersk\u00fdmi, rodi\u010dovsk\u00fdmi, pracovn\u00edmi i tv\u016fr\u010d\u00edmi, je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u011bnovat se v\u00fdlu\u010dn\u011b jedn\u00e9 z\u00a0nich. Pom\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1m ale vyhnout se \u017eivotn\u00ed jednostrannosti a pomst\u011b t\u011bch archetyp\u016f, se kter\u00fdmi se odm\u00edt\u00e1me potkat.
\nPomsta m\u016f\u017ee vytrysknout z\u00a0nev\u011bdom\u00ed v\u00a0podob\u011b no\u010dn\u00edch m\u016fr, strachu, deprese, p\u0159e\u0159eknut\u00ed, ostr\u00e9 kritiky na \u00fa\u010det druh\u00fdch \u010di t\u011blesn\u00fdch obt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed.
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\nCo se stane, kdy\u017e ze hry vylou\u010d\u00edme Afroditu?<\/strong>
\nZtr\u00e1ta kontaktu s\u00a0n\u00ed n\u00e1s p\u0159iprav\u00ed o vitalitu, pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed ze \u017eivota a spont\u00e1nnost. Kde byla radost, nastoup\u00ed povinnost, kde byl osv\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed flirt a \u017eiv\u00fd dialog, oz\u00fdv\u00e1 se kritick\u00fd monolog. Barvy miz\u00ed a nastupuje f\u00e1dn\u00ed \u0161e\u010f. Z\u00a0takov\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho nastaven\u00ed je u\u017e jen kr\u016f\u010dek k\u00a0zatrpklosti, srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a z\u00e1visti \u2013 v\u016f\u010di t\u011bm mlad\u0161\u00edm a zd\u00e1nliv\u011b kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm. St\u00e1v\u00e1me se pak adeptkami na roli macechy v\u00a0poh\u00e1dce O Sn\u011bhurce.
\nAle existuje i jin\u00e1 mo\u017enost. Pozvat Afroditu op\u011bt do sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota a t\u011b\u0161it se z\u00a0jej\u00edch dar\u016f…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Z aktu\u00e1ln\u00edho dubnov\u00e9ho \u010d\u00edsla Medu\u0148ky vyb\u00edr\u00e1me pro tento t\u00fdden uk\u00e1zku z \u010dl\u00e1nku V\u011bry \u0160imonov\u00e9, kter\u00fd je zaj\u00edmavou a podn\u011btnou inspirac\u00ed (nejen) pro \u017eeny… Cel\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nek i dal\u0161\u00ed skv\u011bl\u00e9 \u010dl\u00e1nky si m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst bu\u010f v „pap\u00edrov\u00e9“ Medu\u0148ce, kter\u00e1 je st\u00e1le ke koupi na st\u00e1nc\u00edch PNS, nebo z pohodl\u00ed domova v jej\u00ed elektronick\u00e9 verzi na emedunka.cz \u00a0 \u00a0   Motiv \u017eensk\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1rlivosti probleskuje v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edb\u011bz\u00edch snad v\u0161ech kultur. Jeden z\u00a0nich, n\u00e1m d\u016fv\u011brn\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00fd, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zkou: \u201eZrcadlo, zrcadlo, \u0159ekni mi, kdo je v\u00a0zemi zdej\u0161\u00ed nejhez\u010d\u00ed a nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed?\u201c A\u0165 u\u017e ve filmov\u00e9 nebo liter\u00e1rn\u00ed podob\u011b n\u00e1s poh\u00e1dka O Sn\u011bhurce prov\u00e1zela na\u0161\u00edm d\u011btstv\u00edm\u2026 Sn\u011bhurky a ty druh\u00e9\u2026 Fandily jsme d\u00edvce s\u00a0plet\u00ed b\u00edlou jako padl\u00fd sn\u00edh a vlasy \u010dern\u00fdmi jako havran\u00ed k\u0159\u00eddla, ob\u00e1valy se krut\u00e9 macechy, a potom na tento p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u2013 jako na mnoho jin\u00fdch \u2013 zapomn\u011bly a zanechaly ho na\u00a0zapr\u00e1\u0161en\u00e9 p\u016fd\u011b d\u011btsk\u00fdch fantazi\u00ed. Domn\u00edvaly jsme se, \u017ee se n\u00e1s u\u017e net\u00fdk\u00e1. Ale on po n\u011bjak\u00e9m \u010dase zase o\u017eil. Staly se z\u00a0n\u00e1s Sn\u011bhurky. V\u00a0tom obdob\u00ed zmatk\u016f a bou\u0159\u00ed, jimi\u017e proch\u00e1z\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e1 dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edvka, jsme si mo\u017en\u00e1 ani nev\u0161imly, \u017ee n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo \u010desal otr\u00e1ven\u00fdm h\u0159ebenem a k\u00a0sva\u010din\u011b pod\u00e1val jedovat\u00e1 jablka. Byly jsme d\u016fv\u011b\u0159iv\u00e9 a s chut\u00ed jsme si ukously. A kdy\u017e jsme potom na sebe pohl\u00e9dly kritick\u00fdm okem n\u00e1ctilet\u00fdch do zrcadla, vid\u011bly jsme jen kazy: p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 velk\u00e9 boky, zplihl\u00e9 vlasy, mal\u00e1 \u0148adra, pup\u00ednek na tv\u00e1\u0159i. Ty drobn\u00e9 jedovatosti vykonaly sv\u00e9 a naru\u0161ily k\u0159ehk\u00fd pocit rod\u00edc\u00edho se \u017eensk\u00e9ho sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. C\u00edtili jsme se nehezk\u00e9, nejist\u00e9, divn\u00e9. Uplynulo p\u00e1r p\u00e1tk\u016f a \u010das n\u00e1s postr\u010dil o n\u011bkolik let d\u00e1l. D\u00edv\u00e1me se do zrcadla — a zase nejsme spokojen\u00e9. Jak\u00fd div, kdy\u017e jsme obklopeny dokonalou kr\u00e1sou, kter\u00e1 na n\u00e1s denn\u011b shl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed ze str\u00e1nek \u010dasopis\u016f, pl\u00e1ten kin a televizn\u00edch obrazovek a je d\u00edlem viz\u00e1\u017eist\u016f, kade\u0159n\u00edk\u016f, stylist\u016f a po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00fdch grafik\u016f. Sou\u010dasn\u00e1 spole\u010dnost adoruj\u00edc\u00ed ml\u00e1d\u00ed n\u00e1m sugeruje myln\u00e9 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o tom, co je kr\u00e1sa. Podsouv\u00e1 my\u0161lenku, \u017ee s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm rokem ztr\u00e1c\u00edme, \u017ee s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm rokem z\u00a0na\u0161eho pomysln\u00e9ho konta ub\u00fdv\u00e1 \u2013 p\u016fvabu, kr\u00e1sy, energie, s\u00edly. \u017de to, co bylo, je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e to, co bude. Sklouznout k\u00a0\u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9mu srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed s\u00a0t\u011bmi mlad\u0161\u00edmi a poc\u00edtit nejistotu a zlobu je pak celkem snadn\u00e9, i kdy\u017e si tuto my\u0161lenku jen z\u0159\u00eddkakdy p\u0159izn\u00e1me. N\u011bkdy, p\u0159i velk\u00e9 d\u00e1vce vnit\u0159n\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmnosti, ji sv\u011b\u0159\u00edme uchu terapeuta. Jedna klientka mi popisovala ned\u011bln\u00ed odpoledne: \u201eVych\u00e1zela jsem z\u00a0domu na zahradu a uvid\u011bla svoj\u00ed jeden\u00e1ctiletou dceru. St\u00e1la pod jablon\u00ed a zapadaj\u00edc\u00ed slunce oz\u00e1\u0159ilo jej\u00ed vlasy, tak\u017ee vypadaly jako zlat\u00fd vodop\u00e1d. Z\u016fstala jsem st\u00e1t ohromen\u00e1 tou kr\u00e1sou. A z\u00e1rove\u0148 m\u011b n\u011bco uvnit\u0159 bodlo. \u201eA co j\u00e1?\u201c ptala jsem se sebe sama a vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed se za tu my\u0161lenku zastyd\u011bla. Ale byla tady. Co s\u00a0n\u00ed po\u010d\u00edt?\u201c Hra archetyp\u016f P\u0159i hled\u00e1n\u00ed odpov\u011bdi na tuto ot\u00e1zku zam\u00ed\u0159\u00edme o n\u011bkolik tis\u00edcilet\u00ed zp\u011bt a vyd\u00e1me se do St\u0159edomo\u0159\u00ed na posv\u00e1tn\u00fd Olymp. Tam pob\u00fdvali bohov\u00e9 a mezi nimi tak\u00e9 Afrodita, Artemis, Ath\u00e9na, H\u00e9ra, Persefona a D\u00e9m\u00e9t\u00e9r. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z\u00a0nich vl\u00e1dla ur\u010dit\u00e9 oblasti \u017eivota, mohla obdarovat i trestat. Kde \u0159eck\u00e1 mytologie mluv\u00ed o boz\u00edch a bohyn\u00edch, pracuje hlubinn\u00e1 psychologie s\u00a0archetypy, pravzory lidsk\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti, kter\u00e9 se ukr\u00fdvaj\u00ed v\u00a0kolektivn\u00edm nev\u011bdom\u00ed a projevuj\u00ed se skrze na\u0161e kon\u00e1n\u00ed a chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vzp\u00edraj\u00ed se rozumov\u00e9 anal\u00fdze a snadn\u011bji se k\u00a0nim m\u016f\u017eeme p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eit prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm poh\u00e1dek, m\u00fdt\u016f, sn\u016f a um\u011bleck\u00fdch d\u011bl liter\u00e1rn\u00edch, v\u00fdtvarn\u00fdch \u010di hudebn\u00edch. V\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed etap\u011b se v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed psychice n\u011bkter\u00fd z\u00a0archetyp\u016f aktivuje. Kdy\u017e se na n\u00e1s v\u00a0\u010dase dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed usm\u011bje Afrodita, zatou\u017e\u00edme b\u00fdt kr\u00e1sn\u00e9, p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9, milovan\u00e9 i miluj\u00edc\u00ed. Artemis a Ath\u00e9na n\u00e1m dod\u00e1vaj\u00ed energii j\u00edt za sv\u00fdmi z\u00e1jmy a c\u00edli, vystudovat a dos\u00e1hnout profesn\u00ed \u00fasp\u011b\u0161nosti i finan\u010dn\u00ed nez\u00e1vislosti. P\u0159i H\u00e9\u0159in\u011b n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u011b zakus\u00edme, jak\u00e9 vrcholy a \u00fadol\u00ed obn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed partnerstv\u00ed a man\u017eelstv\u00ed. A kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m narod\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, pochop\u00edme radost, obavy i \u00fazkost mytick\u00e9 D\u00e9m\u00e9t\u00e9r. Z\u00a0\u0159eck\u00fdch m\u00fdt\u016f v\u00edme, \u017ee bohov\u00e9 a bohyn\u011b nebyli svat\u00ed ani svat\u00e9. Vyv\u00e1d\u011bli smrteln\u00edk\u016fm i sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem v\u0161emo\u017en\u00e9 kousky a dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u011bli, jak chutn\u00e1 z\u00e1vist a \u017e\u00e1rlivost. Sta\u010d\u00ed se rozpomenout na ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho Parida a jeho soud. Tyto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee archetypy se mohou manifestovat celou \u0161k\u00e1lou mo\u017enost\u00ed. Energetizuj\u00ed n\u00e1s, obdarov\u00e1vaj\u00ed kreativitou, silou, ale n\u00e1s tak\u00e9 vystavuj\u00ed zkou\u0161k\u00e1m a poku\u0161en\u00edm. M\u016f\u017eeme podlehnout jednomu z\u00a0nich a n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot se stane jednostrann\u00fdm. Zaujme-li celou na\u0161i pozornost Afrodita, vzhl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme se v\u00a0zrcadle, vyhled\u00e1v\u00e1me flirt, pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed a rozko\u0161 a ob\u00e1v\u00e1me se, \u017ee to v\u0161e nen\u00e1vratn\u011b zmiz\u00ed s\u00a0prvn\u00ed vr\u00e1skou \u010di kilem nav\u00edc. Pokud n\u00e1s uchv\u00e1t\u00ed Ath\u00e9na, mo\u017en\u00e1 nevid\u00edme nic jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e v\u00fdstup po kari\u00e9rn\u00edm \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dku \u010di p\u0159id\u00e1n\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edho akademick\u00e9ho titulu ke sv\u00e9 bohat\u00e9 sb\u00edrce. V\u00a0objet\u00ed Artemis si m\u016f\u017eeme u\u017e\u00edvat cestov\u00e1n\u00ed, dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed a single \u017eivota, a\u017e se jednoho dne ocitneme osam\u011bl\u00e9 kdesi vysoko v\u00a0hor\u00e1ch \u010di na\u00a0karibsk\u00e9m pob\u0159e\u017e\u00ed a marn\u011b vyhl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme bl\u00edzkou du\u0161i. A propadneme-li D\u00e9m\u00e9t\u00e9r, bude na\u0161e okol\u00ed poslouchat nekone\u010dn\u00e9 chvalozp\u011bvy na genialitu na\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed nebo \u010delit na\u0161im pokus\u016fm vid\u011bt v ka\u017ed\u00e9m jedinci nedosp\u011bl\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ur\u010den\u00e9 k\u00a0v\u00fdchov\u011b. \u0158ekov\u00e9 nepochybovali o s\u00edle i \u017e\u00e1rlivosti boh\u016f a nab\u00e1dali k\u00a0opatrnosti a respektu. Stav\u011bli jim chr\u00e1my a dbali, aby olt\u00e1\u0159e \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9ho z\u00a0nich nez\u016fstaly bez ob\u011btin. P\u0159elo\u017eeno do sou\u010dasn\u00e9ho jazyka to znamen\u00e1 pokusit se rozprost\u0159\u00edt pozornost v\u00edce sm\u011bry \u2013 vedle profesn\u00edho \u00fasil\u00ed nezapom\u00ednat na chvilky oddechu a pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed, p\u011bstovat p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, kultivovat partnersk\u00e9 vztahy a pe\u010dovat o druh\u00e9 a sv\u011bt kolem n\u00e1s. Ostatn\u011b n\u00e1pis v\u00a0Delf\u00e1ch \u201eM\u00e9den ag\u00e1n\u201c, tedy „Ni\u010deho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161“ mluv\u00ed o tomt\u00e9\u017e. M\u016f\u017eeme to p\u0159irovnat k\u00a0\u017eonglov\u00e1n\u00ed s\u00a0m\u00ed\u010dky. Pohazujeme-li si s\u00a0jedn\u00edm, je to jednoduch\u00e9. P\u0159id\u00e1me-li dva, t\u0159i \u010di dokonce \u010dty\u0159i, situace se komplikuje. Trv\u00e1 dlouho, ne\u017e je alespo\u0148 chv\u00edli um\u00edme udr\u017eet ve vzduchu a \u010dasto n\u011bjak\u00fd z\u00a0nich spadne na zem. I \u017eivotn\u00ed \u017eonglov\u00e1n\u00ed s\u00a0n\u011bkolika rolemi \u2013 partnersk\u00fdmi, rodi\u010dovsk\u00fdmi, pracovn\u00edmi i tv\u016fr\u010d\u00edmi, je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u011bnovat se v\u00fdlu\u010dn\u011b jedn\u00e9 z\u00a0nich. Pom\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1m ale vyhnout se \u017eivotn\u00ed jednostrannosti a pomst\u011b t\u011bch archetyp\u016f, se kter\u00fdmi se odm\u00edt\u00e1me potkat. Pomsta m\u016f\u017ee vytrysknout z\u00a0nev\u011bdom\u00ed v\u00a0podob\u011b no\u010dn\u00edch m\u016fr, strachu, deprese, p\u0159e\u0159eknut\u00ed, ostr\u00e9 kritiky na \u00fa\u010det druh\u00fdch \u010di t\u011blesn\u00fdch obt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed. Co se stane, kdy\u017e ze hry vylou\u010d\u00edme Afroditu? Ztr\u00e1ta kontaktu s\u00a0n\u00ed n\u00e1s p\u0159iprav\u00ed o vitalitu, pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed ze \u017eivota a spont\u00e1nnost. Kde byla radost, nastoup\u00ed povinnost, kde byl osv\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed flirt a \u017eiv\u00fd dialog, oz\u00fdv\u00e1 se kritick\u00fd monolog. Barvy miz\u00ed a nastupuje f\u00e1dn\u00ed \u0161e\u010f. Z\u00a0takov\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho nastaven\u00ed je u\u017e jen kr\u016f\u010dek k\u00a0zatrpklosti, srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a z\u00e1visti \u2013 v\u016f\u010di t\u011bm mlad\u0161\u00edm a zd\u00e1nliv\u011b kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm. St\u00e1v\u00e1me se pak adeptkami na roli macechy v\u00a0poh\u00e1dce O Sn\u011bhurce. Ale existuje i jin\u00e1 mo\u017enost. Pozvat Afroditu op\u011bt do sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota a t\u011b\u0161it se z\u00a0jej\u00edch dar\u016f…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2608,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-medunka"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2750","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2750"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2750\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2751,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2750\/revisions\/2751"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2608"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2750"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2750"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2750"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}