{"id":12036,"date":"2025-12-23T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-23T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=12036"},"modified":"2025-12-18T19:23:07","modified_gmt":"2025-12-18T19:23:07","slug":"obraz-idylickych-vanoc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2025\/12\/23\/obraz-idylickych-vanoc\/","title":{"rendered":"Obraz idylick\u00fdch V\u00e1noc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

V\u00e1noce jsou jedn\u00edm z\u00a0nejo\u010dek\u00e1van\u011bj\u0161\u00edch sv\u00e1tk\u016f roku. A\u0165 ji\u017e pat\u0159\u00edte mezi ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se p\u0159\u00edpravou zab\u00fdvaj\u00ed mnoho t\u00fddn\u016f dop\u0159edu, nebo se v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edmu shonu vyh\u00fdb\u00e1te do posledn\u00ed chv\u00edle, zvu v\u00e1s na mal\u00e9 v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed zamy\u0161len\u00ed. Pod\u00edv\u00e1me se spole\u010dn\u011b na sv\u011bt V\u00e1noc o\u010dima d\u011bt\u00ed. <\/strong>
\u010cl\u00e1nek p\u0159ipravila psycholo\u017eka PhDr. Michaela V\u00edte\u010dkov\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n


A\u010dkoliv \u010dasto tvrd\u00edme, \u017ee V\u00e1noce slav\u00edme p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm kv\u016fli nim a t\u011b\u0161\u00edme se z\u00a0jejich radosti, mnohdy d\u011bl\u00e1me v\u0161e proto, aby adventn\u00ed \u010das byl \u010dasem nervozity a nap\u011bt\u00ed.<\/strong> U v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edho strome\u010dku se pak d\u011bt\u00ed brod\u00ed nep\u0159ebern\u00fdm mno\u017estv\u00edm v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jsme jim z\u00a0posledn\u00edch sil nakoupili, z\u00a0hromady d\u00e1rk\u016f jsou podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00e9 a zlob\u00ed v\u00edc ne\u017e kdy jindy. Z\u00a0jejich t\u011bkavosti m\u016f\u017eeme vy\u010d\u00edst jedin\u00e9: je toho v\u0161eho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161, zpomalme. V\u00a0leto\u0161n\u00edm roce se v\u0161e ub\u00edr\u00e1 neo\u010dek\u00e1van\u00fdmi cestami. D\u011bti tr\u00e1v\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu doma, rodi\u010de se sna\u017e\u00ed kombinovat pr\u00e1ci, p\u00e9\u010di o dom\u00e1cnost a v\u00fduku. Je re\u00e1ln\u00e9, \u017ee se poda\u0159\u00ed vykouzlit n\u00e1dhern\u00e9 V\u00e1noce, pokud neubereme ze sv\u00fdch p\u0159edstav?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vnit\u0159n\u00ed obraz<\/strong>
Poj\u010fme na chvilku aktivovat na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, bez ohledu na datum na\u0161eho narozen\u00ed. O\u010di d\u00edt\u011bte n\u00e1m pomohou p\u0159ekonat \u0159adu nesmysln\u00fdch n\u00e1rok\u016f, kter\u00e9 jsme ve jm\u00e9nu idylick\u00fdch V\u00e1noc na sebe a na sv\u00e9 nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed navalili.
Je to mo\u017en\u00e1 obraz idyly, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s nut\u00ed d\u011blat nezvl\u00e1dnuteln\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed \u010dinnost\u00ed. Odkud tento obraz do na\u0161\u00ed mysli p\u0159iplouv\u00e1? Je to obraz z\u00a0na\u0161eho d\u011btstv\u00ed? Nevloudila se do na\u0161\u00ed mysli nere\u00e1ln\u00e1 fantazie? Co je vlastn\u011b ten otisk mysli z\u00a0na\u0161eho d\u011btstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9ho se nechceme za \u017e\u00e1dnou cenu vzd\u00e1t?
Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti pozn\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u011bt p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm pomoc\u00ed smyslov\u00e9ho vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed. Vid\u00ed, sly\u0161\u00ed, c\u00edt\u00ed, dot\u00fdkaj\u00ed se. Z\u00a0pam\u011bti se n\u00e1m v\u00a0dosp\u011blosti nenad\u00e1le vyno\u0159uj\u00ed z\u00e1blesky v\u016fn\u00ed, zvuk\u016f a dotek\u016f z d\u011btstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1me jako kr\u00e1sn\u00e9. Syt\u00ed n\u00e1s a dod\u00e1vaj\u00ed n\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee V\u00e1noce v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed rodin\u011b byly ty nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ze v\u0161ech. Bylo tomu opravdu tak? Ani v\u00a0na\u0161em d\u011btstv\u00ed nebylo v\u0161e bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00e9, tak, jak se nostalgicky domn\u00edv\u00e1me. Sna\u017e\u00edme se vlastn\u011b o n\u011bco, \u010deho ve vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed podob\u011b nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 pln\u011b dos\u00e1hnout. Poslechn\u011bme letos na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b a zam\u011b\u0159me se jen na podstatn\u00e9. B\u00fdt s\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi a d\u00e1t jim svou plnou pozornost. Dejme v\u00edc ze sebe a m\u00e9n\u011b z\u00a0obchodu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zorganizujme podstatn\u00e9<\/strong>
Pro d\u011bti m\u016f\u017ee tento \u010das b\u00fdt n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd i z\u00a0hlediska rodinn\u00e9ho uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed. Mnoho d\u011bt\u00ed \u017eije v\u00a0nov\u011b pospojovan\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch. Maminka i tat\u00ednek u\u017e maj\u00ed nov\u00e9 partnery, p\u0159id\u00e1vaj\u00ed se nov\u00ed sourozenci a vznik\u00e1 pal\u010div\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, jak vlastn\u011b takov\u00fd \u0160t\u011bdr\u00fd den zorganizovat. V\u010das rozmyslete, kde a s\u00a0k\u00fdm bude prob\u00edhat ve\u010de\u0159e a rozbalov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00e1rk\u016f. \u00a0Pokud d\u011bti maj\u00ed tento \u010das spojen\u00fd s\u00a0tahanicemi a l\u00edtost\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f, pak se m\u016f\u017ee dojem idylick\u00fdch V\u00e1noc rozplynout jako p\u00e1ra nad hrncem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nesna\u017eme se za ka\u017edou cenu o dokonalost<\/strong>
D\u011bti nevid\u00ed neut\u0159en\u00fd prach, neuklizen\u00fd byt, pen\u011b\u017en\u00ed sumy, kter\u00e9 se za d\u00e1rky utratily. Tou\u017e\u00ed po jednoduch\u00fdch vjemech klidu, bezpe\u010d\u00ed a \u00fatulnosti. D\u011bti by patrn\u011b uspokojilo daleko m\u00e9n\u011b, ale my dosp\u011bl\u00ed st\u00e1le zvy\u0161ujeme la\u0165ku jejich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, a pak se na n\u011b zlob\u00edme, \u017ee nejsou dostate\u010dn\u011b vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e9. Pokud ubereme materi\u00e1ln\u00edho obstar\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a p\u0159id\u00e1me skute\u010dnou bl\u00edzkost, pak zjist\u00edme, \u017ee se adventn\u00ed \u010das ub\u00edr\u00e1 pomaleji a radostn\u011bji. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee se potk\u00e1me i s\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm vnit\u0159n\u00edm obrazem kr\u00e1sn\u00fdch V\u00e1noc.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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V\u00e1noce jsou jedn\u00edm z\u00a0nejo\u010dek\u00e1van\u011bj\u0161\u00edch sv\u00e1tk\u016f roku. A\u0165 ji\u017e pat\u0159\u00edte mezi ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se p\u0159\u00edpravou zab\u00fdvaj\u00ed mnoho t\u00fddn\u016f dop\u0159edu, nebo se v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edmu shonu vyh\u00fdb\u00e1te do posledn\u00ed chv\u00edle, zvu v\u00e1s na mal\u00e9 v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed zamy\u0161len\u00ed. Pod\u00edv\u00e1me se spole\u010dn\u011b na sv\u011bt V\u00e1noc o\u010dima d\u011bt\u00ed. \u010cl\u00e1nek p\u0159ipravila psycholo\u017eka PhDr. Michaela V\u00edte\u010dkov\u00e1. A\u010dkoliv \u010dasto tvrd\u00edme, \u017ee V\u00e1noce slav\u00edme p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm kv\u016fli nim a t\u011b\u0161\u00edme se z\u00a0jejich radosti, mnohdy d\u011bl\u00e1me v\u0161e proto, aby adventn\u00ed \u010das byl \u010dasem nervozity a nap\u011bt\u00ed. U v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00edho strome\u010dku se pak d\u011bt\u00ed brod\u00ed nep\u0159ebern\u00fdm mno\u017estv\u00edm v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jsme jim z\u00a0posledn\u00edch sil nakoupili, z\u00a0hromady d\u00e1rk\u016f jsou podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00e9 a zlob\u00ed v\u00edc ne\u017e kdy jindy. Z\u00a0jejich t\u011bkavosti m\u016f\u017eeme vy\u010d\u00edst jedin\u00e9: je toho v\u0161eho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161, zpomalme. V\u00a0leto\u0161n\u00edm roce se v\u0161e ub\u00edr\u00e1 neo\u010dek\u00e1van\u00fdmi cestami. D\u011bti tr\u00e1v\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu doma, rodi\u010de se sna\u017e\u00ed kombinovat pr\u00e1ci, p\u00e9\u010di o dom\u00e1cnost a v\u00fduku. Je re\u00e1ln\u00e9, \u017ee se poda\u0159\u00ed vykouzlit n\u00e1dhern\u00e9 V\u00e1noce, pokud neubereme ze sv\u00fdch p\u0159edstav? Vnit\u0159n\u00ed obrazPoj\u010fme na chvilku aktivovat na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, bez ohledu na datum na\u0161eho narozen\u00ed. O\u010di d\u00edt\u011bte n\u00e1m pomohou p\u0159ekonat \u0159adu nesmysln\u00fdch n\u00e1rok\u016f, kter\u00e9 jsme ve jm\u00e9nu idylick\u00fdch V\u00e1noc na sebe a na sv\u00e9 nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed navalili.Je to mo\u017en\u00e1 obraz idyly, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s nut\u00ed d\u011blat nezvl\u00e1dnuteln\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed \u010dinnost\u00ed. Odkud tento obraz do na\u0161\u00ed mysli p\u0159iplouv\u00e1? Je to obraz z\u00a0na\u0161eho d\u011btstv\u00ed? Nevloudila se do na\u0161\u00ed mysli nere\u00e1ln\u00e1 fantazie? Co je vlastn\u011b ten otisk mysli z\u00a0na\u0161eho d\u011btstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9ho se nechceme za \u017e\u00e1dnou cenu vzd\u00e1t?Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti pozn\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u011bt p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm pomoc\u00ed smyslov\u00e9ho vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed. Vid\u00ed, sly\u0161\u00ed, c\u00edt\u00ed, dot\u00fdkaj\u00ed se. Z\u00a0pam\u011bti se n\u00e1m v\u00a0dosp\u011blosti nenad\u00e1le vyno\u0159uj\u00ed z\u00e1blesky v\u016fn\u00ed, zvuk\u016f a dotek\u016f z d\u011btstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1me jako kr\u00e1sn\u00e9. Syt\u00ed n\u00e1s a dod\u00e1vaj\u00ed n\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee V\u00e1noce v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed rodin\u011b byly ty nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ze v\u0161ech. Bylo tomu opravdu tak? Ani v\u00a0na\u0161em d\u011btstv\u00ed nebylo v\u0161e bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00e9, tak, jak se nostalgicky domn\u00edv\u00e1me. Sna\u017e\u00edme se vlastn\u011b o n\u011bco, \u010deho ve vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed podob\u011b nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 pln\u011b dos\u00e1hnout. Poslechn\u011bme letos na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b a zam\u011b\u0159me se jen na podstatn\u00e9. B\u00fdt s\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi a d\u00e1t jim svou plnou pozornost. Dejme v\u00edc ze sebe a m\u00e9n\u011b z\u00a0obchodu. Zorganizujme podstatn\u00e9Pro d\u011bti m\u016f\u017ee tento \u010das b\u00fdt n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd i z\u00a0hlediska rodinn\u00e9ho uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed. Mnoho d\u011bt\u00ed \u017eije v\u00a0nov\u011b pospojovan\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch. Maminka i tat\u00ednek u\u017e maj\u00ed nov\u00e9 partnery, p\u0159id\u00e1vaj\u00ed se nov\u00ed sourozenci a vznik\u00e1 pal\u010div\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, jak vlastn\u011b takov\u00fd \u0160t\u011bdr\u00fd den zorganizovat. V\u010das rozmyslete, kde a s\u00a0k\u00fdm bude prob\u00edhat ve\u010de\u0159e a rozbalov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00e1rk\u016f. \u00a0Pokud d\u011bti maj\u00ed tento \u010das spojen\u00fd s\u00a0tahanicemi a l\u00edtost\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f, pak se m\u016f\u017ee dojem idylick\u00fdch V\u00e1noc rozplynout jako p\u00e1ra nad hrncem. Nesna\u017eme se za ka\u017edou cenu o dokonalostD\u011bti nevid\u00ed neut\u0159en\u00fd prach, neuklizen\u00fd byt, pen\u011b\u017en\u00ed sumy, kter\u00e9 se za d\u00e1rky utratily. Tou\u017e\u00ed po jednoduch\u00fdch vjemech klidu, bezpe\u010d\u00ed a \u00fatulnosti. D\u011bti by patrn\u011b uspokojilo daleko m\u00e9n\u011b, ale my dosp\u011bl\u00ed st\u00e1le zvy\u0161ujeme la\u0165ku jejich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, a pak se na n\u011b zlob\u00edme, \u017ee nejsou dostate\u010dn\u011b vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e9. Pokud ubereme materi\u00e1ln\u00edho obstar\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a p\u0159id\u00e1me skute\u010dnou bl\u00edzkost, pak zjist\u00edme, \u017ee se adventn\u00ed \u010das ub\u00edr\u00e1 pomaleji a radostn\u011bji. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee se potk\u00e1me i s\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm vnit\u0159n\u00edm obrazem kr\u00e1sn\u00fdch V\u00e1noc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":12038,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23,1,31,20,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12036","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deti","category-medunka","category-pro-inspiraci","category-psychologie","category-rodina"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12036","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12036"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12036\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12037,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12036\/revisions\/12037"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12038"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12036"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12036"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12036"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}