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V \u010dervencov\u00e9 Medu\u0148ce v roce 2015 vy\u0161el krom\u011b jin\u00e9ho i tento \u010dl\u00e1nek od RNDr. Evy St\u0159\u00edbrn\u00e9. Co mysl\u00edte, je aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed i v roce 2025?<\/strong>
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Vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed vztahu<\/strong>
Jaroslav Max Ka\u0161par\u016f cituje zn\u00e1m\u00e9ho filozofa: \u201eSou\u010dasn\u00e1 doba p\u0159ekonala v\u0161echny vzd\u00e1lenosti, ale nevytvo\u0159ila \u017e\u00e1dnou bl\u00edzkost.\u201c Plat\u00ed to dvojn\u00e1sob o sou\u010dasn\u00e9m modelu mezigenera\u010dn\u00edho sou\u017eit\u00ed, v n\u011bm\u017e ka\u017edodenn\u00ed kontakt prarodi\u010d\u016f s vnou\u010daty \u010dasto v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b chyb\u00ed, co\u017e m\u00e1 za n\u00e1sledek ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed separaci rodinn\u00fdch vztah\u016f. Novorozenec by si t\u011b\u017eko vytvo\u0159il pevnou vazbu na matku, kdyby nem\u011bl jej\u00ed nep\u0159etr\u017eitou ka\u017edodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di, a t\u00fdk\u00e1 se to dozajista i otc\u016f. Podobn\u011b se v d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00edch dob\u00e1ch nen\u00e1siln\u011b formoval vztah d\u00edt\u011bte k prarodi\u010d\u016fm, tak jak mohlo vr\u016fstat do rodiny sest\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed z v\u00edce generac\u00ed, ani\u017e bylo t\u0159eba vym\u00fd\u0161let strategie, jak nav\u00e1zat s d\u00edt\u011btem kontakt a doc\u00edlit vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho p\u0159ijet\u00ed. Mnoh\u00e9 babi\u010dky i mnoz\u00ed d\u011bde\u010dkov\u00e9, v\u00eddaj\u00ed sv\u00e1 vnou\u010data jen ob\u010das, dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee mal\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti se nevnut\u00edme za ka\u017edou cenu a ob\u010dasn\u00e1 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva nem\u016f\u017ee nahradit ka\u017edodenn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 pob\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b je ukotveno v p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku a nepamatuje si, \u017ee jsme si spole\u010dn\u011b hr\u00e1li n\u011bkdy p\u0159ed t\u00fddnem \u010di dv\u011bma, a tak se \u010dasto n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva prarodi\u010d\u016f mine s p\u016fvodn\u011b zam\u00fd\u0161len\u00fdm c\u00edlem. Teprve kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b povyroste, lze se zna\u010dn\u00fdm \u00fasil\u00edm budovat vztah, kter\u00fd by za okolnost\u00ed vhodn\u00e9ho mezigenera\u010dn\u00edho sou\u017eit\u00ed mohl vznikat spont\u00e1nn\u011b, a je z\u0159ejm\u00e9, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 jeho atributy se u\u017e ani nemusej\u00ed vytvo\u0159it.
Vyvst\u00e1v\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, zda v d\u016fsledku tohoto modern\u00edho spole\u010densk\u00e9ho fenom\u00e9nu str\u00e1daj\u00ed v\u00edc prarodi\u010de nebo vnou\u010data. Zmapov\u00e1n\u00edm mnoh\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f bychom jist\u011b vykreslili \u0159adu konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch situa\u010dn\u00edch zklam\u00e1n\u00ed na obou stran\u00e1ch. Jde v\u0161ak o hlub\u0161\u00ed dopad na rodinn\u00fd syst\u00e9m a jeho \u010dleny, tak jak n\u00e1s sou\u010dasn\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed styl posunul od jednoty k dal\u0161\u00ed odd\u011blenosti! Mo\u017en\u00e1 j\u00ed m\u00e1me proj\u00edt, abychom pochopili, \u017ee pro n\u00e1vrat k jednot\u011b na\u0161eho byt\u00ed mus\u00edme u\u010dinit v\u011bdom\u00fd krok. Kontinuita rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota je samoz\u0159ejm\u00e1 u v\u0161ech p\u0159\u00edrodn\u00edch n\u00e1rod\u016f nezasa\u017een\u00fdch z\u00e1padn\u00ed civilizac\u00ed a zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed p\u0159irozen\u011b logicky se vyv\u00edjej\u00edc\u00ed rodinnou pospolitost, v n\u00ed\u017e dost\u00e1v\u00e1 pat\u0159i\u010dnou p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost ke sv\u00e9mu osobnostn\u00edmu rozvoji ka\u017ed\u00fd jedinec, aby byl schopen splnit \u00fakol, s n\u00edm\u017e p\u0159i\u0161el na sv\u011bt. Ve spole\u010denstv\u00edch s nenucen\u011b se vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00edc\u00edmi rodinn\u00fdmi pouty maj\u00ed d\u011bti nov\u00e9ho v\u011bku bezprost\u0159edn\u011b snaz\u0161\u00ed pozici se rozv\u00edjet, nebo\u0165 jsou \u00fa\u010dastny b\u011bhu \u017eivota se v\u0161emi jeho aspekty od zrozen\u00ed po um\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed a nemusej\u00ed pl\u00fdtvat vlastn\u00edmi silami na pochopen\u00ed vesm\u00edrn\u00fdch z\u00e1kon\u016f, jim\u017e se lidsk\u00fd jedinec pob\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed v tomto hmotn\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b mus\u00ed podrobit. Mnoz\u00ed jsme u\u017e nahl\u00e9dli, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm d\u0159\u00edv je p\u0159ijmeme, t\u00edm snadn\u011bji se zhost\u00edme \u00fakolu, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m vyvstal z karmick\u00fdch z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e\u00ed.
P\u0159irozen\u011b se formuj\u00edc\u00ed a rozv\u00edjej\u00edc\u00ed rodina d\u00e1vala sv\u00fdm potomk\u016fm v podob\u011b nes\u010detn\u00fdch drobn\u00fdch i z\u00e1sadn\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f v\u00fdznamn\u00fd vklad do \u017eivota, tak nezbytn\u00fd pro osobnostn\u00ed v\u00fdvoj a r\u016fst ka\u017ed\u00e9ho jedince. Pomoc\u00ed nich se mal\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka prom\u011b\u0148ovala v \u017eenu a chlapec v mu\u017ee, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e velkou \u010d\u00e1st zku\u0161enost\u00ed nen\u00e1silnou formou p\u0159ed\u00e1vali pr\u00e1v\u011b prarodi\u010de. Div\u00edme se nyn\u00ed, pro\u010d u mlad\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b nastala krize mu\u017esk\u00e9 s\u00edly a pro\u010d se u mlad\u00fdch \u017een vytratila p\u0159irozen\u00e1 touha zalo\u017eit rodinu a m\u00edsto n\u00ed nastupuj\u00ed kari\u00e9rn\u00ed ambice. Nev\u011b\u0159\u00edcn\u011b krout\u00edme hlavou nad opu\u0161t\u011bnost\u00ed star\u00fdch lid\u00ed! P\u016fvod v\u0161ech t\u011bchto spole\u010densk\u00fdch deformac\u00ed lze dozajista vysledovat ve zp\u0159etrhan\u00fdch rodinn\u00fdch vazb\u00e1ch.
Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u0161ak m\u00e1 tento v\u00fdvoj lidsk\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti logiku, kter\u00e1 trp\u011bla i v minulosti mnoh\u00fdmi neduhy. Od st\u0159edov\u011bku se \u017eeny osvobozovaly od nadvl\u00e1dy mu\u017e\u016f tak, jak se p\u0159eskupovaly vesm\u00edrn\u00e9 tvo\u0159\u00edc\u00ed s\u00edly. A\u017e v d\u016fsledku ur\u010dit\u00fdch str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed jsme m\u011bli pochopit fungov\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017esk\u00e9ho a \u017eensk\u00e9ho principu v n\u00e1s, abychom se s ob\u011bma principy nau\u010dili zach\u00e1zet a dok\u00e1zali vytv\u00e1\u0159et funk\u010dn\u00ed rovnov\u00e1hu. Pak n\u00e1m univerzum taky nejsp\u00ed\u0161 chce uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee nem\u00e1me jinou mo\u017enost ne\u017e respektovat z\u00e1kon rezonance. Museli jsme z\u0159ejm\u011b proj\u00edt odtr\u017een\u00edm od bo\u017esk\u00e9 podstaty, abychom teprve a\u017e v opu\u0161t\u011bnosti nahl\u00e9dli, \u017ee jsme sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed celku, a v\u011bdom\u011b se rozhodli pod\u00edlet na n\u00e1vratu do jednoty s kosmickou stvo\u0159itelskou silou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00fdm\u011bna rol\u00ed<\/strong>
V kolob\u011bhu neust\u00e1l\u00e9 prom\u011bny a opakovan\u00fdch zrozen\u00ed a um\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed si podle v\u016fle bo\u017e\u00ed vym\u011b\u0148ujeme rovn\u011b\u017e i role u\u010ditele a \u017e\u00e1ka, jen je t\u0159eba b\u00fdt bd\u011bl\u00fd a ostra\u017eit\u00fd, abychom um\u011bli tu svoji v prav\u00fd \u010das naj\u00edt! A d\u011bti nov\u00e9ho v\u011bku mohou b\u00fdt v tomto ohledu na\u0161imi pr\u016fvodci.
T\u0159\u00edlet\u00fd klou\u010dek jde s babi\u010dkou na proch\u00e1zku lesem a zpozoruje pt\u00e1\u010dka na vysok\u00e9 borovici. Okam\u017eit\u011b ho napadne: \u201eJak se tam nahoru dostal, babi\u010dko, a mohl bych tam za n\u00edm?\u201c \u201eMusel bys um\u011bt l\u00e9tat,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 babi\u010dka. Korunou stromu se n\u00e1hle mihne veverka a dal\u0161\u00ed ot\u00e1zka je nasnad\u011b: \u201eVeverka taky l\u00edt\u00e1? A jak to dok\u00e1\u017ee, kdy\u017e nem\u00e1 k\u0159\u00eddla?\u201c \u201eVeverka um\u00ed dob\u0159e \u0161plhat, tak na strom snadno a rychle vyleze,\u201c op\u00e1\u010d\u00ed babi\u010dka. Ho\u0161\u00edk d\u00e1l vyzv\u00edd\u00e1: \u201eA kdo je\u0161t\u011b um\u00ed dob\u0159e vyl\u00e9zt na vysok\u00fd strom?\u201c Babi\u010dka se sna\u017e\u00ed vyjmenovat p\u00e1r zv\u00ed\u0159\u00e1tek, pak si vzpomene je\u0161t\u011b na opi\u010dku. \u201eA\u017e budu opi\u010dkou, tak na tenhle strom taky vylezu a budu se kamar\u00e1dit s t\u00edm pt\u00e1\u010dkem,\u201c uzav\u0159e debatu vnou\u010dek.
Na \u0159ad\u011b podobn\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f bychom si mohli uk\u00e1zat, jak\u00fd dar je promrh\u00e1v\u00e1n, kdy\u017e se vytratil ka\u017edodenn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das prarodi\u010d\u016f s vnou\u010daty. D\u011btsk\u00e9 vid\u011bn\u00ed sv\u011bta n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee nejen obohatit, ale t\u00e9\u017e inspirovat, jak\u00e1 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f p\u0159ijmout. M\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1m pomoci rozpomenout se na smysl na\u0161eho byt\u00ed, kter\u00fd jsme zam\u011bnili za konzumn\u00ed zp\u016fsob \u017eivota. Uk\u00e1\u017ee n\u00e1m sm\u011br, ocitneme-li se na rozcest\u00ed. Mus\u00edme jen uchopit tuto p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost danou \u017eivotem!
Pokud se n\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed navzdory modern\u00edmu uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny, ukotven\u00e9mu v odd\u011blen\u00fdch \u017eivotech jednotliv\u00fdch generac\u00ed, nastolit alespo\u0148 \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dnou kontinuitu vztah\u016f, m\u016f\u017eeme s p\u0159ekvapen\u00edm zjistit, \u017ee v nov\u00e9m v\u011bku jako by se \u010das oto\u010dil a role z\u00fa\u010dastn\u011bn\u00fdch prost\u0159\u00eddaly: Prarodi\u010de pro zm\u011bnu \u010derpaj\u00ed ze zku\u0161enost\u00ed vnou\u010dat! Tento zd\u00e1nliv\u00fd paradox by n\u00e1s m\u011bl p\u0159im\u011bt k poko\u0159e, se kterou opust\u00edme star\u00e9 my\u0161lenkov\u00e9 struktury a pokus\u00edme se prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm daru nebes v podob\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed nov\u00e9ho v\u011bku propojit s vesm\u00edrnou tvo\u0159ivou silou, abychom v holografick\u00e9m pojet\u00ed kosmu jako jeho \u010d\u00e1st zrcadl\u00edc\u00ed celek p\u0159isp\u011bli k z\u00e1chran\u011b sv\u011bta i sebe sama.
Nach\u00e1zejme a o\u017eivujme proto v mez\u00edch na\u0161ich mo\u017enost\u00ed mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed propojen\u00ed a dejme jim podobu funk\u010dn\u00edch vztah\u016f mezi prarodi\u010di a vnou\u010daty. Vykro\u010d\u00edme-li alespo\u0148 mali\u010dko ze sv\u00e9 zapouzd\u0159en\u00e9 strnulosti, proz\u00e1\u0159\u00ed tuto na\u0161i cestu sv\u011btlo bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a tvo\u0159iv\u00fd vesm\u00edr bude na\u0161emu kon\u00e1n\u00ed v tomto ohledu p\u0159\u00edzniv\u011b naklon\u011bn!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                                                                              RNDr. Eva St\u0159\u00edbrn\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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V \u010dervencov\u00e9 Medu\u0148ce v roce 2015 vy\u0161el krom\u011b jin\u00e9ho i tento \u010dl\u00e1nek od RNDr. Evy St\u0159\u00edbrn\u00e9. Co mysl\u00edte, je aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed i v roce 2025? Vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed vztahuJaroslav Max Ka\u0161par\u016f cituje zn\u00e1m\u00e9ho filozofa: \u201eSou\u010dasn\u00e1 doba p\u0159ekonala v\u0161echny vzd\u00e1lenosti, ale nevytvo\u0159ila \u017e\u00e1dnou bl\u00edzkost.\u201c Plat\u00ed to dvojn\u00e1sob o sou\u010dasn\u00e9m modelu mezigenera\u010dn\u00edho sou\u017eit\u00ed, v n\u011bm\u017e ka\u017edodenn\u00ed kontakt prarodi\u010d\u016f s vnou\u010daty \u010dasto v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b chyb\u00ed, co\u017e m\u00e1 za n\u00e1sledek ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed separaci rodinn\u00fdch vztah\u016f. Novorozenec by si t\u011b\u017eko vytvo\u0159il pevnou vazbu na matku, kdyby nem\u011bl jej\u00ed nep\u0159etr\u017eitou ka\u017edodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di, a t\u00fdk\u00e1 se to dozajista i otc\u016f. Podobn\u011b se v d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00edch dob\u00e1ch nen\u00e1siln\u011b formoval vztah d\u00edt\u011bte k prarodi\u010d\u016fm, tak jak mohlo vr\u016fstat do rodiny sest\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed z v\u00edce generac\u00ed, ani\u017e bylo t\u0159eba vym\u00fd\u0161let strategie, jak nav\u00e1zat s d\u00edt\u011btem kontakt a doc\u00edlit vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho p\u0159ijet\u00ed. Mnoh\u00e9 babi\u010dky i mnoz\u00ed d\u011bde\u010dkov\u00e9, v\u00eddaj\u00ed sv\u00e1 vnou\u010data jen ob\u010das, dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee mal\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti se nevnut\u00edme za ka\u017edou cenu a ob\u010dasn\u00e1 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva nem\u016f\u017ee nahradit ka\u017edodenn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 pob\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b je ukotveno v p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku a nepamatuje si, \u017ee jsme si spole\u010dn\u011b hr\u00e1li n\u011bkdy p\u0159ed t\u00fddnem \u010di dv\u011bma, a tak se \u010dasto n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva prarodi\u010d\u016f mine s p\u016fvodn\u011b zam\u00fd\u0161len\u00fdm c\u00edlem. Teprve kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b povyroste, lze se zna\u010dn\u00fdm \u00fasil\u00edm budovat vztah, kter\u00fd by za okolnost\u00ed vhodn\u00e9ho mezigenera\u010dn\u00edho sou\u017eit\u00ed mohl vznikat spont\u00e1nn\u011b, a je z\u0159ejm\u00e9, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 jeho atributy se u\u017e ani nemusej\u00ed vytvo\u0159it.Vyvst\u00e1v\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, zda v d\u016fsledku tohoto modern\u00edho spole\u010densk\u00e9ho fenom\u00e9nu str\u00e1daj\u00ed v\u00edc prarodi\u010de nebo vnou\u010data. Zmapov\u00e1n\u00edm mnoh\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f bychom jist\u011b vykreslili \u0159adu konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch situa\u010dn\u00edch zklam\u00e1n\u00ed na obou stran\u00e1ch. Jde v\u0161ak o hlub\u0161\u00ed dopad na rodinn\u00fd syst\u00e9m a jeho \u010dleny, tak jak n\u00e1s sou\u010dasn\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed styl posunul od jednoty k dal\u0161\u00ed odd\u011blenosti! Mo\u017en\u00e1 j\u00ed m\u00e1me proj\u00edt, abychom pochopili, \u017ee pro n\u00e1vrat k jednot\u011b na\u0161eho byt\u00ed mus\u00edme u\u010dinit v\u011bdom\u00fd krok. Kontinuita rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota je samoz\u0159ejm\u00e1 u v\u0161ech p\u0159\u00edrodn\u00edch n\u00e1rod\u016f nezasa\u017een\u00fdch z\u00e1padn\u00ed civilizac\u00ed a zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed p\u0159irozen\u011b logicky se vyv\u00edjej\u00edc\u00ed rodinnou pospolitost, v n\u00ed\u017e dost\u00e1v\u00e1 pat\u0159i\u010dnou p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost ke sv\u00e9mu osobnostn\u00edmu rozvoji ka\u017ed\u00fd jedinec, aby byl schopen splnit \u00fakol, s n\u00edm\u017e p\u0159i\u0161el na sv\u011bt. Ve spole\u010denstv\u00edch s nenucen\u011b se vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00edc\u00edmi rodinn\u00fdmi pouty maj\u00ed d\u011bti nov\u00e9ho v\u011bku bezprost\u0159edn\u011b snaz\u0161\u00ed pozici se rozv\u00edjet, nebo\u0165 jsou \u00fa\u010dastny b\u011bhu \u017eivota se v\u0161emi jeho aspekty od zrozen\u00ed po um\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed a nemusej\u00ed pl\u00fdtvat vlastn\u00edmi silami na pochopen\u00ed vesm\u00edrn\u00fdch z\u00e1kon\u016f, jim\u017e se lidsk\u00fd jedinec pob\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed v tomto hmotn\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b mus\u00ed podrobit. Mnoz\u00ed jsme u\u017e nahl\u00e9dli, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm d\u0159\u00edv je p\u0159ijmeme, t\u00edm snadn\u011bji se zhost\u00edme \u00fakolu, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m vyvstal z karmick\u00fdch z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e\u00ed.P\u0159irozen\u011b se formuj\u00edc\u00ed a rozv\u00edjej\u00edc\u00ed rodina d\u00e1vala sv\u00fdm potomk\u016fm v podob\u011b nes\u010detn\u00fdch drobn\u00fdch i z\u00e1sadn\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f v\u00fdznamn\u00fd vklad do \u017eivota, tak nezbytn\u00fd pro osobnostn\u00ed v\u00fdvoj a r\u016fst ka\u017ed\u00e9ho jedince. Pomoc\u00ed nich se mal\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka prom\u011b\u0148ovala v \u017eenu a chlapec v mu\u017ee, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e velkou \u010d\u00e1st zku\u0161enost\u00ed nen\u00e1silnou formou p\u0159ed\u00e1vali pr\u00e1v\u011b prarodi\u010de. Div\u00edme se nyn\u00ed, pro\u010d u mlad\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b nastala krize mu\u017esk\u00e9 s\u00edly a pro\u010d se u mlad\u00fdch \u017een vytratila p\u0159irozen\u00e1 touha zalo\u017eit rodinu a m\u00edsto n\u00ed nastupuj\u00ed kari\u00e9rn\u00ed ambice. Nev\u011b\u0159\u00edcn\u011b krout\u00edme hlavou nad opu\u0161t\u011bnost\u00ed star\u00fdch lid\u00ed! P\u016fvod v\u0161ech t\u011bchto spole\u010densk\u00fdch deformac\u00ed lze dozajista vysledovat ve zp\u0159etrhan\u00fdch rodinn\u00fdch vazb\u00e1ch.Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u0161ak m\u00e1 tento v\u00fdvoj lidsk\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti logiku, kter\u00e1 trp\u011bla i v minulosti mnoh\u00fdmi neduhy. Od st\u0159edov\u011bku se \u017eeny osvobozovaly od nadvl\u00e1dy mu\u017e\u016f tak, jak se p\u0159eskupovaly vesm\u00edrn\u00e9 tvo\u0159\u00edc\u00ed s\u00edly. A\u017e v d\u016fsledku ur\u010dit\u00fdch str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed jsme m\u011bli pochopit fungov\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017esk\u00e9ho a \u017eensk\u00e9ho principu v n\u00e1s, abychom se s ob\u011bma principy nau\u010dili zach\u00e1zet a dok\u00e1zali vytv\u00e1\u0159et funk\u010dn\u00ed rovnov\u00e1hu. Pak n\u00e1m univerzum taky nejsp\u00ed\u0161 chce uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee nem\u00e1me jinou mo\u017enost ne\u017e respektovat z\u00e1kon rezonance. Museli jsme z\u0159ejm\u011b proj\u00edt odtr\u017een\u00edm od bo\u017esk\u00e9 podstaty, abychom teprve a\u017e v opu\u0161t\u011bnosti nahl\u00e9dli, \u017ee jsme sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed celku, a v\u011bdom\u011b se rozhodli pod\u00edlet na n\u00e1vratu do jednoty s kosmickou stvo\u0159itelskou silou. V\u00fdm\u011bna rol\u00edV kolob\u011bhu neust\u00e1l\u00e9 prom\u011bny a opakovan\u00fdch zrozen\u00ed a um\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed si podle v\u016fle bo\u017e\u00ed vym\u011b\u0148ujeme rovn\u011b\u017e i role u\u010ditele a \u017e\u00e1ka, jen je t\u0159eba b\u00fdt bd\u011bl\u00fd a ostra\u017eit\u00fd, abychom um\u011bli tu svoji v prav\u00fd \u010das naj\u00edt! A d\u011bti nov\u00e9ho v\u011bku mohou b\u00fdt v tomto ohledu na\u0161imi pr\u016fvodci.T\u0159\u00edlet\u00fd klou\u010dek jde s babi\u010dkou na proch\u00e1zku lesem a zpozoruje pt\u00e1\u010dka na vysok\u00e9 borovici. Okam\u017eit\u011b ho napadne: \u201eJak se tam nahoru dostal, babi\u010dko, a mohl bych tam za n\u00edm?\u201c \u201eMusel bys um\u011bt l\u00e9tat,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 babi\u010dka. Korunou stromu se n\u00e1hle mihne veverka a dal\u0161\u00ed ot\u00e1zka je nasnad\u011b: \u201eVeverka taky l\u00edt\u00e1? A jak to dok\u00e1\u017ee, kdy\u017e nem\u00e1 k\u0159\u00eddla?\u201c \u201eVeverka um\u00ed dob\u0159e \u0161plhat, tak na strom snadno a rychle vyleze,\u201c op\u00e1\u010d\u00ed babi\u010dka. Ho\u0161\u00edk d\u00e1l vyzv\u00edd\u00e1: \u201eA kdo je\u0161t\u011b um\u00ed dob\u0159e vyl\u00e9zt na vysok\u00fd strom?\u201c Babi\u010dka se sna\u017e\u00ed vyjmenovat p\u00e1r zv\u00ed\u0159\u00e1tek, pak si vzpomene je\u0161t\u011b na opi\u010dku. \u201eA\u017e budu opi\u010dkou, tak na tenhle strom taky vylezu a budu se kamar\u00e1dit s t\u00edm pt\u00e1\u010dkem,\u201c uzav\u0159e debatu vnou\u010dek.Na \u0159ad\u011b podobn\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f bychom si mohli uk\u00e1zat, jak\u00fd dar je promrh\u00e1v\u00e1n, kdy\u017e se vytratil ka\u017edodenn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das prarodi\u010d\u016f s vnou\u010daty. D\u011btsk\u00e9 vid\u011bn\u00ed sv\u011bta n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee nejen obohatit, ale t\u00e9\u017e inspirovat, jak\u00e1 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f p\u0159ijmout. M\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1m pomoci rozpomenout se na smysl na\u0161eho byt\u00ed, kter\u00fd jsme zam\u011bnili za konzumn\u00ed zp\u016fsob \u017eivota. Uk\u00e1\u017ee n\u00e1m sm\u011br, ocitneme-li se na rozcest\u00ed. Mus\u00edme jen uchopit tuto p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost danou \u017eivotem!Pokud se n\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed navzdory modern\u00edmu uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny, ukotven\u00e9mu v odd\u011blen\u00fdch \u017eivotech jednotliv\u00fdch generac\u00ed, nastolit alespo\u0148 \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dnou kontinuitu vztah\u016f, m\u016f\u017eeme s p\u0159ekvapen\u00edm zjistit, \u017ee v nov\u00e9m v\u011bku jako by se \u010das oto\u010dil a role z\u00fa\u010dastn\u011bn\u00fdch prost\u0159\u00eddaly: Prarodi\u010de pro zm\u011bnu \u010derpaj\u00ed ze zku\u0161enost\u00ed vnou\u010dat! Tento zd\u00e1nliv\u00fd paradox by n\u00e1s m\u011bl p\u0159im\u011bt k poko\u0159e, se kterou opust\u00edme star\u00e9 my\u0161lenkov\u00e9 struktury a pokus\u00edme se prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm daru nebes v podob\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed nov\u00e9ho v\u011bku propojit s vesm\u00edrnou tvo\u0159ivou silou, abychom v holografick\u00e9m pojet\u00ed kosmu jako jeho \u010d\u00e1st zrcadl\u00edc\u00ed celek p\u0159isp\u011bli k z\u00e1chran\u011b sv\u011bta i sebe sama.Nach\u00e1zejme a o\u017eivujme proto v mez\u00edch na\u0161ich mo\u017enost\u00ed mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed propojen\u00ed a dejme jim podobu funk\u010dn\u00edch vztah\u016f mezi prarodi\u010di a vnou\u010daty. Vykro\u010d\u00edme-li alespo\u0148 mali\u010dko ze sv\u00e9 zapouzd\u0159en\u00e9 strnulosti, proz\u00e1\u0159\u00ed tuto na\u0161i cestu sv\u011btlo bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a tvo\u0159iv\u00fd vesm\u00edr bude na\u0161emu kon\u00e1n\u00ed v tomto ohledu p\u0159\u00edzniv\u011b naklon\u011bn!                                                                               RNDr. Eva St\u0159\u00edbrn\u00e1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":11462,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23,1,31,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11458","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deti","category-medunka","category-pro-inspiraci","category-rodina"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11458","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11458"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11458\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11463,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11458\/revisions\/11463"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11462"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}