{"id":11238,"date":"2025-05-21T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-05-21T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=11238"},"modified":"2025-05-20T17:37:54","modified_gmt":"2025-05-20T17:37:54","slug":"jak-byt-stastny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2025\/05\/21\/jak-byt-stastny\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kdo by necht\u011bl b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd! Jen\u017ee, jak na to???<\/strong> Zamy\u0161len\u00ed z cyklu P\u00edse\u0148 m\u00e9ho srdce <\/em>p\u0159ipravil Ji\u0159\u00ed Maz\u00e1nek<\/em>…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n


Pod\u00edv\u00e1te-li se na televizi, nebo si p\u0159e\u010dte jak\u00fdkoli \u010dasopis, dozv\u00edte se mnoho rad a n\u00e1vod\u016f na to, jak b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd. P\u0159edstava o tom, co je to b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je sice dost r\u016fznorod\u00e1, ale v\u011bt\u0161inou jde o to b\u00fdt zdrav\u00fd, m\u00edt v\u0161echny mo\u017en\u00e9 v\u011bci, komfort, prost\u011b u\u017e\u00edvat si \u017eivota. Kdy\u017e to stru\u010dn\u011b shrnu, jsou to vesm\u011bs hmotn\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti, uspokojen\u00ed na\u0161ich p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00fdch pr\u00fd m\u00e1me m\u00edt mnoho. Abychom si je splnili, m\u016f\u017eeme si vz\u00edt \u00fadajn\u011b v\u00fdhodn\u00e9 p\u016fj\u010dky, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s zav\u00e1\u017eou ke spl\u00e1cen\u00ed aspo\u0148 na polovinu \u017eivota.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co se stane, kdy\u017e v\u0161echny tyto v\u011bci a mo\u017enosti nevyu\u017eijeme, nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e vyu\u017e\u00edt nem\u016f\u017eeme? Obvykle tou\u017e\u00edme, z\u00e1vid\u00edme druh\u00fdm a trp\u00edme pouze na z\u00e1klad\u011b nedostatku hmotn\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed.
Ji\u017e zhruba 500 let p\u0159ed n. l. vyslovil Buddha \u010dty\u0159i vzne\u0161en\u00e9 pravdy o utrpen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se zcela li\u0161\u00ed od t\u011bch pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edch, k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch. V\u011bt\u0161ina k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch mu\u010dedn\u00edk\u016f trp\u011bla t\u011blesn\u011b nebo zahynula krutou smrt\u00ed. Byla to obdoba umu\u010den\u00ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161e Krista. Buddha ale mluv\u00ed o utrpen\u00ed psychick\u00e9m, jeho\u017e zdroj je v touze, p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di \u017e\u00e1dosti. Nebudu zde mluvit o utrpen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je spojeno se st\u00e1\u0159\u00edm, nemoc\u00ed \u010di bolest\u00ed, ale o tom, kter\u00e9 vypl\u00fdv\u00e1 z dne\u0161n\u00edho nespokojen\u00e9ho zp\u016fsobu \u017eivota.<\/strong> Tou\u017e\u00edme po nadbyte\u010dn\u00e9m pohodl\u00ed, a kdy\u017e n\u011b\u010deho nedos\u00e1hneme, trp\u00edme potom t\u0159eba vztekem, nen\u00e1vist\u00ed, \u010di z\u00e1vist\u00ed v\u016f\u010di t\u011bm, co toho dos\u00e1hli. Tak\u00e9 trp\u00edme, kdy\u017e p\u0159ijdeme o n\u011bco p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho, nebo kdy\u017e ztrat\u00edme bl\u00edzkou osobu. Toto psychick\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 pocity i na t\u011ble, proto\u017ee to, co je v mysli, se do n\u011bj prom\u00edt\u00e1. Skl\u00e1d\u00e1me se toti\u017e i z jemn\u011bhmotn\u00fdch slo\u017eek \u2013 energetick\u00e9, emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed a ment\u00e1ln\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se prol\u00ednaj\u00ed do hmotn\u00e9ho organismu. <\/strong>Proto n\u00e1m tak \u0161kod\u00ed nen\u00e1vist, zlost, z\u00e1vist, pokrytectv\u00ed, lhan\u00ed, negativn\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed, ubli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, ale i pl\u00e1\u010d a smutek, p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 vci\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00ed se do bolesti druh\u00fdch apod. Naopak n\u00e1m velmi pom\u00e1haj\u00ed radost, sm\u00edch, vesel\u00e1 mysl a pozitivn\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed. Teorie je tedy jasn\u00e1, jen\u017ee \u017eivot nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak se zbavit utrpen\u00ed<\/strong>
Dnes u\u017e na to m\u00e1me mnoho rad od r\u016fzn\u00fdch u\u010ditel\u016f, ale Buddha se vyslovil jasn\u011b a stru\u010dn\u011b. Mluvil o u\u0161lechtil\u00e9 stezce k z\u00e1niku utrpen\u00ed. Skl\u00e1d\u00e1 se z osmi bod\u016f, kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba d\u011blat spr\u00e1vn\u011b: pochopen\u00ed, my\u0161len\u00ed, mluva, kon\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017eivotospr\u00e1va, \u00fasil\u00ed, uv\u011bdomov\u00e1n\u00ed a soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00ed.
Jak vid\u00edte, nen\u00ed toho m\u00e1lo a je t\u0159eba po t\u00e9to stezce kr\u00e1\u010det neust\u00e1le. Dne\u0161n\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk v\u011bt\u0161inou \u0159ekne, \u017ee na to nem\u00e1 \u010das a \u017ee je to pouze pro mnichy. To je v\u0161ak z\u00e1sadn\u00ed omyl. V\u0161echno je to vlastn\u011b velmi jednoduch\u00e9, a kdyby to praktikovala aspo\u0148 polovina lidstva, sv\u011bt by byl jin\u00fd a lep\u0161\u00ed. Lid\u00e9 si to \u010dasto vysv\u011btluj\u00ed po sv\u00e9m a hodn\u011b tzv. duchovn\u00edch lid\u00ed si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee kdy\u017e vytvo\u0159\u00ed stabiln\u00ed vztah, neposunou se, nebo sv\u00fdmi partnery, kte\u0159\u00ed to maj\u00ed nastaveno jinak, pohrdaj\u00ed. Jin\u00ed rozb\u00edjej\u00ed ji\u017e vytvo\u0159en\u00e9 pevn\u00e9 svazky a prezentuj\u00ed to jako duchovn\u00ed z\u00e1m\u011br.
Ji\u017e Lao \u2013 c\u00b4napsal v Tao \u2013 te \u2013 \u0165ing, \u017ee kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 slova neb\u00fdvaj\u00ed pravdiv\u00e1 a pravdiv\u00e1 slova neb\u00fdvaj\u00ed kr\u00e1sn\u00e1. Lid\u00e9 neradi p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bnou kritiku a nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9 \u010diny si dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed v\u017edycky n\u011bjak pokroucen\u011b vysv\u011btlit. V cel\u00e9m vesm\u00edru v\u0161ak funguje z\u00e1kon akce a reakce, a tak se pak nem\u016f\u017eou divit, \u017ee trp\u00ed. Sv\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed si nedovedou vysv\u011btlit a obvykle je nejprve psychick\u00e9. Kdy\u017e se v\u0161ak neza\u010dnou otev\u00edrat pochopen\u00ed ani p\u0159i dal\u0161\u00edch upozorn\u011bn\u00edch, p\u0159es jemn\u011bhmotn\u00e9 slo\u017eky se v\u0161e za\u010dne p\u0159esovat do fyzick\u00e9ho t\u011bla jako bolesti a nemoci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uv\u011bdomov\u00e1n\u00ed si<\/strong>
Co tedy d\u011blat, kdy\u017e c\u00edt\u00edme utrpen\u00ed? Buddha pravil, \u017ee je t\u0159eba se zbavit touhy, p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017e\u00e1dosti po v\u0161em. Je to velmi prost\u00e9 a n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1rove\u0148, proto\u017ee mysl se tomu br\u00e1n\u00ed. Uvedu jednoduch\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edklady. Kdy\u017e je n\u011bkdo z\u00e1visl\u00fd na alkoholu, bude m\u00edt pot\u00ed\u017ee s j\u00e1try, my\u0161len\u00edm a soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00edm, a tak by s\u00a0t\u00edm m\u011bl p\u0159estat. Hor\u0161\u00ed je, kdy\u017e t\u0159eba \u017eena tou\u017e\u00ed po drah\u00fdch \u0161atech, bot\u00e1ch \u010di \u0161perc\u00edch a nem\u00e1 na to pen\u00edze. Pak hled\u00e1 mu\u017ee, kte\u0159\u00ed j\u00ed je daj\u00ed, ale poda\u0159\u00ed se to jen n\u011bkter\u00e9. Jestli\u017ee je v\u0161ak s mu\u017eem jen kv\u016fli pen\u011bz\u016fm, trp\u00ed v\u0161ak d\u00e1l.
Utrpen\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch dnes vzr\u016fst\u00e1, ale sp\u00ed\u0161 bych \u0159ekl, \u017ee lid\u00e9 sp\u00ed\u0161e trp\u00ed v nespr\u00e1vn\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch, nikoliv pro l\u00e1sku. Co jsou to nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9 vztahy? Vznikaj\u00ed tehdy, kdy\u017e se dva lid\u00e9 vezmou proto, \u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eou b\u00fdt sami, nebo kv\u016fli siln\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159ita\u017elivosti, ot\u011bhotn\u011bn\u00ed partnerky apod. Utrpen\u00ed potom vznik\u00e1 deziluz\u00ed z toho, \u017ee nep\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed to, co o\u010dek\u00e1vali.<\/strong> Anebo proto, \u017ee byli pro vztah nezral\u00ed a nedok\u00e1zali v n\u011bm \u017e\u00edt, proto\u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eou naslouchat sami sob\u011b ani partnerovi. \u010casto jsou pak bezradn\u00ed, proto\u017ee rozchod by nic nevy\u0159e\u0161il a nev\u011bra je pouze do\u010dasn\u00fd pocit uspokojen\u00ed. A tak lid\u00e9 trp\u00ed vlastn\u011b proto, \u017ee po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nev\u011bd\u00ed, co cht\u011bj\u00ed, a neum\u011bj\u00ed d\u00e1vat. Cht\u011bj\u00ed jen dost\u00e1vat.
M\u00e1lokdo trp\u00ed pro opravdovou l\u00e1sku, a kdy\u017e v\u00e1s opust\u00ed milovan\u00e1 bytost, je to jedna z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch bolest\u00ed. Nem\u016f\u017eete zapomenout na kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 chv\u00edle, kter\u00e9 se v\u00e1m st\u00e1le vybavuj\u00ed, a c\u00edt\u00edte smutek. Pomoc je dvoj\u00ed \u2013 bu\u010f n\u00e1vrat milovan\u00e9 bytosti, anebo je t\u0159eba si v\u0161echny vzpom\u00ednky zpracovat nap\u0159. v\u00a0meditaci. Je to dlouh\u00e1 cesta, ale vede k\u00a0osvobozen\u00ed a k\u00a0pozn\u00e1n\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b hlub\u0161\u00edch \u00farovn\u00ed l\u00e1sky, kdy se ve sv\u00e9m nitru spojujeme s\u00a0t\u00edm, co n\u00e1s p\u0159esahuje. Na l\u00e1sku toti\u017e nem\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd jin\u00fd l\u00e9k ne\u017e zase l\u00e1ska.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ji\u0159\u00ed Maz\u00e1nek<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kdo by necht\u011bl b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd! Jen\u017ee, jak na to??? Zamy\u0161len\u00ed z cyklu P\u00edse\u0148 m\u00e9ho srdce p\u0159ipravil Ji\u0159\u00ed Maz\u00e1nek… Pod\u00edv\u00e1te-li se na televizi, nebo si p\u0159e\u010dte jak\u00fdkoli \u010dasopis, dozv\u00edte se mnoho rad a n\u00e1vod\u016f na to, jak b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd. P\u0159edstava o tom, co je to b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je sice dost r\u016fznorod\u00e1, ale v\u011bt\u0161inou jde o to b\u00fdt zdrav\u00fd, m\u00edt v\u0161echny mo\u017en\u00e9 v\u011bci, komfort, prost\u011b u\u017e\u00edvat si \u017eivota. Kdy\u017e to stru\u010dn\u011b shrnu, jsou to vesm\u011bs hmotn\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti, uspokojen\u00ed na\u0161ich p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00fdch pr\u00fd m\u00e1me m\u00edt mnoho. Abychom si je splnili, m\u016f\u017eeme si vz\u00edt \u00fadajn\u011b v\u00fdhodn\u00e9 p\u016fj\u010dky, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s zav\u00e1\u017eou ke spl\u00e1cen\u00ed aspo\u0148 na polovinu \u017eivota. Co se stane, kdy\u017e v\u0161echny tyto v\u011bci a mo\u017enosti nevyu\u017eijeme, nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e vyu\u017e\u00edt nem\u016f\u017eeme? Obvykle tou\u017e\u00edme, z\u00e1vid\u00edme druh\u00fdm a trp\u00edme pouze na z\u00e1klad\u011b nedostatku hmotn\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed.Ji\u017e zhruba 500 let p\u0159ed n. l. vyslovil Buddha \u010dty\u0159i vzne\u0161en\u00e9 pravdy o utrpen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se zcela li\u0161\u00ed od t\u011bch pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edch, k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch. V\u011bt\u0161ina k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch mu\u010dedn\u00edk\u016f trp\u011bla t\u011blesn\u011b nebo zahynula krutou smrt\u00ed. Byla to obdoba umu\u010den\u00ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161e Krista. Buddha ale mluv\u00ed o utrpen\u00ed psychick\u00e9m, jeho\u017e zdroj je v touze, p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di \u017e\u00e1dosti. Nebudu zde mluvit o utrpen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je spojeno se st\u00e1\u0159\u00edm, nemoc\u00ed \u010di bolest\u00ed, ale o tom, kter\u00e9 vypl\u00fdv\u00e1 z dne\u0161n\u00edho nespokojen\u00e9ho zp\u016fsobu \u017eivota. Tou\u017e\u00edme po nadbyte\u010dn\u00e9m pohodl\u00ed, a kdy\u017e n\u011b\u010deho nedos\u00e1hneme, trp\u00edme potom t\u0159eba vztekem, nen\u00e1vist\u00ed, \u010di z\u00e1vist\u00ed v\u016f\u010di t\u011bm, co toho dos\u00e1hli. Tak\u00e9 trp\u00edme, kdy\u017e p\u0159ijdeme o n\u011bco p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho, nebo kdy\u017e ztrat\u00edme bl\u00edzkou osobu. Toto psychick\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 pocity i na t\u011ble, proto\u017ee to, co je v mysli, se do n\u011bj prom\u00edt\u00e1. Skl\u00e1d\u00e1me se toti\u017e i z jemn\u011bhmotn\u00fdch slo\u017eek \u2013 energetick\u00e9, emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed a ment\u00e1ln\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se prol\u00ednaj\u00ed do hmotn\u00e9ho organismu. Proto n\u00e1m tak \u0161kod\u00ed nen\u00e1vist, zlost, z\u00e1vist, pokrytectv\u00ed, lhan\u00ed, negativn\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed, ubli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, ale i pl\u00e1\u010d a smutek, p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 vci\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00ed se do bolesti druh\u00fdch apod. Naopak n\u00e1m velmi pom\u00e1haj\u00ed radost, sm\u00edch, vesel\u00e1 mysl a pozitivn\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed. Teorie je tedy jasn\u00e1, jen\u017ee \u017eivot nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00fd. Jak se zbavit utrpen\u00edDnes u\u017e na to m\u00e1me mnoho rad od r\u016fzn\u00fdch u\u010ditel\u016f, ale Buddha se vyslovil jasn\u011b a stru\u010dn\u011b. Mluvil o u\u0161lechtil\u00e9 stezce k z\u00e1niku utrpen\u00ed. Skl\u00e1d\u00e1 se z osmi bod\u016f, kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba d\u011blat spr\u00e1vn\u011b: pochopen\u00ed, my\u0161len\u00ed, mluva, kon\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017eivotospr\u00e1va, \u00fasil\u00ed, uv\u011bdomov\u00e1n\u00ed a soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00ed.Jak vid\u00edte, nen\u00ed toho m\u00e1lo a je t\u0159eba po t\u00e9to stezce kr\u00e1\u010det neust\u00e1le. Dne\u0161n\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk v\u011bt\u0161inou \u0159ekne, \u017ee na to nem\u00e1 \u010das a \u017ee je to pouze pro mnichy. To je v\u0161ak z\u00e1sadn\u00ed omyl. V\u0161echno je to vlastn\u011b velmi jednoduch\u00e9, a kdyby to praktikovala aspo\u0148 polovina lidstva, sv\u011bt by byl jin\u00fd a lep\u0161\u00ed. Lid\u00e9 si to \u010dasto vysv\u011btluj\u00ed po sv\u00e9m a hodn\u011b tzv. duchovn\u00edch lid\u00ed si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee kdy\u017e vytvo\u0159\u00ed stabiln\u00ed vztah, neposunou se, nebo sv\u00fdmi partnery, kte\u0159\u00ed to maj\u00ed nastaveno jinak, pohrdaj\u00ed. Jin\u00ed rozb\u00edjej\u00ed ji\u017e vytvo\u0159en\u00e9 pevn\u00e9 svazky a prezentuj\u00ed to jako duchovn\u00ed z\u00e1m\u011br.Ji\u017e Lao \u2013 c\u00b4napsal v Tao \u2013 te \u2013 \u0165ing, \u017ee kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 slova neb\u00fdvaj\u00ed pravdiv\u00e1 a pravdiv\u00e1 slova neb\u00fdvaj\u00ed kr\u00e1sn\u00e1. Lid\u00e9 neradi p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bnou kritiku a nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9 \u010diny si dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed v\u017edycky n\u011bjak pokroucen\u011b vysv\u011btlit. V cel\u00e9m vesm\u00edru v\u0161ak funguje z\u00e1kon akce a reakce, a tak se pak nem\u016f\u017eou divit, \u017ee trp\u00ed. Sv\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed si nedovedou vysv\u011btlit a obvykle je nejprve psychick\u00e9. Kdy\u017e se v\u0161ak neza\u010dnou otev\u00edrat pochopen\u00ed ani p\u0159i dal\u0161\u00edch upozorn\u011bn\u00edch, p\u0159es jemn\u011bhmotn\u00e9 slo\u017eky se v\u0161e za\u010dne p\u0159esovat do fyzick\u00e9ho t\u011bla jako bolesti a nemoci. Uv\u011bdomov\u00e1n\u00ed siCo tedy d\u011blat, kdy\u017e c\u00edt\u00edme utrpen\u00ed? Buddha pravil, \u017ee je t\u0159eba se zbavit touhy, p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017e\u00e1dosti po v\u0161em. Je to velmi prost\u00e9 a n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1rove\u0148, proto\u017ee mysl se tomu br\u00e1n\u00ed. Uvedu jednoduch\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edklady. Kdy\u017e je n\u011bkdo z\u00e1visl\u00fd na alkoholu, bude m\u00edt pot\u00ed\u017ee s j\u00e1try, my\u0161len\u00edm a soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00edm, a tak by s\u00a0t\u00edm m\u011bl p\u0159estat. Hor\u0161\u00ed je, kdy\u017e t\u0159eba \u017eena tou\u017e\u00ed po drah\u00fdch \u0161atech, bot\u00e1ch \u010di \u0161perc\u00edch a nem\u00e1 na to pen\u00edze. Pak hled\u00e1 mu\u017ee, kte\u0159\u00ed j\u00ed je daj\u00ed, ale poda\u0159\u00ed se to jen n\u011bkter\u00e9. Jestli\u017ee je v\u0161ak s mu\u017eem jen kv\u016fli pen\u011bz\u016fm, trp\u00ed v\u0161ak d\u00e1l.Utrpen\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch dnes vzr\u016fst\u00e1, ale sp\u00ed\u0161 bych \u0159ekl, \u017ee lid\u00e9 sp\u00ed\u0161e trp\u00ed v nespr\u00e1vn\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch, nikoliv pro l\u00e1sku. Co jsou to nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9 vztahy? Vznikaj\u00ed tehdy, kdy\u017e se dva lid\u00e9 vezmou proto, \u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eou b\u00fdt sami, nebo kv\u016fli siln\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159ita\u017elivosti, ot\u011bhotn\u011bn\u00ed partnerky apod. Utrpen\u00ed potom vznik\u00e1 deziluz\u00ed z toho, \u017ee nep\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed to, co o\u010dek\u00e1vali. Anebo proto, \u017ee byli pro vztah nezral\u00ed a nedok\u00e1zali v n\u011bm \u017e\u00edt, proto\u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eou naslouchat sami sob\u011b ani partnerovi. \u010casto jsou pak bezradn\u00ed, proto\u017ee rozchod by nic nevy\u0159e\u0161il a nev\u011bra je pouze do\u010dasn\u00fd pocit uspokojen\u00ed. A tak lid\u00e9 trp\u00ed vlastn\u011b proto, \u017ee po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nev\u011bd\u00ed, co cht\u011bj\u00ed, a neum\u011bj\u00ed d\u00e1vat. Cht\u011bj\u00ed jen dost\u00e1vat.M\u00e1lokdo trp\u00ed pro opravdovou l\u00e1sku, a kdy\u017e v\u00e1s opust\u00ed milovan\u00e1 bytost, je to jedna z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch bolest\u00ed. Nem\u016f\u017eete zapomenout na kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 chv\u00edle, kter\u00e9 se v\u00e1m st\u00e1le vybavuj\u00ed, a c\u00edt\u00edte smutek. Pomoc je dvoj\u00ed \u2013 bu\u010f n\u00e1vrat milovan\u00e9 bytosti, anebo je t\u0159eba si v\u0161echny vzpom\u00ednky zpracovat nap\u0159. v\u00a0meditaci. Je to dlouh\u00e1 cesta, ale vede k\u00a0osvobozen\u00ed a k\u00a0pozn\u00e1n\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b hlub\u0161\u00edch \u00farovn\u00ed l\u00e1sky, kdy se ve sv\u00e9m nitru spojujeme s\u00a0t\u00edm, co n\u00e1s p\u0159esahuje. Na l\u00e1sku toti\u017e nem\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd jin\u00fd l\u00e9k ne\u017e zase l\u00e1ska. 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