{"id":10371,"date":"2024-09-28T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-28T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=10371"},"modified":"2024-09-25T14:37:33","modified_gmt":"2024-09-25T14:37:33","slug":"kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-ja-a-jeho-sef-hybatel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2024\/09\/28\/kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-ja-a-jeho-sef-hybatel\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd: J\u00e1 a jeho \u0161\u00e9f (hybatel)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Jak vn\u00edm\u00e1me sami sebe a svou bytost? Jak upozor\u0148uje dr. Petr Novotn\u00fd v 17. kapitole sv\u00e9 knihy, na\u0161e J\u00e1 nen\u00ed v na\u0161\u00ed bytosti samo…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Svou bytost pojmenov\u00e1v\u00e1me u\u017e odv\u011bk\u016f jako J\u00e1 (ego). Vn\u00edm\u00e1me ji v\u00a0p\u0159edstav\u011b a jistot\u011b vlastn\u00ed t\u011blesn\u00e9 rozprostran\u011bnosti a v\u00a0dojmu sv\u00e9 voln\u00ed, racion\u00e1ln\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u00ed nez\u00e1vislosti.<\/strong>
Probl\u00e9m tkv\u00ed v\u00a0tom, \u017ee u\u017e odpo\u010d\u00e1tku \u017eivota nen\u00ed na\u0161e J\u00e1 v\u00a0bytosti samo a ani nerozhoduje o tom, co je pro kvalitu jeho \u017eivota a sebeuchov\u00e1n\u00ed nejpodstatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, a p\u0159esto si pr\u00e1v\u011b to nejpodstatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed r\u00e1do p\u0159ivlast\u0148uje.
Mnoz\u00ed by polo\u017eili hlavu na \u0161palek v\u00a0p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00a0sob\u011b sami burcuj\u00ed, kdykoli je to pot\u0159eba, anebo kdy\u017e se to spole\u010dnsky hod\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad \u017e\u00e1rlivost, strach, nen\u00e1vist, agresivitu, soucit, m\u00edrumilovnost, pokoru, empatii i \u00fazkost, by\u0165 jsou v\u0161echny tyto jevy a emoce podn\u011bcov\u00e1ny na na\u0161em J\u00e1 nez\u00e1visl\u00fdmi chemick\u00fdmi procesy a hormony.
\u010cten\u00e1\u0159e uklidn\u00edm aspo\u0148 tvrzen\u00edm, \u017ee jeho J\u00e1 ovl\u00e1d\u00e1 s\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm \u010di men\u0161\u00edm \u00fasp\u011bchem p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm racionalitu, jen\u017ee ta b\u00fdv\u00e1 \u010das od \u010dasu nespolehliv\u00fdm \u00a0a n\u011bkdy dokonce zr\u00e1dcovsk\u00fdm navig\u00e1torem, a to zejm\u00e9na v\u00a0okolnostech, kter\u00e9 se t\u00fdkaj\u00ed stres\u016f, konflikt\u016f a nedorozum\u011bn\u00ed.\u00a0 \u00a0
Zd\u016fraz\u0148uji, \u017ee i svoje bli\u017en\u00ed posuzujeme, ani\u017e bychom tu\u0161ili, podstatn\u011b objektivn\u011bji nikoli podle sv\u00e9 i jejich racionality, ale jednozna\u010dn\u011b podle sv\u00e9 i jejich intuice a emocion\u00e1lnosti.
Nez\u00e1visl\u00e9 procesy, o nich\u017e nerozhodujeme a zprvu si je ani neuv\u011bdomujeme, lze s\u00a0ohledem na \u00fa\u010del a srozumitelnost t\u00e9to kn\u00ed\u017ee\u010dky ozna\u010dit sice lehce nadnesen\u00fdm, \u00a0zato v\u0161ak srozumiten\u00fdm pojmem, jako \u0161\u00e9fa nebo hybatele na\u0161\u00ed bytosti, co\u017e je funkce, na kter\u00e9 se pov\u011bt\u0161inou nepod\u00edl\u00edme ani ji z\u0159eteln\u011b neovl\u00e1d\u00e1me.
\u0160\u00e9f na\u0161e J\u00e1 \u00fakoluje, motivuje, lad\u00ed a jist\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem tak\u00e9 odm\u011b\u0148uje i trest\u00e1 bu\u010f p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi, anebo nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi emocemi.<\/strong>
P\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 emoce n\u00e1s zklid\u0148uj\u00ed, konej\u0161\u00ed a rozradost\u0148uj\u00ed, tak\u017ee se n\u00e1m pak l\u00edb\u00ed na sv\u011bt\u011b a jsme t\u00edm p\u00e1dem ochotn\u00ed i pro svoje bli\u017en\u00ed n\u011bco prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9ho a hlavn\u011b nezi\u0161tn\u011b vykonat.
Nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, negativn\u00ed emoce n\u00e1s naopak znepokojuj\u00ed a stresuj\u00ed, \u010d\u00edm\u017e svoje bli\u017en\u00ed od sebe sp\u00ed\u0161e vzdalujeme anebo je od sebe dokonce odh\u00e1n\u00edme.
Pokud je \u0161\u00e9fem \u010di hybatelem u\u017e oslaben anebo dokonce vypnut imunitn\u00ed syst\u00e9m, za\u010dne J\u00e1 zdravotn\u011b str\u00e1dat zprvu leh\u010d\u00edmi a posl\u00e9ze i z\u00e1v\u00e1\u017en\u00fdmi zdravotn\u00edmi probl\u00e9my. Kdo tomu p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho anebo sk\u00e1lopevn\u011b nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed, b\u00fdv\u00e1 po \u010dase potrefen nap\u0159\u00edklad iktem, infarktem nebo rakovinou plic a n\u011bkdy je i p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u011b odvol\u00e1n z\u00a0pozemsk\u00e9ho slzav\u00e9ho \u00fadol\u00ed.

Nav\u0161t\u00edvili m\u011b onkologi\u010dt\u00ed nemocn\u00ed, jim\u017e u\u017e zvonila hrana, ode\u0161li se slibem, \u017ee nechaj\u00ed takzvan\u011b vyvanout svoje J\u00e1 a \u00a0pak snad s\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed p\u0159e\u017eij\u00ed. Kdo se v\u0161ak z\u0159ekne sv\u00e9ho J\u00e1, kdy\u017e ho pova\u017euje za sebe? Existenci nez\u00e1visl\u00e9ho \u0161\u00e9fa a jeho mocn\u00fd vliv \u00a0pop\u00edr\u00e1 \u00a0ke sv\u00e9 \u0161kod\u011b v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s. A zm\u00ednk\u00e1m o jeho zamaskovan\u00e9 existenci, kter\u00e1 b\u00fdvala u\u017e p\u0159ed v\u00edce jak stovkou let ozna\u010dena nap\u0159\u00edklad jako nev\u011bdom\u00ed, podv\u011bdom\u00ed \u010di nadv\u011bdom\u00ed se dokonce vysm\u00edvaj\u00ed. \u00a0
V\u017edy\u0165 na\u0161e J\u00e1, navzdory \u00faporn\u00e9 snaze vyd\u00e1vat se za soukrom\u00e9 a nez\u00e1visl\u00e9, se ve skute\u010dnosti rod\u00ed ze vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho splynut\u00ed s\u00a0bli\u017en\u00edmi a t\u011blem, v\u00a0n\u011bm\u017e p\u0159eb\u00fdv\u00e1<\/em>, napsal v\u00a0roce 2013 l\u00e9ka\u0159 a neurov\u011bdec V. S. Ramachandran.
\u0160\u00e9f \u00a0probouz\u00ed v ka\u017ed\u00e9m\u00a0J\u00e1 nejen negativn\u00ed, opozi\u010dn\u00ed a bou\u0159liv\u00e9, ale tak\u00e9 vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e9 a zklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed emoce. Nap\u0159\u00edklad \u0161\u0165astliveck\u00e9, mezi kter\u00fdmi kraluj\u00ed radost, p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, soucit, nad\u0161en\u00ed, empatie, nad\u011bje, l\u00e1ska a dokonce i mor\u00e1lnost.
Mor\u00e1lnost? Dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u017eivot pr\u00e1v\u011b za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00edc\u00ed J\u00e1 koriguje svoje mor\u00e1ln\u00ed po\u010diny p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm podle jejich dopad\u016f ve vn\u011bj\u0161ku. Nap\u0159\u00edklad post\u0159ehne, zda jeho \u010diny prosp\u011bly anebo u\u0161kodily jemu, bli\u017en\u00edm \u010di societ\u011b, a p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b se za\u0159\u00edd\u00ed podle t\u00e9to lib\u00e9 nebo nelib\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti. \u00a0
Mor\u00e1ln\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed se v J\u00e1 v\u00a0ran\u00e9m v\u011bku rod\u00ed v\u00a0p\u0159evaze z\u00e1sluhou \u00a0pokusu a omylu. P\u0159esto by o sob\u011b ned\u00e1valo a\u017e tak okat\u011b v\u011bd\u011bt, kdyby nebylo podn\u011bcov\u00e1no kortexem, jen\u017e je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed limbick\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu.
Kortex p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 impulzy z\u00a0thalamu a neokortexu. Ovliv\u0148uje zr\u00e1n\u00ed i distribuci societ\u011b prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00fdch, tedy mor\u00e1ln\u00edch emoc\u00ed. \u00a0Ov\u011b\u0159uje, zda konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed mor\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010di nemor\u00e1ln\u00ed akce J\u00e1 v\u00a0n\u011bm a v\u00a0jeho okol\u00ed vyvolaly p\u0159\u00edzniv\u00e9 a obla\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed, anebo naopak odm\u00edtav\u00e9 a nevst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed reakce.
Jin\u00e9 impulzy podn\u011bcuj\u00ed J\u00e1 k vytvo\u0159en\u00ed trval\u00fdch emo\u010dn\u00edch a soci\u00e1ln\u00edch vazeb s\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00fdm i vzd\u00e1len\u011bj\u0161\u00edm soci\u00e1ln\u00edm okol\u00edm \u00a0a ke spolupr\u00e1ci s\u00a0ostatn\u00edmi.
Ka\u017ed\u00e9mu J\u00e1 b\u00fdvaj\u00ed \u0161\u00e9fem vnucov\u00e1ny tak\u00e9 stres, bolest, smutek, pl\u00e1\u010d, beznad\u011bj, nemoc, deprese a n\u011bkdy dokonce chu\u0165 um\u0159\u00edt i nutk\u00e1n\u00ed k\u00a0sebevra\u017ed\u011b.<\/strong>
St\u00e1v\u00e1 se to, kdy\u017e J\u00e1 shora uveden\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00fakoly nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0d\u016fsledku sv\u00e9 nezralosti, narcismu, cynismu, lenosti \u010di lhostejnosti nepln\u00ed, p\u0159i jejich pln\u011bn\u00ed opakovan\u011b selh\u00e1v\u00e1, anebo je dokonce plnit odm\u00edt\u00e1.
Bez \u0161\u00e9fovsk\u00fdch podn\u011bt\u016f by se J\u00e1 nezamilovalo ani by ne\u017e\u00e1rlilo, nepropadalo by nad\u0161en\u00ed ani v\u00fdbuch\u016fm sm\u00edchu, nezaplatilo by v\u00a0hospod\u011b sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bn\u00fdm du\u0161\u00edm rundu, nebylo by u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 bli\u017en\u00edm, <\/strong>neprojevovalo by velkomyslnost ani soucit k pora\u017een\u00fdm, nenavozovalo a nerozhoj\u0148ovalo by ve sv\u00e9m soci\u00e1ln\u00edm okol\u00ed l\u00e1skyplnost a emo\u010dn\u00ed harmonii, ani by p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b neob\u011btovalo \u017eivot za vlast, pokud by se ocitla v\u00a0ohro\u017een\u00ed.
Trvalou p\u0159\u00edtomnost nez\u00e1visl\u00e9ho a mocn\u00e9ho \u0161\u00e9fa dok\u00e1\u017eou mnoh\u00e1 J\u00e1 ve st\u0159edn\u00edm anebo v\u00a0pokro\u010dilej\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku post\u0159ehnout, av\u0161ak rozli\u010dn\u011b ho vn\u00edmaj\u00ed i pojmenov\u00e1vaj\u00ed. V\u00a0p\u0159evaze jej pova\u017euj\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e za prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd a vl\u00eddn\u00fd,\u00a0 v\u00a0podstat\u011b v\u0161ak \u0161alebn\u00fd dojem.
N\u011bkter\u00e1 citliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed J\u00e1 v\u00a0sob\u011b u\u017e v\u00a0mlad\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku post\u0159ehnou prsty \u010di v\u016fli hybatele. Rozli\u010dn\u011b si jej p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed i pojmenov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, anebo si ho a\u017e tak zbo\u017e\u0161t\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ed n\u00edm padaj\u00ed v\u00a0kostele na kolena anebo se k\u00a0n\u011bmu p\u0159ed span\u00edm \u00a0modl\u00ed. \u00a0
Ob\u010das se p\u0159ihod\u00ed i n\u011bco pikantn\u00edho. Nap\u0159\u00edklad \u00a0kdy\u017e siln\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed a nebesk\u00e9mu p\u00e1nubohu dosud piln\u011b slou\u017e\u00edc\u00ed J\u00e1 obvin\u00ed boha z chyb, je\u017e se transformovaly nap\u0159\u00edklad do podoby jeho ud\u00e1lostn\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edzn\u011b anebo obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 nemoci. A n\u011bkdy mu pak ze vzdoru vypov\u00ed i svou poslu\u0161nost. Tento legra\u010dn\u00ed jev vystihl brilantn\u011b ve sv\u00fdch \u00a0publikac\u00edch N. D. Walsch: Hovory s\u00a0bohem I., II. a III.<\/em>
Racion\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed anebo vzd\u011blan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed J\u00e1 prop\u016fj\u010duj\u00ed sv\u00fdm dojm\u016fm o z\u00e1vislosti na hybateli pojem fylogeneze, co\u017e je v\u016fle matky p\u0159\u00edrody, kter\u00e1 do jejich ps\u00fdchy vst\u0159\u00edcn\u011b a n\u011bkdy i drsn\u011b zasahuje, aby ji podn\u00edtila k\u00a0r\u00e1zn\u00fdm korek\u010dn\u00edm \u010din\u016fm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

32let\u00e1 svobodn\u00e1 a bezd\u011btn\u00e1 in\u017een\u00fdrka s rakovinou \u017elu\u010dn\u00edku s metast\u00e1zami v j\u00e1trech a na pl\u00edc\u00edch mi \u0159ekla: \u201e<\/em>Ne\u017e jsem onemocn\u011bla, byla pro m\u011b hodn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce, pak tak\u00e9 v\u00fdd\u011blek a fyzick\u00e1 kondice. Dost jsem zanedb\u00e1vala soci\u00e1ln\u00ed kontakty, rodi\u010de, sourozence a p\u0159\u00e1tele. \u017dila jsem pro sebe a hlavn\u011b pro svoje sebezdokonalov\u00e1n\u00ed. Jen\u017ee k tomu v\u0161emu jsem je\u0161t\u011b setrv\u00e1vala \u0159adu let v ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9m partnerstv\u00ed, abych p\u0159ece jen k n\u011bkomu pat\u0159ila a nebyla \u00fapln\u011b sama. Partner v\u0161ak ve mn\u011b nepodn\u011bcoval stabilitu. Naopak ve mn\u011b burcoval pocity m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti a nedostate\u010divosti a st\u00e1le m\u011b jen kritizoval. A j\u00e1 si to v\u017edycky brala k srdci, co\u017e m\u011b tvrd\u011b devastovalo. Vlastn\u011b jsem si ke sv\u00e9 hr\u016fze uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee jsem si onkologickou diagn\u00f3zu tak \u010di onak sama p\u0159ivolala, abych u\u017e tento sv\u016fj nesmysln\u00fd \u017eivot n\u011bjak do\u017eila. Pozd\u011b jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee m\u016fj strach ze samoty a moje neschopnost vymanit se z ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho svazku, moje letit\u00e9 pochybnosti a v\u00fdhrady v\u016f\u010di partnerovi, mohly b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou m\u00e9 rakoviny.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jak vn\u00edm\u00e1me sami sebe a svou bytost? Jak upozor\u0148uje dr. Petr Novotn\u00fd v 17. kapitole sv\u00e9 knihy, na\u0161e J\u00e1 nen\u00ed v na\u0161\u00ed bytosti samo… Svou bytost pojmenov\u00e1v\u00e1me u\u017e odv\u011bk\u016f jako J\u00e1 (ego). Vn\u00edm\u00e1me ji v\u00a0p\u0159edstav\u011b a jistot\u011b vlastn\u00ed t\u011blesn\u00e9 rozprostran\u011bnosti a v\u00a0dojmu sv\u00e9 voln\u00ed, racion\u00e1ln\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u00ed nez\u00e1vislosti.Probl\u00e9m tkv\u00ed v\u00a0tom, \u017ee u\u017e odpo\u010d\u00e1tku \u017eivota nen\u00ed na\u0161e J\u00e1 v\u00a0bytosti samo a ani nerozhoduje o tom, co je pro kvalitu jeho \u017eivota a sebeuchov\u00e1n\u00ed nejpodstatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, a p\u0159esto si pr\u00e1v\u011b to nejpodstatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed r\u00e1do p\u0159ivlast\u0148uje.Mnoz\u00ed by polo\u017eili hlavu na \u0161palek v\u00a0p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00a0sob\u011b sami burcuj\u00ed, kdykoli je to pot\u0159eba, anebo kdy\u017e se to spole\u010dnsky hod\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad \u017e\u00e1rlivost, strach, nen\u00e1vist, agresivitu, soucit, m\u00edrumilovnost, pokoru, empatii i \u00fazkost, by\u0165 jsou v\u0161echny tyto jevy a emoce podn\u011bcov\u00e1ny na na\u0161em J\u00e1 nez\u00e1visl\u00fdmi chemick\u00fdmi procesy a hormony.\u010cten\u00e1\u0159e uklidn\u00edm aspo\u0148 tvrzen\u00edm, \u017ee jeho J\u00e1 ovl\u00e1d\u00e1 s\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm \u010di men\u0161\u00edm \u00fasp\u011bchem p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm racionalitu, jen\u017ee ta b\u00fdv\u00e1 \u010das od \u010dasu nespolehliv\u00fdm \u00a0a n\u011bkdy dokonce zr\u00e1dcovsk\u00fdm navig\u00e1torem, a to zejm\u00e9na v\u00a0okolnostech, kter\u00e9 se t\u00fdkaj\u00ed stres\u016f, konflikt\u016f a nedorozum\u011bn\u00ed.\u00a0 \u00a0Zd\u016fraz\u0148uji, \u017ee i svoje bli\u017en\u00ed posuzujeme, ani\u017e bychom tu\u0161ili, podstatn\u011b objektivn\u011bji nikoli podle sv\u00e9 i jejich racionality, ale jednozna\u010dn\u011b podle sv\u00e9 i jejich intuice a emocion\u00e1lnosti.Nez\u00e1visl\u00e9 procesy, o nich\u017e nerozhodujeme a zprvu si je ani neuv\u011bdomujeme, lze s\u00a0ohledem na \u00fa\u010del a srozumitelnost t\u00e9to kn\u00ed\u017ee\u010dky ozna\u010dit sice lehce nadnesen\u00fdm, \u00a0zato v\u0161ak srozumiten\u00fdm pojmem, jako \u0161\u00e9fa nebo hybatele na\u0161\u00ed bytosti, co\u017e je funkce, na kter\u00e9 se pov\u011bt\u0161inou nepod\u00edl\u00edme ani ji z\u0159eteln\u011b neovl\u00e1d\u00e1me.\u0160\u00e9f na\u0161e J\u00e1 \u00fakoluje, motivuje, lad\u00ed a jist\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem tak\u00e9 odm\u011b\u0148uje i trest\u00e1 bu\u010f p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi, anebo nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi emocemi.P\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 emoce n\u00e1s zklid\u0148uj\u00ed, konej\u0161\u00ed a rozradost\u0148uj\u00ed, tak\u017ee se n\u00e1m pak l\u00edb\u00ed na sv\u011bt\u011b a jsme t\u00edm p\u00e1dem ochotn\u00ed i pro svoje bli\u017en\u00ed n\u011bco prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9ho a hlavn\u011b nezi\u0161tn\u011b vykonat.Nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, negativn\u00ed emoce n\u00e1s naopak znepokojuj\u00ed a stresuj\u00ed, \u010d\u00edm\u017e svoje bli\u017en\u00ed od sebe sp\u00ed\u0161e vzdalujeme anebo je od sebe dokonce odh\u00e1n\u00edme.Pokud je \u0161\u00e9fem \u010di hybatelem u\u017e oslaben anebo dokonce vypnut imunitn\u00ed syst\u00e9m, za\u010dne J\u00e1 zdravotn\u011b str\u00e1dat zprvu leh\u010d\u00edmi a posl\u00e9ze i z\u00e1v\u00e1\u017en\u00fdmi zdravotn\u00edmi probl\u00e9my. Kdo tomu p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho anebo sk\u00e1lopevn\u011b nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed, b\u00fdv\u00e1 po \u010dase potrefen nap\u0159\u00edklad iktem, infarktem nebo rakovinou plic a n\u011bkdy je i p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u011b odvol\u00e1n z\u00a0pozemsk\u00e9ho slzav\u00e9ho \u00fadol\u00ed. Nav\u0161t\u00edvili m\u011b onkologi\u010dt\u00ed nemocn\u00ed, jim\u017e u\u017e zvonila hrana, ode\u0161li se slibem, \u017ee nechaj\u00ed takzvan\u011b vyvanout svoje J\u00e1 a \u00a0pak snad s\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed p\u0159e\u017eij\u00ed. Kdo se v\u0161ak z\u0159ekne sv\u00e9ho J\u00e1, kdy\u017e ho pova\u017euje za sebe? Existenci nez\u00e1visl\u00e9ho \u0161\u00e9fa a jeho mocn\u00fd vliv \u00a0pop\u00edr\u00e1 \u00a0ke sv\u00e9 \u0161kod\u011b v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s. A zm\u00ednk\u00e1m o jeho zamaskovan\u00e9 existenci, kter\u00e1 b\u00fdvala u\u017e p\u0159ed v\u00edce jak stovkou let ozna\u010dena nap\u0159\u00edklad jako nev\u011bdom\u00ed, podv\u011bdom\u00ed \u010di nadv\u011bdom\u00ed se dokonce vysm\u00edvaj\u00ed. \u00a0V\u017edy\u0165 na\u0161e J\u00e1, navzdory \u00faporn\u00e9 snaze vyd\u00e1vat se za soukrom\u00e9 a nez\u00e1visl\u00e9, se ve skute\u010dnosti rod\u00ed ze vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho splynut\u00ed s\u00a0bli\u017en\u00edmi a t\u011blem, v\u00a0n\u011bm\u017e p\u0159eb\u00fdv\u00e1, napsal v\u00a0roce 2013 l\u00e9ka\u0159 a neurov\u011bdec V. S. Ramachandran.\u0160\u00e9f \u00a0probouz\u00ed v ka\u017ed\u00e9m\u00a0J\u00e1 nejen negativn\u00ed, opozi\u010dn\u00ed a bou\u0159liv\u00e9, ale tak\u00e9 vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e9 a zklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed emoce. Nap\u0159\u00edklad \u0161\u0165astliveck\u00e9, mezi kter\u00fdmi kraluj\u00ed radost, p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, soucit, nad\u0161en\u00ed, empatie, nad\u011bje, l\u00e1ska a dokonce i mor\u00e1lnost.Mor\u00e1lnost? Dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u017eivot pr\u00e1v\u011b za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00edc\u00ed J\u00e1 koriguje svoje mor\u00e1ln\u00ed po\u010diny p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm podle jejich dopad\u016f ve vn\u011bj\u0161ku. Nap\u0159\u00edklad post\u0159ehne, zda jeho \u010diny prosp\u011bly anebo u\u0161kodily jemu, bli\u017en\u00edm \u010di societ\u011b, a p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b se za\u0159\u00edd\u00ed podle t\u00e9to lib\u00e9 nebo nelib\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti. \u00a0Mor\u00e1ln\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed se v J\u00e1 v\u00a0ran\u00e9m v\u011bku rod\u00ed v\u00a0p\u0159evaze z\u00e1sluhou \u00a0pokusu a omylu. P\u0159esto by o sob\u011b ned\u00e1valo a\u017e tak okat\u011b v\u011bd\u011bt, kdyby nebylo podn\u011bcov\u00e1no kortexem, jen\u017e je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed limbick\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu.Kortex p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 impulzy z\u00a0thalamu a neokortexu. Ovliv\u0148uje zr\u00e1n\u00ed i distribuci societ\u011b prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00fdch, tedy mor\u00e1ln\u00edch emoc\u00ed. \u00a0Ov\u011b\u0159uje, zda konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed mor\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010di nemor\u00e1ln\u00ed akce J\u00e1 v\u00a0n\u011bm a v\u00a0jeho okol\u00ed vyvolaly p\u0159\u00edzniv\u00e9 a obla\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed, anebo naopak odm\u00edtav\u00e9 a nevst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed reakce.Jin\u00e9 impulzy podn\u011bcuj\u00ed J\u00e1 k vytvo\u0159en\u00ed trval\u00fdch emo\u010dn\u00edch a soci\u00e1ln\u00edch vazeb s\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00fdm i vzd\u00e1len\u011bj\u0161\u00edm soci\u00e1ln\u00edm okol\u00edm \u00a0a ke spolupr\u00e1ci s\u00a0ostatn\u00edmi.Ka\u017ed\u00e9mu J\u00e1 b\u00fdvaj\u00ed \u0161\u00e9fem vnucov\u00e1ny tak\u00e9 stres, bolest, smutek, pl\u00e1\u010d, beznad\u011bj, nemoc, deprese a n\u011bkdy dokonce chu\u0165 um\u0159\u00edt i nutk\u00e1n\u00ed k\u00a0sebevra\u017ed\u011b.St\u00e1v\u00e1 se to, kdy\u017e J\u00e1 shora uveden\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00fakoly nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0d\u016fsledku sv\u00e9 nezralosti, narcismu, cynismu, lenosti \u010di lhostejnosti nepln\u00ed, p\u0159i jejich pln\u011bn\u00ed opakovan\u011b selh\u00e1v\u00e1, anebo je dokonce plnit odm\u00edt\u00e1.Bez \u0161\u00e9fovsk\u00fdch podn\u011bt\u016f by se J\u00e1 nezamilovalo ani by ne\u017e\u00e1rlilo, nepropadalo by nad\u0161en\u00ed ani v\u00fdbuch\u016fm sm\u00edchu, nezaplatilo by v\u00a0hospod\u011b sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bn\u00fdm du\u0161\u00edm rundu, nebylo by u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 bli\u017en\u00edm, neprojevovalo by velkomyslnost ani soucit k pora\u017een\u00fdm, nenavozovalo a nerozhoj\u0148ovalo by ve sv\u00e9m soci\u00e1ln\u00edm okol\u00ed l\u00e1skyplnost a emo\u010dn\u00ed harmonii, ani by p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b neob\u011btovalo \u017eivot za vlast, pokud by se ocitla v\u00a0ohro\u017een\u00ed.Trvalou p\u0159\u00edtomnost nez\u00e1visl\u00e9ho a mocn\u00e9ho \u0161\u00e9fa dok\u00e1\u017eou mnoh\u00e1 J\u00e1 ve st\u0159edn\u00edm anebo v\u00a0pokro\u010dilej\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku post\u0159ehnout, av\u0161ak rozli\u010dn\u011b ho vn\u00edmaj\u00ed i pojmenov\u00e1vaj\u00ed. V\u00a0p\u0159evaze jej pova\u017euj\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e za prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd a vl\u00eddn\u00fd,\u00a0 v\u00a0podstat\u011b v\u0161ak \u0161alebn\u00fd dojem.N\u011bkter\u00e1 citliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed J\u00e1 v\u00a0sob\u011b u\u017e v\u00a0mlad\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku post\u0159ehnou prsty \u010di v\u016fli hybatele. Rozli\u010dn\u011b si jej p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed i pojmenov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, anebo si ho a\u017e tak zbo\u017e\u0161t\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ed n\u00edm padaj\u00ed v\u00a0kostele na kolena anebo se k\u00a0n\u011bmu p\u0159ed span\u00edm \u00a0modl\u00ed. \u00a0Ob\u010das se p\u0159ihod\u00ed i n\u011bco pikantn\u00edho. Nap\u0159\u00edklad \u00a0kdy\u017e siln\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed a nebesk\u00e9mu p\u00e1nubohu dosud piln\u011b slou\u017e\u00edc\u00ed J\u00e1 obvin\u00ed boha z chyb, je\u017e se transformovaly nap\u0159\u00edklad do podoby jeho ud\u00e1lostn\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edzn\u011b anebo obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 nemoci. A n\u011bkdy mu pak ze vzdoru vypov\u00ed i svou poslu\u0161nost. Tento legra\u010dn\u00ed jev vystihl brilantn\u011b ve sv\u00fdch \u00a0publikac\u00edch N. D. Walsch: Hovory s\u00a0bohem I., II. a III.Racion\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed anebo vzd\u011blan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed J\u00e1 prop\u016fj\u010duj\u00ed sv\u00fdm dojm\u016fm o z\u00e1vislosti na hybateli pojem fylogeneze, co\u017e je v\u016fle matky p\u0159\u00edrody, kter\u00e1 do jejich ps\u00fdchy vst\u0159\u00edcn\u011b a n\u011bkdy i drsn\u011b zasahuje, aby ji podn\u00edtila k\u00a0r\u00e1zn\u00fdm korek\u010dn\u00edm \u010din\u016fm. 32let\u00e1 svobodn\u00e1 a bezd\u011btn\u00e1 in\u017een\u00fdrka s rakovinou \u017elu\u010dn\u00edku s metast\u00e1zami v j\u00e1trech a na pl\u00edc\u00edch mi \u0159ekla: \u201eNe\u017e jsem onemocn\u011bla, byla pro m\u011b hodn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce, pak tak\u00e9 v\u00fdd\u011blek a fyzick\u00e1 kondice. Dost jsem zanedb\u00e1vala soci\u00e1ln\u00ed kontakty, rodi\u010de, sourozence a p\u0159\u00e1tele. \u017dila jsem pro sebe a hlavn\u011b pro svoje sebezdokonalov\u00e1n\u00ed. Jen\u017ee k tomu v\u0161emu jsem je\u0161t\u011b setrv\u00e1vala \u0159adu let v ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9m partnerstv\u00ed, abych p\u0159ece jen k n\u011bkomu pat\u0159ila a nebyla \u00fapln\u011b sama. Partner v\u0161ak ve mn\u011b nepodn\u011bcoval stabilitu. Naopak ve mn\u011b burcoval pocity m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti a nedostate\u010divosti a st\u00e1le m\u011b jen kritizoval. A j\u00e1 si to v\u017edycky brala k srdci, co\u017e m\u011b tvrd\u011b devastovalo. Vlastn\u011b jsem si ke sv\u00e9 hr\u016fze uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee jsem si onkologickou diagn\u00f3zu tak \u010di onak sama p\u0159ivolala, abych u\u017e tento sv\u016fj nesmysln\u00fd \u017eivot n\u011bjak do\u017eila. Pozd\u011b jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee m\u016fj strach ze samoty a moje neschopnost vymanit se z ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho svazku, moje letit\u00e9 pochybnosti a v\u00fdhrady v\u016f\u010di partnerovi, mohly b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou m\u00e9 rakoviny.\u201c \/pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9950,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-medunka"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10371"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10371\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10375,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10371\/revisions\/10375"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9950"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}