{"id":10292,"date":"2024-09-13T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-13T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=10292"},"modified":"2024-09-10T15:49:32","modified_gmt":"2024-09-10T15:49:32","slug":"kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-potrebujeme-matky-terezy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2024\/09\/13\/kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-potrebujeme-matky-terezy\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd: Pot\u0159ebujeme matky Terezy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Patn\u00e1ct\u00e1 kapitola z knihy zku\u0161en\u00e9ho klinick\u00e9ho psychologa <em>dr. Petra Novotn\u00e9ho<\/em> <\/strong>je sice z hlediska rozsahu kr\u00e1tk\u00e1, ale pom\u011brn\u011b pou\u010dn\u00e1<strong>, zejm\u00e9na kv\u016fli konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti, kterou autor v textu zmi\u0148uje&#8230; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br><strong>Matka Tereza, Alb\u00e1nka narozen\u00e1 v Jugosl\u00e1vii, odcestovala ve sv\u00fdch osmn\u00e1cti letech\u00a0 do Indie, kde se stala \u0159eholnic\u00ed a ochr\u00e1nkyn\u00ed nejubo\u017eej\u0161\u00edch a nejbezmocn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch<\/strong>. Sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem prok\u00e1zala, \u017ee na\u0161e sebeuchov\u00e1n\u00ed z\u00e1vis\u00ed na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m sm\u011b\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed \u0161\u0165astliveck\u00fdch emoc\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed u\u017eite\u010dnosti.<br>\u201eUtrpen\u00ed je bo\u017e\u00edm darem, kter\u00fd umo\u017en\u00ed t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00ed o trp\u00edc\u00ed, uk\u00e1zat svou l\u00e1sku.\u201c \u0159ekla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh z praxe<\/strong><br>24let\u00e1, velmi hezk\u00e1 zdravotn\u00ed sestra zam\u011bstnan\u00e1 v\u00a0okresn\u00ed nemocnici, vyrostla bez otce a s\u00a0nep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 citov\u011b vybavenou matkou. Pom\u00fd\u0161lela na sebevra\u017edu pot\u00e9, co opustila kv\u016fli nev\u011b\u0159e sv\u00e9ho pr\u00fd v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e9ho o 15 let star\u0161\u00edho partnera, jeho\u017e milovala a jen\u017e j\u00ed spolehliv\u011b nahrazoval tak\u00e9 otce. M\u011b nav\u0161t\u00edvila na v\u00fdzvu sv\u00e9 matky, kter\u00e1 si p\u0159\u00e1la, abych j\u00ed sebevra\u017eedn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky \u00a0rozmluvil.<br>Opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel ji prosil o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed a o n\u00e1vrat. Odm\u00edtala to, p\u0159esto\u017ee by mu okam\u017eit\u011b r\u00e1da odpustila i se k n\u011bmu bleskurychle vr\u00e1tila. Cht\u011bla ho sv\u00fdm ml\u010den\u00edm ztrestat. Volal a psal j\u00ed marn\u011b cel\u00fd t\u00fdden, jen\u017ee pak definitivn\u011b p\u0159estal, co\u017e ji ohromilo. Kv\u016fli sv\u00e9 domn\u011bl\u00e9 hrdosti, ztratila cenn\u00e9ho, by\u0165 provinil\u00e9ho mu\u017ee. \u00a0<br>P\u0159i vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed jsem zjistil, \u017ee tato mlad\u00e1 d\u00e1ma neum\u00ed navazovat b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e9 vztahy s\u00a0vrstevn\u00edky a s kolegy.\u00a0 P\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dil jsem ji, aby vzdor zaveden\u00e9 praxi, \u017ee zdravotn\u00ed person\u00e1l by nem\u011bl utrpen\u00ed nemocn\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 podl\u00e9hat, tuto z\u00e1sadu ob\u010das poru\u0161ila. Podle m\u00fdch n\u00e1vod\u016f pak rozd\u00e1vala nemocn\u00fdm nad\u011bji, ob\u010das n\u011bjakou babku pohladila, probouzela v\u00a0i v\u00a0t\u011b\u017ece nemocn\u00fdch v\u00edru v\u00a0uzdraven\u00ed, m\u00edrnila strach nemocn\u00fdch p\u0159ed opera\u010dn\u00edmi z\u00e1kroky atp.<br><strong>Po m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch mi napsala:<em> C\u00edt\u00edm se u\u017eite\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a klidn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, l\u00edb\u00ed se mi, \u017ee se nemocn\u00ed ptaj\u00ed, kdy zas bude m\u00edt slu\u017ebu ta hodn\u00e1 sest\u0159i\u010dka. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee jsem z \u00a0nejhor\u0161\u00edho venku\u2026<\/em><br>Odpov\u011bd\u011bl jsem:<em> Mo\u017en\u00e1 z\u00a0v\u00e1s jednou bude nov\u00e1 matka Tereza.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Patn\u00e1ct\u00e1 kapitola z knihy zku\u0161en\u00e9ho klinick\u00e9ho psychologa dr. Petra Novotn\u00e9ho je sice z hlediska rozsahu kr\u00e1tk\u00e1, ale pom\u011brn\u011b pou\u010dn\u00e1, zejm\u00e9na kv\u016fli konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti, kterou autor v textu zmi\u0148uje&#8230; Matka Tereza, Alb\u00e1nka narozen\u00e1 v Jugosl\u00e1vii, odcestovala ve sv\u00fdch osmn\u00e1cti letech\u00a0 do Indie, kde se stala \u0159eholnic\u00ed a ochr\u00e1nkyn\u00ed nejubo\u017eej\u0161\u00edch a nejbezmocn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch. Sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem prok\u00e1zala, \u017ee na\u0161e sebeuchov\u00e1n\u00ed z\u00e1vis\u00ed na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m sm\u011b\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed \u0161\u0165astliveck\u00fdch emoc\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed u\u017eite\u010dnosti.\u201eUtrpen\u00ed je bo\u017e\u00edm darem, kter\u00fd umo\u017en\u00ed t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00ed o trp\u00edc\u00ed, uk\u00e1zat svou l\u00e1sku.\u201c \u0159ekla. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh z praxe24let\u00e1, velmi hezk\u00e1 zdravotn\u00ed sestra zam\u011bstnan\u00e1 v\u00a0okresn\u00ed nemocnici, vyrostla bez otce a s\u00a0nep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 citov\u011b vybavenou matkou. Pom\u00fd\u0161lela na sebevra\u017edu pot\u00e9, co opustila kv\u016fli nev\u011b\u0159e sv\u00e9ho pr\u00fd v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e9ho o 15 let star\u0161\u00edho partnera, jeho\u017e milovala a jen\u017e j\u00ed spolehliv\u011b nahrazoval tak\u00e9 otce. M\u011b nav\u0161t\u00edvila na v\u00fdzvu sv\u00e9 matky, kter\u00e1 si p\u0159\u00e1la, abych j\u00ed sebevra\u017eedn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky \u00a0rozmluvil.Opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel ji prosil o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed a o n\u00e1vrat. Odm\u00edtala to, p\u0159esto\u017ee by mu okam\u017eit\u011b r\u00e1da odpustila i se k n\u011bmu bleskurychle vr\u00e1tila. Cht\u011bla ho sv\u00fdm ml\u010den\u00edm ztrestat. Volal a psal j\u00ed marn\u011b cel\u00fd t\u00fdden, jen\u017ee pak definitivn\u011b p\u0159estal, co\u017e ji ohromilo. Kv\u016fli sv\u00e9 domn\u011bl\u00e9 hrdosti, ztratila cenn\u00e9ho, by\u0165 provinil\u00e9ho mu\u017ee. \u00a0P\u0159i vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed jsem zjistil, \u017ee tato mlad\u00e1 d\u00e1ma neum\u00ed navazovat b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e9 vztahy s\u00a0vrstevn\u00edky a s kolegy.\u00a0 P\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dil jsem ji, aby vzdor zaveden\u00e9 praxi, \u017ee zdravotn\u00ed person\u00e1l by nem\u011bl utrpen\u00ed nemocn\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 podl\u00e9hat, tuto z\u00e1sadu ob\u010das poru\u0161ila. Podle m\u00fdch n\u00e1vod\u016f pak rozd\u00e1vala nemocn\u00fdm nad\u011bji, ob\u010das n\u011bjakou babku pohladila, probouzela v\u00a0i v\u00a0t\u011b\u017ece nemocn\u00fdch v\u00edru v\u00a0uzdraven\u00ed, m\u00edrnila strach nemocn\u00fdch p\u0159ed opera\u010dn\u00edmi z\u00e1kroky atp.Po m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch mi napsala: C\u00edt\u00edm se u\u017eite\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a klidn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, l\u00edb\u00ed se mi, \u017ee se nemocn\u00ed ptaj\u00ed, kdy zas bude m\u00edt slu\u017ebu ta hodn\u00e1 sest\u0159i\u010dka. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee jsem z \u00a0nejhor\u0161\u00edho venku\u2026Odpov\u011bd\u011bl jsem: Mo\u017en\u00e1 z\u00a0v\u00e1s jednou bude nov\u00e1 matka Tereza.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":10294,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[134,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10292","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ctenarska-sekce","category-medunka"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10292","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10292"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10293,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10292\/revisions\/10293"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10294"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}