{"id":10225,"date":"2024-08-30T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-08-30T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=10225"},"modified":"2024-08-07T12:56:06","modified_gmt":"2024-08-07T12:56:06","slug":"kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-cilem-uz-neni-cesta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2024\/08\/30\/kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-cilem-uz-neni-cesta\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd: C\u00edlem u\u017e nen\u00ed cesta"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Ve 13. kapitole sv\u00e9 knihy <em>Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd<\/em> polemizuje autor, <em>dr. Petr Novotn\u00fd<\/em>, s prastarou zku\u0161enost\u00ed, \u017ee cesta je c\u00edlem&#8230; Pro\u010d? P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si..<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>V\u00a0posledn\u00edch desetilet\u00edch se rozmohlo p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee se sami neochr\u00e1n\u00edme nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159ed ud\u00e1lostn\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edzn\u00ed, hmotnou b\u00eddou, nel\u00e1skou, k\u0159ivdami, zadlu\u017een\u00edm, profesn\u00edm selh\u00e1n\u00edm, nev\u011brou partnera, rozvratem rodiny, stresem, \u00fazkost\u00ed a zdravotn\u00edmi pot\u00ed\u017eemi.<\/strong> Paradoxn\u011b se\u00a0to stalo v\u00a0d\u016fsledku ohromuj\u00edc\u00edho technick\u00e9ho rozmachu, jen\u017e n\u00e1s zbavil odv\u011bk\u00fdch, na prvn\u00ed pohled p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch a mnohdy i bolestn\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch cest a cesti\u010dek. Dva a p\u016fl tis\u00edce let star\u00e1 zku\u0161enost: \u201eC\u00edlem je cesta!\u201c t\u00edm p\u00e1dem vyvanula.<br>Soci\u00e1ln\u00ed cesty a cesti\u010dky se za v\u00edce jak jedno stolet\u00ed zkr\u00e1tily, vymizely anebo pozbyly smyslu. A pokud p\u0159ece jen n\u011bkter\u00e9 z\u016fstaly, pak u\u017e neposta\u010duj\u00ed k\u00a0vytvo\u0159en\u00ed takov\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed a n\u00e1vyk\u016f, je\u017e b\u00fdvaly pova\u017eov\u00e1ny za b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 a sebez\u00e1chovn\u00e9, \u00a0anebo dokonce za smysl \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na prvn\u00ed pohled se jednalo o malichernosti. Nap\u0159\u00edklad b\u00fdvalo b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed zna\u010dn\u00fdch vzd\u00e1lenost\u00ed p\u011b\u0161ky. A ne\u0161lo jen o \u010desk\u00e9 a moravsk\u00e9 tovary\u0161e chod\u00edc\u00ed do V\u00eddn\u011b p\u011b\u0161ky za prac\u00ed. Na p\u011b\u0161\u00edch cest\u00e1ch potk\u00e1v\u00e1me i dnes rozli\u010dn\u011b lidi\u010dky, od nich\u017e \u00a0m\u016f\u017eeme odkoukat rozli\u010dn\u00e9 podoby \u010dlov\u011b\u010diny. M\u00e1my z\u016fst\u00e1valy je\u0161t\u011b za prvn\u00ed republiky doma s\u00a0d\u011btmi, i kdy\u017e ty u\u017e chodily do \u0161koly. Povinn\u00e1 dvoulet\u00e1 vojensk\u00e1 slu\u017eba prom\u011b\u0148ovala v\u011bt\u0161inu mlad\u00edk\u016f v\u00a0odpov\u011bdn\u00e9 a c\u00edlev\u011bdom\u00e9 mu\u017ee. \u0160t\u00edp\u00e1n\u00ed d\u0159\u00edv\u00ed, skl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed uhl\u00ed, udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed ohn\u011b, p\u00e9\u010de o u\u017eitkov\u00e1 zv\u00ed\u0159ata, p\u011bstov\u00e1n\u00ed i skladov\u00e1n\u00ed ovoce a zeleniny, to rovn\u011b\u017e zabralo zna\u010dn\u00fd \u010das a p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161elo d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti. Dnes u\u017e pominuly n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy kostel\u016f, zpov\u011bdi i posty. Vy\u010dp\u011blo kmotrovstv\u00ed zabezpe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed nepokrevn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edbuzenstvo. <strong>Zaniklo v\u00fdm\u011bnk\u00e1\u0159stv\u00ed, vytratila se odpov\u011bdnost za\u00a0bli\u017en\u00ed v\u00a0nouzi, ne\u017eije se ve v\u00edcegenera\u010dn\u00edch \u00a0<\/strong>rodin\u00e1ch ani se neum\u00edr\u00e1 doma, ale ve \u0161pit\u00e1lech, eld\u00e9enk\u00e1ch a hospic\u00edch.<br><strong>Kdo dnes zp\u00edv\u00e1 v lidov\u00fdch\u00a0souborech, muzic\u00edruje v\u00a0hospodsk\u00fdch kapel\u00e1ch anebo hraje amat\u00e9rsk\u00e9 divadlo? Ustalo se s projevy \u00facty a loajality autorit\u00e1m a ke v\u0161emu, co n\u00e1s p\u0159evy\u0161uje, tak\u00e9 pro\u0159\u00eddly z\u00e1jmov\u00e9 spolky.<\/strong><br><strong>Vznikl nadbytek soci\u00e1ln\u011b nespot\u0159ebov\u00e1van\u00e9ho \u010dasu, jen\u017e \u00a0n\u011bkomu p\u0159ivod\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad stres, \u00fazkost, depresi anebo zdrcuj\u00edc\u00ed z\u00e1vislosti.<\/strong> V\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdch podn\u011bcuje bezv\u00fdchodnost anebo nutk\u00e1n\u00ed k sebezni\u010den\u00ed. Cti\u017e\u00e1dostivci a hyperaktivci tento \u010das vyu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed p\u0159i souboj\u00edch s\u00a0v\u011btrn\u00fdmi ml\u00fdny a konkurenty, k\u00a0cest\u00e1m za bohatstv\u00edm, popularitou, v\u00fdznamnost\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed distanc\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jej utr\u00e1cej\u00ed riskantn\u00edmi \u010dinnostmi anebo vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00edmi \u00a0pro\u017eitky.<br><strong>Bez ka\u017edoden\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch cest, emo\u010dn\u00edch sm\u011bn a zku\u0161enost\u00ed, tedy bez efekt\u016f \u010dlov\u011b\u010diny, vyvst\u00e1v\u00e1 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed nap\u011bt\u00ed, a tud\u00ed\u017e i pot\u0159eba specialist\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed jej rozm\u011bl\u0148uj\u00ed.<\/strong> Rozr\u016fstaj\u00ed se soci\u00e1ln\u00ed instituce, nakynuly soudy, \u0161kol\u00edc\u00ed st\u0159ediska, domovy d\u016fchodc\u016f a hospice. Rozmohlo se profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed a rozvozy j\u00eddel, televizn\u00ed poradenstv\u00ed a z\u00e1silkovny. Zjevili se zdravotn\u00ed kou\u010di, preventivn\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de anebo rozli\u010dn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed kurzy.<br>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed moji klienti absolvovali <em>Kurz p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed, Kurz poskytnut\u00ed \u00fat\u011bchy bli\u017en\u00edm<\/em>, <em>Kurz terapie pevn\u00e9ho objet\u00ed, Kurz neodkl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fdch rozhodnut\u00ed<\/em> (Viz publikace <em>Konec prokrastinace<\/em>) a dokonce <em>Kurz 68 % spolehlivosti k\u00a0p\u0159ijet\u00ed ke studiu psychologie. <\/em>Moje 36let\u00e1 depresivn\u00ed klientka pro\u0161la v\u00a0Anglii <em>Kurzem sm\u00edchu. <\/em>Vr\u00e1sky jako efekt takzvan\u00e9 vysm\u00e1tosti v\u0161ak v\u00a0obli\u010deji nem\u011bla.<br>Rozrostla se popt\u00e1vka po soci\u00e1ln\u00edch, pr\u00e1vn\u00edch, bankovn\u00edch a da\u0148ov\u00fdch slu\u017eb\u00e1ch, not\u00e1\u0159sk\u00fdch z\u00e1pisech, p\u0159edsvatebn\u00edch smlouv\u00e1ch, vyd\u011b\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed, rodinn\u00e9 terapii, intervenc\u00edch medi\u00e1tor\u016f, l\u00e9\u010ditel\u016f a rodinn\u00fdch konstel\u00e1tor\u016f.<br>Rozli\u010dn\u00e9 poradny rostou i v\u00a0men\u0161\u00edch m\u011bstech jako houby po de\u0161ti, jen\u017ee n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jejich klienti b\u00fdvaj\u00ed a\u017e tak bezradn\u00ed, \u017ee smyslu rozli\u010dn\u00fdch pokyn\u016f k nezbytn\u00fdm korekc\u00edm neuv\u011b\u0159\u00ed, nerozum\u011bj\u00ed a nevyu\u017eij\u00ed je ke sv\u00e9mu prosp\u011bchu, p\u0159esto\u017ee p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b dos\u00e1hli pozoruhodn\u00fdch c\u00edl\u016f a z\u00e1vid\u011bn\u00edhodn\u00fdch met, av\u0161ak nepro\u0161li nespo\u010detn\u00fdmi soci\u00e1ln\u00edmi cestami.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ve 13. kapitole sv\u00e9 knihy Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd polemizuje autor, dr. Petr Novotn\u00fd, s prastarou zku\u0161enost\u00ed, \u017ee cesta je c\u00edlem&#8230; Pro\u010d? P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si&#8230; V\u00a0posledn\u00edch desetilet\u00edch se rozmohlo p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee se sami neochr\u00e1n\u00edme nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159ed ud\u00e1lostn\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edzn\u00ed, hmotnou b\u00eddou, nel\u00e1skou, k\u0159ivdami, zadlu\u017een\u00edm, profesn\u00edm selh\u00e1n\u00edm, nev\u011brou partnera, rozvratem rodiny, stresem, \u00fazkost\u00ed a zdravotn\u00edmi pot\u00ed\u017eemi. Paradoxn\u011b se\u00a0to stalo v\u00a0d\u016fsledku ohromuj\u00edc\u00edho technick\u00e9ho rozmachu, jen\u017e n\u00e1s zbavil odv\u011bk\u00fdch, na prvn\u00ed pohled p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch a mnohdy i bolestn\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch cest a cesti\u010dek. Dva a p\u016fl tis\u00edce let star\u00e1 zku\u0161enost: \u201eC\u00edlem je cesta!\u201c t\u00edm p\u00e1dem vyvanula.Soci\u00e1ln\u00ed cesty a cesti\u010dky se za v\u00edce jak jedno stolet\u00ed zkr\u00e1tily, vymizely anebo pozbyly smyslu. A pokud p\u0159ece jen n\u011bkter\u00e9 z\u016fstaly, pak u\u017e neposta\u010duj\u00ed k\u00a0vytvo\u0159en\u00ed takov\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed a n\u00e1vyk\u016f, je\u017e b\u00fdvaly pova\u017eov\u00e1ny za b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 a sebez\u00e1chovn\u00e9, \u00a0anebo dokonce za smysl \u017eivota. Na prvn\u00ed pohled se jednalo o malichernosti. Nap\u0159\u00edklad b\u00fdvalo b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed zna\u010dn\u00fdch vzd\u00e1lenost\u00ed p\u011b\u0161ky. A ne\u0161lo jen o \u010desk\u00e9 a moravsk\u00e9 tovary\u0161e chod\u00edc\u00ed do V\u00eddn\u011b p\u011b\u0161ky za prac\u00ed. Na p\u011b\u0161\u00edch cest\u00e1ch potk\u00e1v\u00e1me i dnes rozli\u010dn\u011b lidi\u010dky, od nich\u017e \u00a0m\u016f\u017eeme odkoukat rozli\u010dn\u00e9 podoby \u010dlov\u011b\u010diny. M\u00e1my z\u016fst\u00e1valy je\u0161t\u011b za prvn\u00ed republiky doma s\u00a0d\u011btmi, i kdy\u017e ty u\u017e chodily do \u0161koly. Povinn\u00e1 dvoulet\u00e1 vojensk\u00e1 slu\u017eba prom\u011b\u0148ovala v\u011bt\u0161inu mlad\u00edk\u016f v\u00a0odpov\u011bdn\u00e9 a c\u00edlev\u011bdom\u00e9 mu\u017ee. \u0160t\u00edp\u00e1n\u00ed d\u0159\u00edv\u00ed, skl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed uhl\u00ed, udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed ohn\u011b, p\u00e9\u010de o u\u017eitkov\u00e1 zv\u00ed\u0159ata, p\u011bstov\u00e1n\u00ed i skladov\u00e1n\u00ed ovoce a zeleniny, to rovn\u011b\u017e zabralo zna\u010dn\u00fd \u010das a p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161elo d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti. Dnes u\u017e pominuly n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy kostel\u016f, zpov\u011bdi i posty. Vy\u010dp\u011blo kmotrovstv\u00ed zabezpe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed nepokrevn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edbuzenstvo. Zaniklo v\u00fdm\u011bnk\u00e1\u0159stv\u00ed, vytratila se odpov\u011bdnost za\u00a0bli\u017en\u00ed v\u00a0nouzi, ne\u017eije se ve v\u00edcegenera\u010dn\u00edch \u00a0rodin\u00e1ch ani se neum\u00edr\u00e1 doma, ale ve \u0161pit\u00e1lech, eld\u00e9enk\u00e1ch a hospic\u00edch.Kdo dnes zp\u00edv\u00e1 v lidov\u00fdch\u00a0souborech, muzic\u00edruje v\u00a0hospodsk\u00fdch kapel\u00e1ch anebo hraje amat\u00e9rsk\u00e9 divadlo? Ustalo se s projevy \u00facty a loajality autorit\u00e1m a ke v\u0161emu, co n\u00e1s p\u0159evy\u0161uje, tak\u00e9 pro\u0159\u00eddly z\u00e1jmov\u00e9 spolky.Vznikl nadbytek soci\u00e1ln\u011b nespot\u0159ebov\u00e1van\u00e9ho \u010dasu, jen\u017e \u00a0n\u011bkomu p\u0159ivod\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad stres, \u00fazkost, depresi anebo zdrcuj\u00edc\u00ed z\u00e1vislosti. V\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdch podn\u011bcuje bezv\u00fdchodnost anebo nutk\u00e1n\u00ed k sebezni\u010den\u00ed. Cti\u017e\u00e1dostivci a hyperaktivci tento \u010das vyu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed p\u0159i souboj\u00edch s\u00a0v\u011btrn\u00fdmi ml\u00fdny a konkurenty, k\u00a0cest\u00e1m za bohatstv\u00edm, popularitou, v\u00fdznamnost\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed distanc\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jej utr\u00e1cej\u00ed riskantn\u00edmi \u010dinnostmi anebo vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00edmi \u00a0pro\u017eitky.Bez ka\u017edoden\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch cest, emo\u010dn\u00edch sm\u011bn a zku\u0161enost\u00ed, tedy bez efekt\u016f \u010dlov\u011b\u010diny, vyvst\u00e1v\u00e1 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed nap\u011bt\u00ed, a tud\u00ed\u017e i pot\u0159eba specialist\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed jej rozm\u011bl\u0148uj\u00ed. Rozr\u016fstaj\u00ed se soci\u00e1ln\u00ed instituce, nakynuly soudy, \u0161kol\u00edc\u00ed st\u0159ediska, domovy d\u016fchodc\u016f a hospice. Rozmohlo se profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed a rozvozy j\u00eddel, televizn\u00ed poradenstv\u00ed a z\u00e1silkovny. Zjevili se zdravotn\u00ed kou\u010di, preventivn\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de anebo rozli\u010dn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed kurzy.N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed moji klienti absolvovali Kurz p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed, Kurz poskytnut\u00ed \u00fat\u011bchy bli\u017en\u00edm, Kurz terapie pevn\u00e9ho objet\u00ed, Kurz neodkl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fdch rozhodnut\u00ed (Viz publikace Konec prokrastinace) a dokonce Kurz 68 % spolehlivosti k\u00a0p\u0159ijet\u00ed ke studiu psychologie. Moje 36let\u00e1 depresivn\u00ed klientka pro\u0161la v\u00a0Anglii Kurzem sm\u00edchu. 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