{"id":10098,"date":"2024-07-12T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-07-12T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=10098"},"modified":"2024-07-02T15:55:56","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T15:55:56","slug":"10098","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2024\/07\/12\/10098\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

My lid\u00e9 vynakl\u00e1d\u00e1me v \u017eivot\u011b spoustu \u00fasil\u00ed, abychom se vyhnuli r\u016fzn\u00fdm typ\u016fm str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/strong> Jak ale p\u00ed\u0161e v 7. kapitole sv\u00e9 knihy Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd<\/strong><\/em> jej\u00ed autor PhDr. Petr Novotn\u00fd<\/strong><\/em>, ur\u010dit\u00fd typ str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed pln\u00ed v\u00fdznamnou funkci pro uchov\u00e1n\u00ed lidsk\u00e9ho druhu… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pot\u0159ebnost str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong>
Str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed navozen\u00e9 v\u00a0d\u016fsledku rozpor\u016f mezi striktn\u011b vrozenou soci\u00e1lnost\u00ed a striktn\u011b vrozen\u00fdm egoistick\u00fdm pnut\u00edm nen\u00ed v\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b n\u00e1hodn\u00e9, ani nen\u00ed trapn\u00fdm omylem p\u0159\u00edrody v\u011bdou vbrzku u\u017e napraviteln\u00fdm\u2026Je vnucov\u00e1no z v\u016fle p\u0159\u00edrody a pln\u00ed v\u00fdznamnou \u00a0funkci i pro uchov\u00e1n\u00ed lidsk\u00e9ho druhu.<\/strong>
Kdybychom od v\u011bk\u016f bolestn\u011b a n\u011bkdy i zd\u00e1nliv\u011b bezv\u00fdchodn\u011b t\u011blesn\u011b i psychicky nestr\u00e1dali, u\u017e bychom nebyli, co\u017e je pov\u011bt\u0161inou neuv\u011bdomovan\u00fd paradox, p\u0159esto\u017ee je rozli\u010dn\u011b propagov\u00e1n u\u017e tis\u00edce let:
Velice rozmno\u017e\u00edm tv\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed i bolesti. Syny bude\u0161 rodit v utrpen\u00ed, bude\u0161 dychtit po sv\u00e9m mu\u017ei, ale on nad tebou bude vl\u00e1dnout<\/em>, p\u00ed\u0161e se v\u00a0Genesis nap\u0159\u00edklad o \u017eensk\u00fdch tr\u00e1pen\u00edch.
Av\u0161ak i mu\u017esk\u00fdch str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed byl p\u0159\u00edrodou vnucen bezpo\u010det, o \u010dem\u017e informuje rovn\u011b\u017e Genesis, nap\u0159\u00edklad
v\u00a0\u010d\u00e1sti textu: Naleznu-li v\u00a0Sodom\u011b pades\u00e1t spravedliv\u00fdch, pak v\u00e1s nevyhlad\u00edm a v\u0161em odpust\u00edm<\/em>! \u00a0varovaql sodomsk\u00e9 papal\u00e1\u0161e p\u00e1nb\u016fh, tehdy zvan\u00fd Hospodin. A proto\u017ee t\u011bch spravedliv\u00fdch v\u00a0Sodom\u011b po velk\u00e9m handrkov\u00e1n\u00ed nena\u0161el ani deset, zni\u010dil Sodomu i Gomoru definitivn\u011b ohn\u011bm a s\u00edrou.
Vyhlazov\u00e1n\u00ed nespravedliv\u00e9ho (nesoci\u00e1ln\u00edho) \u010dlov\u011bka, b\u00fdvalo od starov\u011bku ch\u00e1pano p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v podob\u011b zkr\u00e1cen\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 d\u00e9lky jeho \u017eivota v\u00a0d\u016fsledku nemoci.
Prudk\u00fd r\u016fst po\u010dtu dne\u0161n\u00edch nemocn\u00fdch souvis\u00ed z\u0159eteln\u011b obdobn\u011b jako v\u00a0Sodom\u011b s\u00a0pronikav\u00fdm \u00fapadkem soci\u00e1ln\u00edm. S\u00a0trochou humorn\u00e9ho nadhledu je takzvan\u011b spravedliv\u00fdch, nestr\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edch a psychicky vylad\u011bn\u00fdch, po kter\u00fdch p\u00e1tral Hospodin v\u00a0Sodom\u011b, i v\u00a0dne\u0161ku z\u0159eteln\u00fd nedostatek.
Navozov\u00e1n\u00ed \u00fatrpn\u00fdch zdravotn\u00edch situac\u00ed je v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed dob\u011b naopak nadbytek a b\u00fdvaj\u00ed st\u00e1le drsn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nebezpe\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.

A nestr\u00e1d\u00e1 jen \u010dlov\u011bk, p\u00e1n tvorstva<\/strong>. Nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 identickou \u017e\u00e1rlivost\u00ed, jakou zn\u00e1me z\u00a0\u010dlov\u011b\u010d\u00edho sv\u011bta, str\u00e1dali m\u016fj pes i ko\u010dka. Ob\u011b zv\u00ed\u0159\u00e1tka se b\u00e1la, \u017ee je opust\u00edm, a\u010d jsem to nikdy nem\u011bl v\u00a0\u00famyslu.
Kdy\u017e se boj\u00edme v\u0161eho mo\u017en\u00e9ho, b\u00fdv\u00e1 zad\u011bl\u00e1no na \u00a0zdravotn\u00ed probl\u00e9m. Nap\u0159\u00edklad strach z\u00a0opu\u0161t\u011bnosti \u010di bezcennosti a n\u00e1sledn\u011b zjeven\u00e1 deprese jsou podle m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed americk\u00e9ho v\u00fdzkumn\u00edka Georga Browna jednovaje\u010dn\u00e1 dvoj\u010data.<\/strong>
Obdobn\u00e9 t\u011bsn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edbuzensk\u00e9 vztahy jsou navozov\u00e1ny tak\u00e9 mezi depres\u00ed a rakovinou, co\u017e ov\u011b\u0159il v\u00edde\u0148sk\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 a experiment\u00e1tor Thomas Krois.
N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed moji klienti se ob\u00e1vaj\u00ed, \u017ee po nich na sv\u011bt\u011b nic v\u00fdznamn\u00e9ho nez\u016fstane, tak\u017ee jejich \u017eivot nem\u011bl smysl, jin\u00ed zas m\u00edvaj\u00ed strach ze ztr\u00e1ty sv\u00e9 v\u00fdznamnosti. V\u00a0obou p\u0159\u00edpadech maj\u00ed sice pravdu, jen\u017ee by si to a\u017e tak v\u00e1\u017en\u011b nem\u011bli br\u00e1t.
Objektivn\u011b vzato, ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 anebo dokonce mus\u00ed m\u00edt z\u00a0n\u011b\u010deho strach, bez toho \u017e\u00edt nelze. J\u00e1 se nejv\u00edce boj\u00edm nepotrestan\u00e9ho zla, proto\u017ee se na n\u011b snadno navazuj\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 zla, a\u017e se z\u00a0nich nakonec spust\u00ed laviny soci\u00e1ln\u00edch, zdravotn\u00edch i spole\u010densk\u00fdch katastrof. Beztrestnost vychov\u00e1v\u00e1 dareb\u00e1ky.
N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed moji klienti se boj\u00ed hmotn\u00e9 b\u00eddy, nel\u00e1sky, p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00e9 smrti, profesn\u00edho selh\u00e1n\u00ed, opu\u0161t\u011bnosti, bolesti, sv\u00e9 nemoci. Jin\u00ed se ob\u00e1vaj\u00ed definitivn\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty sv\u00e9 kr\u00e1sy nebo rozumov\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed, co\u017e je pikantn\u00ed, proto\u017ee tyto dva velmi \u017e\u00e1dan\u00e9 a uct\u00edvan\u00e9 statky n\u011bkdy dokonce bleskurychle zmiz\u00ed, snad aby u\u017e nemohly b\u00fdt nad\u00e1le zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1ny.
Str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed zp\u016fsoben\u00e9 rozli\u010dn\u00fdmi strachy je m\u00e1lem bezpo\u010det. N\u011bme\u010dt\u00ed v\u00fdzkumn\u00edci si dali pr\u00e1ci a strachy zobecnili a spo\u010d\u00edtali. Kone\u010dn\u00e9 \u010d\u00edslo bere dech – p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 560 rozli\u010dn\u00fdch strach\u016f. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b je t\u0159eba zd\u016fraznit, \u017ee kde se rod\u00ed siln\u00fd strach, tam se sou\u010dasn\u011b nab\u00edz\u00ed nebo vnucuje osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u00fdchodisko.
Zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed \u00fatrpnou emoc\u00ed, kter\u00e1 mnoh\u00e9 ohro\u017euje, je vztek. Moje andulka je vztekl\u00e1, kdy\u017e jej\u00edm hlasit\u00fdm av\u00edz\u016fm a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edm nev\u011bnuji \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed pozornost. Kdy\u017e j\u00ed \u010dist\u00edm kl\u00edcku, r\u00e1da m\u011b ve vzteku klove do rukou.
Vztekl\u00ed jsou i moji soused\u00e9, kdy\u017e jim vytknu parkov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed svou gar\u00e1\u017e\u00ed. Obdobn\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti s\u00a0nes\u010detn\u00fdmi vzteklouny lze sb\u00edrat ze v\u0161ech stran.
P\u0159\u00edli\u0161 rychle ub\u00edhaj\u00edc\u00edmi l\u00e9ty str\u00e1d\u00e1 m\u016fj penzionovan\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel. M\u016fj v\u010derej\u0161\u00ed klient str\u00e1dal m\u00e9n\u011bcennost\u00ed, proto\u017ee \u00a0neobst\u00e1v\u00e1 v odpov\u011bdnosti za svoje nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed.
P\u0159em\u00edrou pr\u00e1ce str\u00e1daj\u00ed dobrovoln\u011b zejm\u00e9na moji mu\u017e\u0161t\u00ed klienti.
Hojn\u011b se str\u00e1d\u00e1 anorexi\u00ed, nechutenstv\u00edm, ob\u017eerstv\u00edm, impotenc\u00ed, frigiditou, hypersexualitou, neklidem, nespavost\u00ed i obsesemi.
V\u00a0dne\u0161ku se viditeln\u011b a a\u017e pronikav\u011b rozhoj\u0148uje pro zdrav\u00ed extr\u00e9mn\u011b nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 emoce, jen\u017e se projevuje a\u017e brut\u00e1ln\u00ed nen\u00e1vist\u00ed k\u00a0odli\u0161n\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00edm, mysl\u00edc\u00edm, p\u00ed\u0161\u00edc\u00edm, mluv\u00edc\u00edm i poci\u0165uj\u00edc\u00edm.<\/strong>
Hojn\u011b roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9 a v podstat\u011b nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed se vyjevuje v podob\u011b deprese. Vnut\u00ed \u00a0se nap\u0159\u00edklad po rezignac\u00ed na dal\u0161\u00ed emo\u010dn\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed rozvoj anebo v\u00a0d\u016fsledku bezv\u00fdchodnosti a bezb\u0159eh\u00e9 z\u00e1vislosti, o \u010dem\u017e by mohly vypr\u00e1v\u011bt statis\u00edce trp\u00edc\u00edch polykaj\u00edc\u00ed dlouh\u00e9 roky antidepresiva.
Kdo u\u017e od st\u0159edn\u00edho v\u011bku nic ne\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1, nic nechce, nikoho, tedy ani sebe nemiluje, o nic neusiluje a k ni\u010demu takzvan\u011b nesm\u011b\u0159uje a nen\u00ed nikomu u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd, st\u00e1v\u00e1 se beznad\u011bjn\u011b z\u00e1visl\u00fdm na ostatn\u00edch a pota\u017emo i depresivn\u00edm.
Mn\u011b p\u0159ipad\u00e1, \u017ee depres\u00ed trp\u00ed \u010dast\u011bji dosp\u011bl\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed byli necht\u011bn\u00fdmi \u010di \u00a0m\u00e1lo milovan\u00fdmi d\u011btmi.<\/strong>
Deprese b\u00fdv\u00e1 velice \u010dasto probouzena a posilov\u00e1na tak\u00e9 dlouhodobou partnerskou nel\u00e1skou, partnersk\u00fdm selh\u00e1n\u00edm, zdrcuj\u00edc\u00edmi \u00a0existenci\u00e1ln\u00edmi z\u00e1\u017eitky, pod tlakem hmotn\u00e9 b\u00eddy, v\u00a0d\u016fsledku chyb\u011bj\u00edc\u00ed komunikace a nedostatkem soci\u00e1ln\u00edch kontakt\u016f. K\u00a0tomu doch\u00e1z\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad po odchodu do penze anebo po p\u0159ed\u00e1n\u00ed profesn\u00edch vesel mlad\u0161\u00edm nebo schopn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm.
Napsala mi \u0161edes\u00e1tilet\u00e1 d\u00e1ma: Pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m velmi ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9\u00a0 a nespokojen\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed obdob\u00ed. U\u017e dlouho se mi nic neda\u0159\u00ed a nejsem sama se sebou spokojena. M\u00e9mu o patn\u00e1ct let star\u0161\u00edmu depresivn\u00edmu man\u017eelovi se v dob\u011b covidov\u00e9\u00a0 hodn\u011b zm\u011bnil re\u017eim, tud\u00ed\u017e z\u016fst\u00e1val doma na gau\u010di, za\u010dal zapom\u00ednat, byl ustra\u0161en\u00fd a nezaj\u00edmal se v\u016fbec o nic. Necht\u011bl nikam chodit, v\u0161e ho d\u011bsilo. V\u017edy jsem \u0159\u00edkala, \u017ee s n\u00edm chci b\u00fdt a\u017e do smrti a starat se o n\u011bj, ale a\u017e nyn\u00ed jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt i hodn\u011b obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9. Pro m\u011b to byla zprvu i jist\u00e1 v\u00fdzva, cht\u011bla jsem se nau\u010dit s n\u00edm i ve vypjat\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch vych\u00e1zet. P\u0159ed deseti lety jsem dokonce absolvovala kurz Terapie pevn\u00e9ho objet\u00ed, kde jsme s emocemi a s usmi\u0159ova\u010dkami pracovali hodn\u011b, ale .j\u00e1 v\u00fdsledky tohoto kurzu nedok\u00e1\u017eu uplatnit na sv\u00e9m man\u017eelovi\u2026<\/em>
Deprese m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt tak\u00e9 efektem pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9ho hn\u00edzda, kdy\u017e dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u011bti opust\u00ed svoje rodi\u010de a vydaj\u00ed se na vlastn\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed cestu.
Depresi podn\u00edt\u00ed spolehliv\u011b i spiritu\u00e1ln\u00ed krize nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0podob\u011b vymizen\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00edho smyslu, po ztr\u00e1t\u011b v\u00edry v\u00a0boha anebo ji navod\u00ed vjemy bezv\u00fdchodnosti \u010di nesmyslnost\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9ho usilov\u00e1n\u00ed.
Trv\u00e1-li deprese del\u0161\u00ed \u010das, p\u0159idru\u017e\u00ed se k\u00a0n\u00ed n\u011bkdy s\u00a0velkou ochotou onkologick\u00e9 onemocn\u011bn\u00ed.
Shora u\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fd v\u00edde\u0148sk\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 Thomas Krois zbavoval svoje nemocn\u00e9 deprese a jejich rakovina se ob\u010das vydala sama dobrovoln\u011b na \u00fastup. Dostal za to dokonce met\u00e1l od EU! (Viz <\/em>jeho kniha Rakovina – \u0161ance na uzdraven<\/em>\u00ed)
Jak\u00e9koli str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1s rafinovan\u011b podn\u011bcuje, abychom se z\u00a0obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch situac\u00ed a pota\u017emo i z\u00a0n\u00e1sledn\u00fdch lepkav\u00fdch pavu\u010din nebezpe\u010dn\u00fdch emoc\u00ed, co nejrychleji vymanili.
Jednoho nap\u0159\u00edklad donut\u00ed, aby opustil nepadnouc\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed program anebo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1ro\u010dnou \u00a0profesi. Druh\u00e9ho str\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edho p\u0159im\u011bje, aby se i v \u0161edes\u00e1ti vymanil z\u00a0d\u00e1vno vyhasl\u00e9ho partnersk\u00e9ho vztahu, kter\u00fd u\u017e nelze vyspravit.
Kdy\u017e jsou obdobn\u00e9 osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed korekce u\u010din\u011bny, vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed se str\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edmu tak \u010di onak ulev\u00ed anebo dokonce p\u0159estane str\u00e1dat. Tato skv\u011bl\u00e1 vymo\u017eenost je navozov\u00e1na z\u00a0v\u016fle matky p\u0159\u00edrody.
N\u011bkdy v\u0161ak b\u00fdv\u00e1 ch\u00e1p\u00e1na chybn\u011b. \u010c\u00e1st m\u00fdch nemocn\u00fdch klient\u016f nep\u0159isuzuje str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdm emo\u010dn\u00edm \u010di soci\u00e1ln\u00edm pochyben\u00edm, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e zdeformovan\u00e9mu soci\u00e1ln\u00edmu vn\u011bj\u0161ku. A jak na n\u011b reaguje domn\u011ble u\u017e nespraviteln\u00fd \u00a0soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vn\u011bj\u0161ek?
\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 jim tvrd\u011b: \u201eJak se m\u011b \u00a0pt\u00e1te, tak j\u00e1 v\u00e1m \u00a0odpov\u00edd\u00e1m!\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\/dokon\u010den\u00ed 7. kapitoly\/<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My lid\u00e9 vynakl\u00e1d\u00e1me v \u017eivot\u011b spoustu \u00fasil\u00ed, abychom se vyhnuli r\u016fzn\u00fdm typ\u016fm str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed. Jak ale p\u00ed\u0161e v 7. kapitole sv\u00e9 knihy Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd jej\u00ed autor PhDr. Petr Novotn\u00fd, ur\u010dit\u00fd typ str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed pln\u00ed v\u00fdznamnou funkci pro uchov\u00e1n\u00ed lidsk\u00e9ho druhu… Pot\u0159ebnost str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00edStr\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed navozen\u00e9 v\u00a0d\u016fsledku rozpor\u016f mezi striktn\u011b vrozenou soci\u00e1lnost\u00ed a striktn\u011b vrozen\u00fdm egoistick\u00fdm pnut\u00edm nen\u00ed v\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b n\u00e1hodn\u00e9, ani nen\u00ed trapn\u00fdm omylem p\u0159\u00edrody v\u011bdou vbrzku u\u017e napraviteln\u00fdm\u2026Je vnucov\u00e1no z v\u016fle p\u0159\u00edrody a pln\u00ed v\u00fdznamnou \u00a0funkci i pro uchov\u00e1n\u00ed lidsk\u00e9ho druhu.Kdybychom od v\u011bk\u016f bolestn\u011b a n\u011bkdy i zd\u00e1nliv\u011b bezv\u00fdchodn\u011b t\u011blesn\u011b i psychicky nestr\u00e1dali, u\u017e bychom nebyli, co\u017e je pov\u011bt\u0161inou neuv\u011bdomovan\u00fd paradox, p\u0159esto\u017ee je rozli\u010dn\u011b propagov\u00e1n u\u017e tis\u00edce let:Velice rozmno\u017e\u00edm tv\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed i bolesti. Syny bude\u0161 rodit v utrpen\u00ed, bude\u0161 dychtit po sv\u00e9m mu\u017ei, ale on nad tebou bude vl\u00e1dnout, p\u00ed\u0161e se v\u00a0Genesis nap\u0159\u00edklad o \u017eensk\u00fdch tr\u00e1pen\u00edch.Av\u0161ak i mu\u017esk\u00fdch str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed byl p\u0159\u00edrodou vnucen bezpo\u010det, o \u010dem\u017e informuje rovn\u011b\u017e Genesis, nap\u0159\u00edkladv\u00a0\u010d\u00e1sti textu: Naleznu-li v\u00a0Sodom\u011b pades\u00e1t spravedliv\u00fdch, pak v\u00e1s nevyhlad\u00edm a v\u0161em odpust\u00edm! \u00a0varovaql sodomsk\u00e9 papal\u00e1\u0161e p\u00e1nb\u016fh, tehdy zvan\u00fd Hospodin. A proto\u017ee t\u011bch spravedliv\u00fdch v\u00a0Sodom\u011b po velk\u00e9m handrkov\u00e1n\u00ed nena\u0161el ani deset, zni\u010dil Sodomu i Gomoru definitivn\u011b ohn\u011bm a s\u00edrou.Vyhlazov\u00e1n\u00ed nespravedliv\u00e9ho (nesoci\u00e1ln\u00edho) \u010dlov\u011bka, b\u00fdvalo od starov\u011bku ch\u00e1pano p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v podob\u011b zkr\u00e1cen\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 d\u00e9lky jeho \u017eivota v\u00a0d\u016fsledku nemoci.Prudk\u00fd r\u016fst po\u010dtu dne\u0161n\u00edch nemocn\u00fdch souvis\u00ed z\u0159eteln\u011b obdobn\u011b jako v\u00a0Sodom\u011b s\u00a0pronikav\u00fdm \u00fapadkem soci\u00e1ln\u00edm. S\u00a0trochou humorn\u00e9ho nadhledu je takzvan\u011b spravedliv\u00fdch, nestr\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edch a psychicky vylad\u011bn\u00fdch, po kter\u00fdch p\u00e1tral Hospodin v\u00a0Sodom\u011b, i v\u00a0dne\u0161ku z\u0159eteln\u00fd nedostatek.Navozov\u00e1n\u00ed \u00fatrpn\u00fdch zdravotn\u00edch situac\u00ed je v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed dob\u011b naopak nadbytek a b\u00fdvaj\u00ed st\u00e1le drsn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nebezpe\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. A nestr\u00e1d\u00e1 jen \u010dlov\u011bk, p\u00e1n tvorstva. Nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 identickou \u017e\u00e1rlivost\u00ed, jakou zn\u00e1me z\u00a0\u010dlov\u011b\u010d\u00edho sv\u011bta, str\u00e1dali m\u016fj pes i ko\u010dka. Ob\u011b zv\u00ed\u0159\u00e1tka se b\u00e1la, \u017ee je opust\u00edm, a\u010d jsem to nikdy nem\u011bl v\u00a0\u00famyslu.Kdy\u017e se boj\u00edme v\u0161eho mo\u017en\u00e9ho, b\u00fdv\u00e1 zad\u011bl\u00e1no na \u00a0zdravotn\u00ed probl\u00e9m. Nap\u0159\u00edklad strach z\u00a0opu\u0161t\u011bnosti \u010di bezcennosti a n\u00e1sledn\u011b zjeven\u00e1 deprese jsou podle m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed americk\u00e9ho v\u00fdzkumn\u00edka Georga Browna jednovaje\u010dn\u00e1 dvoj\u010data.Obdobn\u00e9 t\u011bsn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edbuzensk\u00e9 vztahy jsou navozov\u00e1ny tak\u00e9 mezi depres\u00ed a rakovinou, co\u017e ov\u011b\u0159il v\u00edde\u0148sk\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 a experiment\u00e1tor Thomas Krois.N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed moji klienti se ob\u00e1vaj\u00ed, \u017ee po nich na sv\u011bt\u011b nic v\u00fdznamn\u00e9ho nez\u016fstane, tak\u017ee jejich \u017eivot nem\u011bl smysl, jin\u00ed zas m\u00edvaj\u00ed strach ze ztr\u00e1ty sv\u00e9 v\u00fdznamnosti. V\u00a0obou p\u0159\u00edpadech maj\u00ed sice pravdu, jen\u017ee by si to a\u017e tak v\u00e1\u017en\u011b nem\u011bli br\u00e1t.Objektivn\u011b vzato, ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 anebo dokonce mus\u00ed m\u00edt z\u00a0n\u011b\u010deho strach, bez toho \u017e\u00edt nelze. J\u00e1 se nejv\u00edce boj\u00edm nepotrestan\u00e9ho zla, proto\u017ee se na n\u011b snadno navazuj\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 zla, a\u017e se z\u00a0nich nakonec spust\u00ed laviny soci\u00e1ln\u00edch, zdravotn\u00edch i spole\u010densk\u00fdch katastrof. Beztrestnost vychov\u00e1v\u00e1 dareb\u00e1ky.N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed moji klienti se boj\u00ed hmotn\u00e9 b\u00eddy, nel\u00e1sky, p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00e9 smrti, profesn\u00edho selh\u00e1n\u00ed, opu\u0161t\u011bnosti, bolesti, sv\u00e9 nemoci. Jin\u00ed se ob\u00e1vaj\u00ed definitivn\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty sv\u00e9 kr\u00e1sy nebo rozumov\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed, co\u017e je pikantn\u00ed, proto\u017ee tyto dva velmi \u017e\u00e1dan\u00e9 a uct\u00edvan\u00e9 statky n\u011bkdy dokonce bleskurychle zmiz\u00ed, snad aby u\u017e nemohly b\u00fdt nad\u00e1le zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1ny.Str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed zp\u016fsoben\u00e9 rozli\u010dn\u00fdmi strachy je m\u00e1lem bezpo\u010det. N\u011bme\u010dt\u00ed v\u00fdzkumn\u00edci si dali pr\u00e1ci a strachy zobecnili a spo\u010d\u00edtali. Kone\u010dn\u00e9 \u010d\u00edslo bere dech – p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 560 rozli\u010dn\u00fdch strach\u016f. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b je t\u0159eba zd\u016fraznit, \u017ee kde se rod\u00ed siln\u00fd strach, tam se sou\u010dasn\u011b nab\u00edz\u00ed nebo vnucuje osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u00fdchodisko.Zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed \u00fatrpnou emoc\u00ed, kter\u00e1 mnoh\u00e9 ohro\u017euje, je vztek. Moje andulka je vztekl\u00e1, kdy\u017e jej\u00edm hlasit\u00fdm av\u00edz\u016fm a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edm nev\u011bnuji \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed pozornost. Kdy\u017e j\u00ed \u010dist\u00edm kl\u00edcku, r\u00e1da m\u011b ve vzteku klove do rukou.Vztekl\u00ed jsou i moji soused\u00e9, kdy\u017e jim vytknu parkov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed svou gar\u00e1\u017e\u00ed. Obdobn\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti s\u00a0nes\u010detn\u00fdmi vzteklouny lze sb\u00edrat ze v\u0161ech stran.P\u0159\u00edli\u0161 rychle ub\u00edhaj\u00edc\u00edmi l\u00e9ty str\u00e1d\u00e1 m\u016fj penzionovan\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel. M\u016fj v\u010derej\u0161\u00ed klient str\u00e1dal m\u00e9n\u011bcennost\u00ed, proto\u017ee \u00a0neobst\u00e1v\u00e1 v odpov\u011bdnosti za svoje nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed.P\u0159em\u00edrou pr\u00e1ce str\u00e1daj\u00ed dobrovoln\u011b zejm\u00e9na moji mu\u017e\u0161t\u00ed klienti.Hojn\u011b se str\u00e1d\u00e1 anorexi\u00ed, nechutenstv\u00edm, ob\u017eerstv\u00edm, impotenc\u00ed, frigiditou, hypersexualitou, neklidem, nespavost\u00ed i obsesemi.V\u00a0dne\u0161ku se viditeln\u011b a a\u017e pronikav\u011b rozhoj\u0148uje pro zdrav\u00ed extr\u00e9mn\u011b nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 emoce, jen\u017e se projevuje a\u017e brut\u00e1ln\u00ed nen\u00e1vist\u00ed k\u00a0odli\u0161n\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00edm, mysl\u00edc\u00edm, p\u00ed\u0161\u00edc\u00edm, mluv\u00edc\u00edm i poci\u0165uj\u00edc\u00edm.Hojn\u011b roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9 a v podstat\u011b nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed se vyjevuje v podob\u011b deprese. Vnut\u00ed \u00a0se nap\u0159\u00edklad po rezignac\u00ed na dal\u0161\u00ed emo\u010dn\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed rozvoj anebo v\u00a0d\u016fsledku bezv\u00fdchodnosti a bezb\u0159eh\u00e9 z\u00e1vislosti, o \u010dem\u017e by mohly vypr\u00e1v\u011bt statis\u00edce trp\u00edc\u00edch polykaj\u00edc\u00ed dlouh\u00e9 roky antidepresiva.Kdo u\u017e od st\u0159edn\u00edho v\u011bku nic ne\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1, nic nechce, nikoho, tedy ani sebe nemiluje, o nic neusiluje a k ni\u010demu takzvan\u011b nesm\u011b\u0159uje a nen\u00ed nikomu u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd, st\u00e1v\u00e1 se beznad\u011bjn\u011b z\u00e1visl\u00fdm na ostatn\u00edch a pota\u017emo i depresivn\u00edm.Mn\u011b p\u0159ipad\u00e1, \u017ee depres\u00ed trp\u00ed \u010dast\u011bji dosp\u011bl\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed byli necht\u011bn\u00fdmi \u010di \u00a0m\u00e1lo milovan\u00fdmi d\u011btmi.Deprese b\u00fdv\u00e1 velice \u010dasto probouzena a posilov\u00e1na tak\u00e9 dlouhodobou partnerskou nel\u00e1skou, partnersk\u00fdm selh\u00e1n\u00edm, zdrcuj\u00edc\u00edmi \u00a0existenci\u00e1ln\u00edmi z\u00e1\u017eitky, pod tlakem hmotn\u00e9 b\u00eddy, v\u00a0d\u016fsledku chyb\u011bj\u00edc\u00ed komunikace a nedostatkem soci\u00e1ln\u00edch kontakt\u016f. K\u00a0tomu doch\u00e1z\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad po odchodu do penze anebo po p\u0159ed\u00e1n\u00ed profesn\u00edch vesel mlad\u0161\u00edm nebo schopn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm.Napsala mi \u0161edes\u00e1tilet\u00e1 d\u00e1ma: Pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m velmi ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9\u00a0 a nespokojen\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed obdob\u00ed. U\u017e dlouho se mi nic neda\u0159\u00ed a nejsem sama se sebou spokojena. M\u00e9mu o patn\u00e1ct let star\u0161\u00edmu depresivn\u00edmu man\u017eelovi se v dob\u011b covidov\u00e9\u00a0 hodn\u011b zm\u011bnil re\u017eim, tud\u00ed\u017e z\u016fst\u00e1val doma na gau\u010di, za\u010dal zapom\u00ednat, byl ustra\u0161en\u00fd a nezaj\u00edmal se v\u016fbec o nic. Necht\u011bl nikam chodit, v\u0161e ho d\u011bsilo. V\u017edy jsem \u0159\u00edkala, \u017ee s n\u00edm chci b\u00fdt a\u017e do smrti a starat se o n\u011bj, ale a\u017e nyn\u00ed jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt i hodn\u011b obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9. Pro m\u011b to byla zprvu i jist\u00e1 v\u00fdzva, cht\u011bla jsem se nau\u010dit s n\u00edm i ve vypjat\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch vych\u00e1zet. P\u0159ed deseti lety jsem dokonce absolvovala kurz Terapie pevn\u00e9ho objet\u00ed, kde jsme s emocemi a s usmi\u0159ova\u010dkami pracovali hodn\u011b, ale .j\u00e1 v\u00fdsledky tohoto kurzu nedok\u00e1\u017eu uplatnit na sv\u00e9m man\u017eelovi\u2026Deprese m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt tak\u00e9 efektem pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9ho hn\u00edzda, kdy\u017e dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u011bti opust\u00ed svoje rodi\u010de a vydaj\u00ed se na vlastn\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed cestu.Depresi podn\u00edt\u00ed spolehliv\u011b i spiritu\u00e1ln\u00ed krize nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0podob\u011b vymizen\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00edho smyslu, po ztr\u00e1t\u011b v\u00edry v\u00a0boha anebo ji navod\u00ed vjemy bezv\u00fdchodnosti \u010di nesmyslnost\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9ho usilov\u00e1n\u00ed.Trv\u00e1-li deprese del\u0161\u00ed \u010das, p\u0159idru\u017e\u00ed se k\u00a0n\u00ed n\u011bkdy s\u00a0velkou ochotou onkologick\u00e9 onemocn\u011bn\u00ed.Shora u\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fd v\u00edde\u0148sk\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 Thomas Krois zbavoval svoje nemocn\u00e9 deprese a jejich rakovina se ob\u010das vydala sama dobrovoln\u011b na \u00fastup. Dostal za to dokonce met\u00e1l od EU! (Viz jeho kniha Rakovina – \u0161ance na uzdraven\u00ed)Jak\u00e9koli str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1s rafinovan\u011b podn\u011bcuje, abychom se z\u00a0obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch situac\u00ed a pota\u017emo i z\u00a0n\u00e1sledn\u00fdch lepkav\u00fdch pavu\u010din nebezpe\u010dn\u00fdch emoc\u00ed, co nejrychleji vymanili.Jednoho nap\u0159\u00edklad donut\u00ed, aby opustil nepadnouc\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed program anebo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1ro\u010dnou \u00a0profesi. Druh\u00e9ho str\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edho p\u0159im\u011bje, aby se i v \u0161edes\u00e1ti vymanil z\u00a0d\u00e1vno vyhasl\u00e9ho partnersk\u00e9ho vztahu, kter\u00fd u\u017e nelze vyspravit.Kdy\u017e jsou obdobn\u00e9 osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed korekce u\u010din\u011bny, vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed se str\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edmu tak \u010di onak ulev\u00ed anebo dokonce p\u0159estane str\u00e1dat. Tato skv\u011bl\u00e1 vymo\u017eenost je navozov\u00e1na z\u00a0v\u016fle matky p\u0159\u00edrody.N\u011bkdy v\u0161ak b\u00fdv\u00e1 ch\u00e1p\u00e1na chybn\u011b. \u010c\u00e1st m\u00fdch nemocn\u00fdch klient\u016f nep\u0159isuzuje str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdm emo\u010dn\u00edm \u010di soci\u00e1ln\u00edm pochyben\u00edm, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e zdeformovan\u00e9mu soci\u00e1ln\u00edmu vn\u011bj\u0161ku. A jak na n\u011b reaguje domn\u011ble u\u017e nespraviteln\u00fd \u00a0soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vn\u011bj\u0161ek?\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 jim tvrd\u011b: \u201eJak se m\u011b \u00a0pt\u00e1te, tak j\u00e1 v\u00e1m \u00a0odpov\u00edd\u00e1m!\u201c \/dokon\u010den\u00ed 7. kapitoly\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9950,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[134,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ctenarska-sekce","category-medunka"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10098"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10098\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10103,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10098\/revisions\/10103"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9950"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}