{"id":10031,"date":"2024-06-21T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-21T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/?p=10031"},"modified":"2024-06-21T13:41:06","modified_gmt":"2024-06-21T13:41:06","slug":"kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojemedunka.cz\/index.php\/2024\/06\/21\/kdo-je-stastny-je-i-zdravy-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdo je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je i zdrav\u00fd&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>J<strong>sou tady dal\u0161\u00ed kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 kapitoly z knihy <em>Phdr. Petra Novotn\u00e9ho<\/em>, klinick\u00e9ho psychologa, kter\u00fd se dlouhodb\u011b v\u011bnuje zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed souvislost\u00ed mezi vznikem nemoc\u00ed a psychikou a chov\u00e1n\u00edm a jedn\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bka&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Propaguj svoje&nbsp; sebeuchov\u00e1n\u00ed!<\/strong><br>V&nbsp;nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00edm zobecn\u011bn\u00ed rozhoduj\u00ed stresov\u00e9 hormony o nemocn\u00e9m bez nemocn\u00e9ho, a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b, ani\u017e by to pov\u011bt\u0161inou tu\u0161il, i o jeho p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00e9 smrti.<br>Nezaujat\u00fd a pozorn\u00fd \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 mo\u017en\u00e1 usoud\u00ed, \u017ee jde jednozna\u010dn\u011b o sebedestrukci nemocn\u00e9ho, proto\u017ee kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fdm spou\u0161t\u011b\u010dem&nbsp; nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 nemoci jsou jeho stresov\u00e9 hormony, kter\u00e9 neuv\u011bdomovan\u011b nebo z&nbsp;nedbalosti a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho udr\u017eoval v&nbsp;nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 koncentraci.<br>V&nbsp;ide\u00e1ln\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b si aspo\u0148 uv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b bezbrann\u00fd, kdy\u017e sv\u00fdmi emo\u010dn\u00edmi a soci\u00e1ln\u00edmi korekcemi zm\u011bn\u00ed hladiny stresov\u00fdch i \u0161\u0165astliveck\u00fdch hormon\u016f ve sv\u00e9m krevn\u00edm \u0159e\u010di\u0161ti.<br>A kdy\u017e tento \u010dlov\u00ed\u010dek, nap\u0159\u00edklad mu\u017e ve st\u0159edn\u00edm v\u011bku, jen\u017e pr\u00e1v\u011b utekl hrobn\u00edkovi z&nbsp;lopaty, proto\u017ee zkorigoval k&nbsp;lep\u0161\u00edmu svoje kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u00ed procesy, tak ten a\u0165 zak\u0159i\u010d\u00ed do ve\u0159ejn\u00e9ho prostoru, by\u0165 p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b s Hippokratem a Avicennou za z\u00e1dy: \u201eNemoci pln\u00ed z&nbsp;v\u016fle matky p\u0159\u00edrody v\u00fdznamn\u00fd korektivn\u00ed \u00fakol, jen\u017e paradoxn\u011b zabezpe\u010duje uchov\u00e1n\u00ed a rozvoj lidsk\u00e9ho druhu!\u201c<br>A kdy\u017e se mu za toto vol\u00e1n\u00ed budou vysm\u00edvat, a\u0165 p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b bouchne p\u011bst\u00ed do stolu a zak\u0159i\u010d\u00ed: \u201eNemoc je nez\u00e1visl\u00fdm korektivn\u00edm procesem, kter\u00fd se nikdy nepoda\u0159\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9mu v\u011bd\u00e1torovi vyko\u0159enit, ani kdyby se stav\u011bl na u\u0161i!\u201c<br>A dostane-li strach, aby mu snad n\u011bkdo mocn\u00fd nezav\u0159el jednou prov\u017edy \u00fasta, tak a\u0165 aspo\u0148 za\u0161ept\u00e1 do zasychaji\u00edc\u00ed vrbi\u010dky na b\u0159ehu potoka: \u201eZejm\u00e9na \u017eivotu nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 nemoci se rychle transformuj\u00ed, aby zareagovaly na sofistikovan\u00e9 strategie klasick\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010dby, \u010d\u00edm\u017e si p\u0159ed n\u00ed udr\u017euj\u00ed bezpe\u010dn\u00fd n\u00e1skok!\u201c &nbsp;<br>Nez\u00e1vislost, strategie a chytrystiky nemoc\u00ed lze podstatn\u011b objektivn\u011bji odez\u0159\u00edt nap\u0159\u00edklad ze ztr\u00e1ty \u00fa\u010dinnosti kdysi velmi vlivn\u00fdch a \u00fa\u010dinn\u00fdch l\u00e9k\u016f. I zku\u0161en\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159i \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: \u201ePod\u00e1vejte nov\u00e9 l\u00e9ky rychle, dokud je\u0161t\u011b p\u016fsob\u00ed!\u201c<br>Nikdo nep\u0159echytra\u010d\u00ed nadlouho matku p\u0159\u00edrodu ani nezma\u0159\u00ed jej\u00ed odv\u011bk\u00e9 p\u0159etahova\u010dky s&nbsp;nemocemi a l\u00e9\u010dbou. Kdyby, nedej b\u016fh, na tato odv\u011bk\u00e1 kl\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00edroda rezignovala, tak bychom tu z\u00e1hy u\u017e nebyli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Sebevra\u017eedn\u00e1 cytokinov\u00e1 bou\u0159e<\/strong><br>Trp\u011bliv\u00fd \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 jist\u011b promine krati\u010dk\u00fd, by\u0165 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159sky \u00a0zjednodu\u0161en\u00fd v\u00fdlet do sv\u011bta v\u011bdy, jen\u017e prokazuje, \u017ee o z\u00e1va\u017enou nemoc a n\u011bkdy i o p\u0159ed\u010dasnou smrt se mus\u00ed zaslou\u017eit p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm jeho organismus. To se potvrdilo v\u00a0podob\u011b takzvan\u00e9 <em>cytokinov\u00e9 bou\u0159e<\/em>,kter\u00e1 s\u00a0velk\u00fdm d\u016frazem ude\u0159ila v\u00a0dob\u011b covidov\u00e9 a zastihla n\u00e1s podle sv\u00e9ho o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed zcela nep\u0159ipraven\u00e9.\u00a0<br>P\u0159i <em>cytokinov\u00e9<\/em> <em>bou\u0159i<\/em> byly naka\u017een\u00fdm soub\u011b\u017en\u011b t\u011b\u017ece po\u0161kozov\u00e1ny nap\u0159\u00edklad pl\u00edce, ledviny anebo j\u00e1tra, co\u017e \u010dasto zp\u016fsobovalo jejich smrt. Jak a pro\u010d se to d\u011blo? \u00a0Za <em>cytokinovou bou\u0159i<\/em> byl ozna\u010den slo\u017eit\u00fd a nestabiln\u00ed soubor jev\u016f prov\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed n\u00e1kazu Covidem 19, kdy doch\u00e1zelo k z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9mu po\u0161kozov\u00e1n\u00ed jmenovan\u00fdch i jin\u00fdch org\u00e1n\u016f.\u00a0<br>Za cytokiny je ozna\u010dov\u00e1na skupina protein\u016f podn\u011bcuj\u00edc\u00edch razantn\u00ed imunitn\u00ed odpov\u011bdi organismu po vniknut\u00ed infekce. Cytokiny nej\u010dast\u011bji nastupuj\u00ed jako \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e1 zbra\u0148 proti vir\u016fm s dopomoc\u00ed bun\u011bk imunitn\u00edho syst\u00e9mu. V dob\u011b covidov\u00e9 se v\u0161ak tyto proteiny zachovaly v\u016f\u010di lidsk\u00e9mu organismu n\u011bkdy nespolehliv\u011b a dokonce i zr\u00e1dcovsky, kdy\u017e nam\u00edsto uzdravov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00e9 naka\u017een\u00e9, pov\u011bt\u0161inou v\u0161ak u\u017e jinak z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9 nemocn\u00e9 usmrcovaly. Kl\u00ed\u010dovou roli v\u00a0tomto procesu sehr\u00e1vala molekula IL-6, jen\u017e je paradoxn\u011b nezbytn\u00e1 k\u00a0tvrd\u00e9 imunitn\u00ed odpov\u011bdi v\u016f\u010di infekci. Pokud v\u0161ak bylo vir\u016f u\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho, byly vychytralej\u0161\u00ed anebo odoln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, pak imunitn\u00ed syst\u00e9m z\u00a0dosud nezn\u00e1m\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f zpanika\u0159il, a podle m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed v\u011bdc\u016f takzvan\u011b zhloupnul, kdy\u017e vychrlil a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho molekul IL-6 i nadbytek dal\u0161\u00edch cytokin\u016f.<br>Pod t\u00edhou <em>cytokinov\u00e9 bou\u0159e<\/em> ztr\u00e1cel imunitn\u00ed syst\u00e9m a pota\u017emo cel\u00fd organismus orientaci pro adekv\u00e1tn\u00ed imunitn\u00ed odvetu a posl\u00e9ze i svou funk\u010dnost, tak\u017ee selh\u00e1val. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b jinak nemocn\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u011b\u017ece ob\u00e9zn\u00ed um\u00edrali i na plicn\u00edch ventil\u00e1torech v d\u016fsledku dechov\u00e9 nedosta\u010divosti anebo n\u00e1sledkem embolie v\u00a0org\u00e1nech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Vlastnosti t\u011b\u017ece nemocn\u00fdch<\/strong><br>P\u0159erod psychick\u00e9ho str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed do str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed fyzick\u00e9ho, jen\u017e m\u00e1 podobu konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed nemoci, pozoruji ve sv\u00e9 praxi \u010dasto, by\u0165 n\u011bkdy i v\u00a0kuri\u00f3zn\u00edcch podob\u00e1ch.<br>Patn\u00e1ctiletou d\u00edvku, st\u0159edo\u0161kola\u010dku, ke mn\u011b p\u0159ivedla jej\u00ed matka, jej\u00ed\u017e n\u011bkdej\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtel d\u00edvenku u\u017e na po\u010d\u00e1tku \u0161koln\u00edho v\u011bku pod z\u00e1minkou mas\u00e1\u017ee sexu\u00e1ln\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edval. Ub\u011bhla \u0159ada let a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edvka zapo\u010dala ud\u00e1lostmi z d\u011btstv\u00ed drsn\u011b psychicky str\u00e1dat. Matka ji podez\u00edrala, \u017ee p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o sebevra\u017ed\u011b, a tak ji ke mn\u011b p\u0159ivedla.<br>D\u00edvka se takzvan\u011b po\u0161kozovala, kdy\u017e se velmi bolestiv\u011b, v\u011bt\u0161inou a\u017e do krv\u00e1cen\u00ed kousala do p\u0159edlokt\u00ed. Fyzick\u00e1 bolest ji pr\u00fd na jist\u00fd \u010das zbavovala nesnesiteln\u00e9ho str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed \u00a0psychick\u00e9ho.<br>\u010casto m\u011b \u00a0nav\u0161t\u011bvuj\u00ed onkologicky nemocn\u00ed. Z\u0159ejm\u011b, proto, \u017ee\u00a0 jsem o rakovin\u011b napsal n\u011bkolik kn\u00ed\u017eek, a dv\u011b z\u00a0nich ve spolupr\u00e1ci s\u00a0onkologem prof. MUDr. Milo\u0161em Pe\u0161kem, CSc. P\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1m v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 jinak nemocn\u00e9 \u00a0a i psychicky str\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00ed \u00a0klienty.<br>Kdy\u017e prohl\u00ed\u017e\u00edm kazuistiky z\u00edskan\u00e9 od onkologicky nemocn\u00fdch za p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b patn\u00e1ct let, vybavuj\u00ed se mi p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b dva nezam\u011bniteln\u00e9 typy mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een. Snad proto, \u017ee vyjevovali v\u00a0podstat\u011b identick\u00e9 osobnostn\u00ed deficity a rovn\u011b\u017e p\u0159izn\u00e1vali obdobn\u00e9 zdroje sv\u00fdch stres\u016f a str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed. \u00a0N\u011bkter\u00e9 jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy probouzej\u00ed dojem, jako by byly ps\u00e1ny p\u0159es kop\u00edr\u00e1k.<br>Nap\u0159\u00edklad se jednalo o mu\u017ee vyrostl\u00e9 bez otc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se sice u\u017e p\u0159ehoupli za hranice st\u0159edn\u00edho v\u011bku p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b a\u017e k\u00a0p\u011bta\u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtce, bohu\u017eel v\u0161ak i se sv\u00fdm adolescentn\u00edm narcismem, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed lehkomyslnost\u00ed, egoismem, emo\u010dn\u00ed nezralost\u00ed a bezradnost\u00ed.<br>Projevovali partnerskou neohrabanost, neopatrnost, nespolehlivost, lehkov\u00e1\u017enost i emo\u010dn\u00ed tvrdost a nedok\u00e1zali sv\u00fdm partnerk\u00e1m poskytnout pocit soci\u00e1ln\u00edho bezpe\u010d\u00ed. T\u00edm takzvan\u011b trkali do sv\u00e9 i jejich \u00a0emo\u010dn\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed reality.<br>Je\u0161t\u011b t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed to m\u00edvaj\u00ed obdobn\u011b zabarven\u00ed, ale u\u017e podstatn\u011b star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017ei. <em>Jsem na tom psychicky \u0161patn\u011b, st\u00e1le c\u00edt\u00edm nevolnost, <\/em>napsal mi 62let\u00fd mu\u017e. Kdy\u017e ke mn\u011b p\u0159i\u0161el, zjistil jsem, co asi v\u00a0jeho p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b psychick\u00e1 nevolnost vyjad\u0159uje. \u010cty\u0159ikr\u00e1t se rozvedl, by\u0165 jeho \u010dtvrt\u00e1 man\u017eelka mu kone\u010dn\u011b porodila vytou\u017een\u00e9ho syna.<br>Tento klient sv\u00e9ho otce sice prokl\u00ednal pro jeho brutalitu, s\u00e1m se v\u0161ak v\u016f\u010di\u00a0dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edmu synovi choval stejn\u011b, tak\u017ee se p\u0159estali setk\u00e1vat. Kontakty se synovou \u00a0matkou pova\u017eoval za ztr\u00e1tu \u010dasu. Jeho obchodn\u00ed partne\u0159i, kter\u00e9 vyko\u0159is\u0165oval, ho nakonec okradli. Kdy\u017e onemocn\u011bl rakovinou plic, nena\u0161el se nikdo, kdo by mu pomohl v b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch nesn\u00e1z\u00edch<em>.<\/em><br>Obdobn\u011b bolestn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed deficity vyjevovaly tak\u00e9 onkologicky diagnostikovan\u00e9 d\u00e1my ve st\u0159edn\u00edm a i ve vy\u0161\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku, je\u017e b\u00fdvaly v\u00a0d\u011btstv\u00ed n\u011bkdy tak h\u00fd\u010dk\u00e1ny a\u017e byly p\u0159eh\u00fd\u010dk\u00e1ny, a to pov\u011bt\u0161inou sv\u00fdmi tat\u00ednky.<br>V\u00a0jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech b\u00fdvaly lehkomyslnou v\u00fdchovou naprogramov\u00e1ny v\u00fdhradn\u011b k cest\u00e1m na pohodln\u00fdch a proslun\u011bn\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch \u00a0chodn\u00ed\u010dc\u00edch, tak\u017ee si b\u00fdvaly p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho jisty, \u017ee se jejich dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u017eivot stane proch\u00e1zkou r\u016f\u017eovou zahradou. By\u0165 u\u017e p\u0159ekro\u010dily \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtku, soci\u00e1ln\u011b a emo\u010dn\u011b ustrnuly obdobn\u011b jako mu\u017ei na adolescentn\u00ed v\u011bkov\u00e9 hranici.<br>B\u011b\u017en\u00e1 \u017eivotn\u00ed praxe jim p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ela roz\u010darov\u00e1n\u00ed a stresy, kter\u00e9 se pov\u011bt\u0161inou rodily z partnersk\u00e9ho selh\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Za iluze o v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sce bez z\u00e1sluh zaplatily p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm sv\u00fdm \u017eensk\u00fdm \u0161t\u011bst\u00edm, obt\u00ed\u017enou nemoc\u00ed a n\u011bkdy dokonce \u017eivotem. Mu\u017esk\u00fd sv\u011bt hodnotlily v p\u0159evaze jako po\u017eiva\u010dn\u00fd, neomalen\u00fd, nespravedliv\u00fd, hrub\u00fd a a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 sebev\u011bdom\u00fd a nep\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fd, proto\u017ee nepost\u0159ehly neodstraniteln\u00e9 funkce mu\u017esk\u00e9 odli\u0161nosti a neuvedly se s\u00a0n\u00ed do souladu.<br>Bylo n\u00e1padn\u00e9, \u017ee soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u00ed v\u00fdvoj obdobn\u011b osobnostn\u011b zabarven\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een neodpov\u00eddal jejich skute\u010dn\u00e9mu v\u011bku, na co\u017e po \u010dase nep\u0159\u00edzniv\u011b zareagovali jejich partnerky anebo partne\u0159i a obdobn\u011b drsn\u011b i jejich bl\u00edzk\u00e9 \u010di vzd\u00e1len\u011bj\u0161\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed.<br>Nelze se bez odvetn\u00fdch n\u00e1sledk\u016f chovat k\u00a0partnerovi jako rozmazlen\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka nebo jako narcistn\u00ed ho\u0161\u00edk je\u0161t\u011b mezi \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtkou a pades\u00e1tkou. I velmi trp\u011bliv\u00ed partne\u0159i \u010di partnerky jim \u010dasem odep\u0159eli nap\u0159\u00edklad l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 ope\u010dov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, rozmazlov\u00e1n\u00ed, erotick\u00fd z\u00e1jem i zdvo\u0159ilostn\u00ed n\u00e1klonnost, anebo partnerstv\u00ed drsn\u011b rozbili, \u010d\u00edm\u017e \u00a0je vystavili siln\u00e9mu stresu.<br>\u010cty\u0159i kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e1 partnersk\u00e1 pojidla &#8211; <strong>v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148, l\u00e1ska p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a \u00facta<\/strong> nefunguj\u00ed na principu perpetuum mobile, tak\u017ee \u00a0nejsou do\u017eivotn\u011b dop\u0159\u00e1v\u00e1ny bez z\u00e1sluh a ve stejn\u011b senza\u010dn\u00ed kvalit\u011b. <strong>Kdo chce v\u00a0t\u011bchto ohledech hodn\u011b dost\u00e1vat, mus\u00ed to s\u00e1m rozhoj\u0148ovat a \u00a0rozd\u00e1vat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>                                                                                                   \/pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jsou tady dal\u0161\u00ed kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 kapitoly z knihy Phdr. Petra Novotn\u00e9ho, klinick\u00e9ho psychologa, kter\u00fd se dlouhodb\u011b v\u011bnuje zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed souvislost\u00ed mezi vznikem nemoc\u00ed a psychikou a chov\u00e1n\u00edm a jedn\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bka&#8230; Propaguj svoje&nbsp; sebeuchov\u00e1n\u00ed!V&nbsp;nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00edm zobecn\u011bn\u00ed rozhoduj\u00ed stresov\u00e9 hormony o nemocn\u00e9m bez nemocn\u00e9ho, a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b, ani\u017e by to pov\u011bt\u0161inou tu\u0161il, i o jeho p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00e9 smrti.Nezaujat\u00fd a pozorn\u00fd \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 mo\u017en\u00e1 usoud\u00ed, \u017ee jde jednozna\u010dn\u011b o sebedestrukci nemocn\u00e9ho, proto\u017ee kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fdm spou\u0161t\u011b\u010dem&nbsp; nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 nemoci jsou jeho stresov\u00e9 hormony, kter\u00e9 neuv\u011bdomovan\u011b nebo z&nbsp;nedbalosti a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho udr\u017eoval v&nbsp;nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 koncentraci.V&nbsp;ide\u00e1ln\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b si aspo\u0148 uv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b bezbrann\u00fd, kdy\u017e sv\u00fdmi emo\u010dn\u00edmi a soci\u00e1ln\u00edmi korekcemi zm\u011bn\u00ed hladiny stresov\u00fdch i \u0161\u0165astliveck\u00fdch hormon\u016f ve sv\u00e9m krevn\u00edm \u0159e\u010di\u0161ti.A kdy\u017e tento \u010dlov\u00ed\u010dek, nap\u0159\u00edklad mu\u017e ve st\u0159edn\u00edm v\u011bku, jen\u017e pr\u00e1v\u011b utekl hrobn\u00edkovi z&nbsp;lopaty, proto\u017ee zkorigoval k&nbsp;lep\u0161\u00edmu svoje kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u00ed procesy, tak ten a\u0165 zak\u0159i\u010d\u00ed do ve\u0159ejn\u00e9ho prostoru, by\u0165 p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b s Hippokratem a Avicennou za z\u00e1dy: \u201eNemoci pln\u00ed z&nbsp;v\u016fle matky p\u0159\u00edrody v\u00fdznamn\u00fd korektivn\u00ed \u00fakol, jen\u017e paradoxn\u011b zabezpe\u010duje uchov\u00e1n\u00ed a rozvoj lidsk\u00e9ho druhu!\u201cA kdy\u017e se mu za toto vol\u00e1n\u00ed budou vysm\u00edvat, a\u0165 p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b bouchne p\u011bst\u00ed do stolu a zak\u0159i\u010d\u00ed: \u201eNemoc je nez\u00e1visl\u00fdm korektivn\u00edm procesem, kter\u00fd se nikdy nepoda\u0159\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9mu v\u011bd\u00e1torovi vyko\u0159enit, ani kdyby se stav\u011bl na u\u0161i!\u201cA dostane-li strach, aby mu snad n\u011bkdo mocn\u00fd nezav\u0159el jednou prov\u017edy \u00fasta, tak a\u0165 aspo\u0148 za\u0161ept\u00e1 do zasychaji\u00edc\u00ed vrbi\u010dky na b\u0159ehu potoka: \u201eZejm\u00e9na \u017eivotu nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 nemoci se rychle transformuj\u00ed, aby zareagovaly na sofistikovan\u00e9 strategie klasick\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010dby, \u010d\u00edm\u017e si p\u0159ed n\u00ed udr\u017euj\u00ed bezpe\u010dn\u00fd n\u00e1skok!\u201c &nbsp;Nez\u00e1vislost, strategie a chytrystiky nemoc\u00ed lze podstatn\u011b objektivn\u011bji odez\u0159\u00edt nap\u0159\u00edklad ze ztr\u00e1ty \u00fa\u010dinnosti kdysi velmi vlivn\u00fdch a \u00fa\u010dinn\u00fdch l\u00e9k\u016f. I zku\u0161en\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159i \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: \u201ePod\u00e1vejte nov\u00e9 l\u00e9ky rychle, dokud je\u0161t\u011b p\u016fsob\u00ed!\u201cNikdo nep\u0159echytra\u010d\u00ed nadlouho matku p\u0159\u00edrodu ani nezma\u0159\u00ed jej\u00ed odv\u011bk\u00e9 p\u0159etahova\u010dky s&nbsp;nemocemi a l\u00e9\u010dbou. Kdyby, nedej b\u016fh, na tato odv\u011bk\u00e1 kl\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00edroda rezignovala, tak bychom tu z\u00e1hy u\u017e nebyli. 3. Sebevra\u017eedn\u00e1 cytokinov\u00e1 bou\u0159eTrp\u011bliv\u00fd \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 jist\u011b promine krati\u010dk\u00fd, by\u0165 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159sky \u00a0zjednodu\u0161en\u00fd v\u00fdlet do sv\u011bta v\u011bdy, jen\u017e prokazuje, \u017ee o z\u00e1va\u017enou nemoc a n\u011bkdy i o p\u0159ed\u010dasnou smrt se mus\u00ed zaslou\u017eit p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm jeho organismus. To se potvrdilo v\u00a0podob\u011b takzvan\u00e9 cytokinov\u00e9 bou\u0159e,kter\u00e1 s\u00a0velk\u00fdm d\u016frazem ude\u0159ila v\u00a0dob\u011b covidov\u00e9 a zastihla n\u00e1s podle sv\u00e9ho o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed zcela nep\u0159ipraven\u00e9.\u00a0P\u0159i cytokinov\u00e9 bou\u0159i byly naka\u017een\u00fdm soub\u011b\u017en\u011b t\u011b\u017ece po\u0161kozov\u00e1ny nap\u0159\u00edklad pl\u00edce, ledviny anebo j\u00e1tra, co\u017e \u010dasto zp\u016fsobovalo jejich smrt. Jak a pro\u010d se to d\u011blo? \u00a0Za cytokinovou bou\u0159i byl ozna\u010den slo\u017eit\u00fd a nestabiln\u00ed soubor jev\u016f prov\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed n\u00e1kazu Covidem 19, kdy doch\u00e1zelo k z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9mu po\u0161kozov\u00e1n\u00ed jmenovan\u00fdch i jin\u00fdch org\u00e1n\u016f.\u00a0Za cytokiny je ozna\u010dov\u00e1na skupina protein\u016f podn\u011bcuj\u00edc\u00edch razantn\u00ed imunitn\u00ed odpov\u011bdi organismu po vniknut\u00ed infekce. Cytokiny nej\u010dast\u011bji nastupuj\u00ed jako \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e1 zbra\u0148 proti vir\u016fm s dopomoc\u00ed bun\u011bk imunitn\u00edho syst\u00e9mu. V dob\u011b covidov\u00e9 se v\u0161ak tyto proteiny zachovaly v\u016f\u010di lidsk\u00e9mu organismu n\u011bkdy nespolehliv\u011b a dokonce i zr\u00e1dcovsky, kdy\u017e nam\u00edsto uzdravov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00e9 naka\u017een\u00e9, pov\u011bt\u0161inou v\u0161ak u\u017e jinak z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9 nemocn\u00e9 usmrcovaly. Kl\u00ed\u010dovou roli v\u00a0tomto procesu sehr\u00e1vala molekula IL-6, jen\u017e je paradoxn\u011b nezbytn\u00e1 k\u00a0tvrd\u00e9 imunitn\u00ed odpov\u011bdi v\u016f\u010di infekci. Pokud v\u0161ak bylo vir\u016f u\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho, byly vychytralej\u0161\u00ed anebo odoln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, pak imunitn\u00ed syst\u00e9m z\u00a0dosud nezn\u00e1m\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f zpanika\u0159il, a podle m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed v\u011bdc\u016f takzvan\u011b zhloupnul, kdy\u017e vychrlil a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho molekul IL-6 i nadbytek dal\u0161\u00edch cytokin\u016f.Pod t\u00edhou cytokinov\u00e9 bou\u0159e ztr\u00e1cel imunitn\u00ed syst\u00e9m a pota\u017emo cel\u00fd organismus orientaci pro adekv\u00e1tn\u00ed imunitn\u00ed odvetu a posl\u00e9ze i svou funk\u010dnost, tak\u017ee selh\u00e1val. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b jinak nemocn\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad t\u011b\u017ece ob\u00e9zn\u00ed um\u00edrali i na plicn\u00edch ventil\u00e1torech v d\u016fsledku dechov\u00e9 nedosta\u010divosti anebo n\u00e1sledkem embolie v\u00a0org\u00e1nech. 4. Vlastnosti t\u011b\u017ece nemocn\u00fdchP\u0159erod psychick\u00e9ho str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed do str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed fyzick\u00e9ho, jen\u017e m\u00e1 podobu konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed nemoci, pozoruji ve sv\u00e9 praxi \u010dasto, by\u0165 n\u011bkdy i v\u00a0kuri\u00f3zn\u00edcch podob\u00e1ch.Patn\u00e1ctiletou d\u00edvku, st\u0159edo\u0161kola\u010dku, ke mn\u011b p\u0159ivedla jej\u00ed matka, jej\u00ed\u017e n\u011bkdej\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtel d\u00edvenku u\u017e na po\u010d\u00e1tku \u0161koln\u00edho v\u011bku pod z\u00e1minkou mas\u00e1\u017ee sexu\u00e1ln\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edval. Ub\u011bhla \u0159ada let a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edvka zapo\u010dala ud\u00e1lostmi z d\u011btstv\u00ed drsn\u011b psychicky str\u00e1dat. Matka ji podez\u00edrala, \u017ee p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o sebevra\u017ed\u011b, a tak ji ke mn\u011b p\u0159ivedla.D\u00edvka se takzvan\u011b po\u0161kozovala, kdy\u017e se velmi bolestiv\u011b, v\u011bt\u0161inou a\u017e do krv\u00e1cen\u00ed kousala do p\u0159edlokt\u00ed. Fyzick\u00e1 bolest ji pr\u00fd na jist\u00fd \u010das zbavovala nesnesiteln\u00e9ho str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed \u00a0psychick\u00e9ho.\u010casto m\u011b \u00a0nav\u0161t\u011bvuj\u00ed onkologicky nemocn\u00ed. Z\u0159ejm\u011b, proto, \u017ee\u00a0 jsem o rakovin\u011b napsal n\u011bkolik kn\u00ed\u017eek, a dv\u011b z\u00a0nich ve spolupr\u00e1ci s\u00a0onkologem prof. MUDr. Milo\u0161em Pe\u0161kem, CSc. P\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1m v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 jinak nemocn\u00e9 \u00a0a i psychicky str\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00ed \u00a0klienty.Kdy\u017e prohl\u00ed\u017e\u00edm kazuistiky z\u00edskan\u00e9 od onkologicky nemocn\u00fdch za p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b patn\u00e1ct let, vybavuj\u00ed se mi p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b dva nezam\u011bniteln\u00e9 typy mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een. Snad proto, \u017ee vyjevovali v\u00a0podstat\u011b identick\u00e9 osobnostn\u00ed deficity a rovn\u011b\u017e p\u0159izn\u00e1vali obdobn\u00e9 zdroje sv\u00fdch stres\u016f a str\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed. \u00a0N\u011bkter\u00e9 jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy probouzej\u00ed dojem, jako by byly ps\u00e1ny p\u0159es kop\u00edr\u00e1k.Nap\u0159\u00edklad se jednalo o mu\u017ee vyrostl\u00e9 bez otc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se sice u\u017e p\u0159ehoupli za hranice st\u0159edn\u00edho v\u011bku p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b a\u017e k\u00a0p\u011bta\u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtce, bohu\u017eel v\u0161ak i se sv\u00fdm adolescentn\u00edm narcismem, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed lehkomyslnost\u00ed, egoismem, emo\u010dn\u00ed nezralost\u00ed a bezradnost\u00ed.Projevovali partnerskou neohrabanost, neopatrnost, nespolehlivost, lehkov\u00e1\u017enost i emo\u010dn\u00ed tvrdost a nedok\u00e1zali sv\u00fdm partnerk\u00e1m poskytnout pocit soci\u00e1ln\u00edho bezpe\u010d\u00ed. T\u00edm takzvan\u011b trkali do sv\u00e9 i jejich \u00a0emo\u010dn\u00ed a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed reality.Je\u0161t\u011b t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed to m\u00edvaj\u00ed obdobn\u011b zabarven\u00ed, ale u\u017e podstatn\u011b star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017ei. Jsem na tom psychicky \u0161patn\u011b, st\u00e1le c\u00edt\u00edm nevolnost, napsal mi 62let\u00fd mu\u017e. Kdy\u017e ke mn\u011b p\u0159i\u0161el, zjistil jsem, co asi v\u00a0jeho p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b psychick\u00e1 nevolnost vyjad\u0159uje. \u010cty\u0159ikr\u00e1t se rozvedl, by\u0165 jeho \u010dtvrt\u00e1 man\u017eelka mu kone\u010dn\u011b porodila vytou\u017een\u00e9ho syna.Tento klient sv\u00e9ho otce sice prokl\u00ednal pro jeho brutalitu, s\u00e1m se v\u0161ak v\u016f\u010di\u00a0dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edmu synovi choval stejn\u011b, tak\u017ee se p\u0159estali setk\u00e1vat. Kontakty se synovou \u00a0matkou pova\u017eoval za ztr\u00e1tu \u010dasu. Jeho obchodn\u00ed partne\u0159i, kter\u00e9 vyko\u0159is\u0165oval, ho nakonec okradli. Kdy\u017e onemocn\u011bl rakovinou plic, nena\u0161el se nikdo, kdo by mu pomohl v b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch nesn\u00e1z\u00edch.Obdobn\u011b bolestn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed deficity vyjevovaly tak\u00e9 onkologicky diagnostikovan\u00e9 d\u00e1my ve st\u0159edn\u00edm a i ve vy\u0161\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku, je\u017e b\u00fdvaly v\u00a0d\u011btstv\u00ed n\u011bkdy tak h\u00fd\u010dk\u00e1ny a\u017e byly p\u0159eh\u00fd\u010dk\u00e1ny, a to pov\u011bt\u0161inou sv\u00fdmi tat\u00ednky.V\u00a0jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech b\u00fdvaly lehkomyslnou v\u00fdchovou naprogramov\u00e1ny v\u00fdhradn\u011b k cest\u00e1m na pohodln\u00fdch a proslun\u011bn\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch \u00a0chodn\u00ed\u010dc\u00edch, tak\u017ee si b\u00fdvaly p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho jisty, \u017ee se jejich dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u017eivot stane proch\u00e1zkou r\u016f\u017eovou zahradou. By\u0165 u\u017e p\u0159ekro\u010dily \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtku, soci\u00e1ln\u011b a emo\u010dn\u011b ustrnuly obdobn\u011b jako mu\u017ei na adolescentn\u00ed v\u011bkov\u00e9 hranici.B\u011b\u017en\u00e1 \u017eivotn\u00ed praxe jim p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ela roz\u010darov\u00e1n\u00ed a stresy, kter\u00e9 se pov\u011bt\u0161inou rodily z partnersk\u00e9ho selh\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Za iluze o v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sce bez z\u00e1sluh zaplatily p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm sv\u00fdm \u017eensk\u00fdm \u0161t\u011bst\u00edm, obt\u00ed\u017enou nemoc\u00ed a n\u011bkdy dokonce \u017eivotem. Mu\u017esk\u00fd sv\u011bt hodnotlily v p\u0159evaze jako po\u017eiva\u010dn\u00fd, neomalen\u00fd, nespravedliv\u00fd, hrub\u00fd a a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 sebev\u011bdom\u00fd a nep\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fd, proto\u017ee nepost\u0159ehly neodstraniteln\u00e9 funkce mu\u017esk\u00e9 odli\u0161nosti a neuvedly se s\u00a0n\u00ed do souladu.Bylo n\u00e1padn\u00e9, \u017ee soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a emo\u010dn\u00ed v\u00fdvoj obdobn\u011b osobnostn\u011b zabarven\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een neodpov\u00eddal jejich skute\u010dn\u00e9mu v\u011bku, na co\u017e po \u010dase nep\u0159\u00edzniv\u011b zareagovali jejich partnerky anebo partne\u0159i a obdobn\u011b drsn\u011b i jejich bl\u00edzk\u00e9 \u010di vzd\u00e1len\u011bj\u0161\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed.Nelze se bez odvetn\u00fdch n\u00e1sledk\u016f chovat k\u00a0partnerovi jako rozmazlen\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka nebo jako narcistn\u00ed ho\u0161\u00edk je\u0161t\u011b mezi \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtkou a pades\u00e1tkou. I velmi trp\u011bliv\u00ed partne\u0159i \u010di partnerky jim \u010dasem odep\u0159eli nap\u0159\u00edklad l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 ope\u010dov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, rozmazlov\u00e1n\u00ed, erotick\u00fd z\u00e1jem i zdvo\u0159ilostn\u00ed n\u00e1klonnost, anebo partnerstv\u00ed drsn\u011b rozbili, \u010d\u00edm\u017e \u00a0je vystavili siln\u00e9mu stresu.\u010cty\u0159i kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e1 partnersk\u00e1 pojidla &#8211; v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148, l\u00e1ska p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a \u00facta nefunguj\u00ed na principu perpetuum mobile, tak\u017ee \u00a0nejsou do\u017eivotn\u011b dop\u0159\u00e1v\u00e1ny bez z\u00e1sluh a ve stejn\u011b senza\u010dn\u00ed kvalit\u011b. 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